Do not treat a friend like your love when you know clearly you can't date him/her

Sia Cathbeth

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Habari.
Hivi inakuwaje mtu(rafiki) unamtreat mtu kama mpenzi ilihali unajua huwezi kuwa naye kama mpenzi? Swala hili lipo kwetu vijana wa sasa unajua fika huyu ni rafiki but kutwa unamtangaza kwa marafiki wengine hata ndugu,utasikia SHEMEJI au WIFI yenu huyu why?

Wataka kujionyesha wajua mapenzi alafu sisi binadamu bwana unakuta wale marafiki wanaitikia faster KARIBU SHEMEJI/WIFI KINAFIKI. Bila aibu tuanaficha maovu. Hivi huyo Mwanaume/mwanamke unayemtambulisha hivyo hujui utamwasiri kisaikolojia pale ugakapo malizia shughuli yako.

Na nyie wanafiki unajuaje huyo anaweza kuwa mumeo/mkeo kesho na unajua fika mtambulishaji ni muongo.
Ina huzunisha sana. Ebu kama hii inakuhusu na upo na mtu anakuchukulia rafiki lakini anakutreat kama mke/mume muulize ana mpango gani nawe umri unaenda, usipoteze muda kungoja tambua dhamani yako.

ANOTHER MAN SHIT IS ANOTHER MAN I KNEW YOU WERE THE ONE FROM DAY ONE.
NYIE WANAFIKI MUACHE MNACHOCHEA UKUWAJI WA MAGONJWA NA FAMILIA ZISIZO NA MAADILI NDO MAANA KUNA MATATIZO KAMA HAYA:
[HASHTAG]#School[/HASHTAG] drop out
# Street children
# poor family
# violence
# ndoa kuvunjika
[HASHTAG]#ongezeko[/HASHTAG] la umaskini
Nyingi sana.


Sia Cathbeth
 
Mie imenitokea kwa msichana fulani hivi ambaye nilimpenda na nikaona kuwa anafaa kuwa mke...akanikubalia ila baada baadae akaja kuniambia kuwa sifai...tukawa marafiki wa kawaida cha ajabu kuna siku kanipigia simu saa tano za usiku akakuta inatumika ...eti akaamua kuniblock watsapp...sms hajibu ...simu hapokei...hadi leo.
 
Mie imenitokea kwa msichana fulani hivi ambaye nilimpenda na nikaona kuwa anafaa kuwa mke...akanikubalia ila baada baadae akaja kuniambia kuwa sifai...tukawa marafiki wa kawaida cha ajabu kuna siku kanipigia simu saa tano za usiku akakuta inatumika ...eti akaamua kuniblock watsapp...sms hajibu ...simu hapokei...hadi leo.
Usikubali kurudishwa nyuma na hisia dhaifu wengine bado hawajajua kujipenda. Huwezi kumpenda mtu kama hujipendi huenda ulikuwa option kwake ndo maana alipokuambia hufai bado haitishi. Ukweli utabaki pale huwezi piga kelele moto unakuchoma na huku unajiwashoa mwenyewe be a man of your own words. Si kwamba wewe utakuwa adui no bali utajijenga kujipenda na kujua una dhamani kubwa. Usi baki uking'ang'ania shina ilihali lishakuachia pepea ukatue patulivu.
 
Kuwa na rafiki kutokuwa nao ni jambo binafsi. Kibinadamu lazima uwe na marafiki ili uweze kuishi though at times is critical hard to copy but still tunawahitaji ili tu push our level up. Huwezi ishi kivyakovyako my dear.
Huo urafiki ndio unawafanya mlete haya malalamiko hapa
 
Habari.
Hivi inakuwaje mtu(rafiki) unamtreat mtu kama mpenzi ilihali unajua huwezi kuwa naye kama mpenzi? Swala hili lipo kwetu vijana wa sasa unajua fika huyu ni rafiki but kutwa unamtangaza kwa marafiki wengine hata ndugu,utasikia SHEMEJI au WIFI yenu huyu why? Wataka kujionyesha wajua mapenzi alafu sisi binadamu bwana unakuta wale marafiki wanaitikia faster KARIBU SHEMEJI/WIFI KINAFIKI. Bila aibu tuanaficha maovu. Hivi huyo Mwanaume/mwanamke unayemtambulisha hivyo hujui utamwasiri kisaikolojia pale ugakapo malizia shughuli yako. Na nyie wanafiki unajuaje huyo anaweza kuwa mumeo/mkeo kesho na unajua fika mtambulishaji ni muongo.
Ina huzunisha sana. Ebu kama hii inakuhusu na upo na mtu anakuchukulia rafiki lakini anakutreat kama mke/mume muulize ana mpango gani nawe umri unaenda, usipoteze muda kungoja tambua dhamani yako.
ANOTHER MAN SHIT IS ANOTHER MAN I KNEW YOU WERE THE ONE FROM DAY ONE.
NYIE WANAFIKI MUACHE MNACHOCHEA UKUWAJI WA MAGONJWA NA FAMILIA ZISIZO NA MAADILI NDO MAANA KUNA MATATIZO KAMA HAYA:
[HASHTAG]#School[/HASHTAG] drop out
# Street children
# poor family
# violence
# ndoa kuvunjika
[HASHTAG]#ongezeko[/HASHTAG] la umaskini
Nyingi sana.


