Anyone who thinks that guys are only interested in talking about sports and cars is seriously out of touch. My close friends and I rap about relationships all the time. The conversations arent always especially sophisticated, but many women would probably be surprised about how honest guys are in the company of friends. Here are four popular discussion topics: Are boys meaner than girls? I don't know. One thing I do know: I would happily listen to Rachel McAdams talk ish about me all day long. 1) Your bedroom prowess. Newsflash: men like talking about sex. However, in my experience women are actually much more graphic in describing their partners strengths and weaknesses. With guys it usually doesnt go much further than Dude, shes awesome in the sack, or Dude, she just lays there. Here's what hes thinking the first time you have sex! 2) How often you call. Im constantly listening to my friends complain about how often their girlfriends call. Theres a fine line between attentiveness and smothering. 3) Your romantic history. When one of my homies starts gushing about his new girl, the first thing I ask about is her track record. Is she on the rebound? Is she a serial monogamist? Has she lived with someone before? Is she still friends with her ex? There is no right answer to any of these questionsIm just trying to get a sense of where shes coming from. 4) Your friends. Obviously, its a bonus if theyre cute and single. But if a girl has annoying friends that means Im going to avoid my buddy when hes hanging out with them. Remember, youre defined by the company you keep. Does any of this surprise you? What do YOU say behind our backs?