Sia Cathbeth
Anyway umeandika vizuri ingawa una kiswahili kibovu mno
 
Friend-zoned huh, Sia? Anyway, when you think you have it bad, just think of Meek Mill and you'll be all right.
 
Sina rafiki wa kike wala wa kiume, nina majirani na watu wa Kusaidiana wakati wa shida bhaaasi. Sihitaji urafiki
 
Nilishakuitwaga dada na mimi nikakubali. ikafika kipindi nikablock namba zangu zote ili nisimpate. sasa cha ajabu namba zake zipo kichwani najaribu kuzifuta hapo pamenishindwa
 
Habari.
Hivi inakuwaje mtu(rafiki) unamtreat mtu kama mpenzi ilihali unajua huwezi kuwa naye kama mpenzi? Swala hili lipo kwetu vijana wa sasa unajua fika huyu ni rafiki but kutwa unamtangaza kwa marafiki wengine hata ndugu,utasikia SHEMEJI au WIFI yenu huyu why? Wataka kujionyesha wajua mapenzi alafu sisi binadamu bwana unakuta wale marafiki wanaitikia faster KARIBU SHEMEJI/WIFI KINAFIKI. Bila aibu tuanaficha maovu. Hivi huyo Mwanaume/mwanamke unayemtambulisha hivyo hujui utamwasiri kisaikolojia pale ugakapo malizia shughuli yako. Na nyie wanafiki unajuaje huyo anaweza kuwa mumeo/mkeo kesho na unajua fika mtambulishaji ni muongo.
Ina huzunisha sana. Ebu kama hii inakuhusu na upo na mtu anakuchukulia rafiki lakini anakutreat kama mke/mume muulize ana mpango gani nawe umri unaenda, usipoteze muda kungoja tambua dhamani yako.
ANOTHER MAN SHIT IS ANOTHER MAN I KNEW YOU WERE THE ONE FROM DAY ONE.
NYIE WANAFIKI MUACHE MNACHOCHEA UKUWAJI WA MAGONJWA NA FAMILIA ZISIZO NA MAADILI NDO MAANA KUNA MATATIZO KAMA HAYA:
[HASHTAG]#School[/HASHTAG] drop out
# Street children
# poor family
# violence
# ndoa kuvunjika
[HASHTAG]#ongezeko[/HASHTAG] la umaskini
Nyingi sana.


Sia Cathbeth
Yamekukuta nn tena dada
 
Yamekukuta nn tena dada
What i write is within the society, it might not have happened to you or me but its there am writing what's is happening on planet earth don't comment if you have less influential on your ability to see what the society is facing. Am here to educate not to write my personal story.
Act polite and friendly if you have nothing to say scroll down don't comment.
 
What i write is within the society, it might not have happened to you or me but its there am writing what's is happening on planet earth don't comment if you have less influential on your ability to see what the society is facing. Am here to educate not to write my personal story.
Act polite and friendly if you have nothing to say scroll down don't comment.
With all due respect for your insight, you must also see the other side as to why one would a person treat the other as a lover? there could lot of answers to that question. If a person is in need of establishing a long lasting love relationship would definetly treat a person as lover however along the way he might discover that the person he or she devoted to is not ideal he or she expected to get into or rather wished he or she was. I treat a person as a lover hoping she is an ideal candidate for my heart, if turns out wrong i definetly will not date with that person. Being teated as lover its probation period because you hardly know what the future hold for you.
 
With all due respect for your insight, you must also see the other side as to why one would a person treat the other as a lover? there could lot of answers to that question. If a person is in need of establishing a long lasting love relationship would definetly treat a person as lover however along the way he might discover that the person he or she devoted to is not ideal he or she expected to get into or rather wished he or she was. I treat a person as a lover hoping she is an ideal candidate for my heart, if turns out wrong i definetly will not date with that person. Being teated as lover its probation period because you hardly know what the future hold for you.
The issue comes when you find out he/she is not the type you expected why go silent. I guess it better to speak stop hold on and taking advantage of people feelings worst of all introducing to him/her to people as your lover yet in plain white you know that is never gonna happen. I like what you said though.
 
Usikubali kurudishwa nyuma na hisia dhaifu wengine bado hawajajua kujipenda. Huwezi kumpenda mtu kama hujipendi huenda ulikuwa option kwake ndo maana alipokuambia hufai bado haitishi. Ukweli utabaki pale huwezi piga kelele moto unakuchoma na huku unajiwashoa mwenyewe be a man of your own words. Si kwamba wewe utakuwa adui no bali utajijenga kujipenda na kujua una dhamani kubwa. Usi baki uking'ang'ania shina ilihali lishakuachia pepea ukatue patulivu.
Ahsante ndg yngu kwa ushauri.
 
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