Jamani wanajanvi, nimepata hii email asubuhi hii kutoka kwa shost wangu, and belive me ijaweza kumshauri chochote maana sijapata muda wa kufikiria na it seems she is really disturbed and need urgent advice, naomba tuchangie kwa upana ili nijue ntamshauri nini. Jamani msiniulize maswali mengine maana sitaweza kuyajibu, nami nimeisoma na kuibandika hapa kama ilivyo sina more detail na huu haukuwa muda mwafaka kwa mimi kumuuliza maswali zaidi, tumsaidie maana najua JF mambo yote I woke up this morning very peaceful after a night of prayers and prayed all the way through on my way to work, praying for him, for God to give him health, to give him confidence and courage, for God to protect him and keep his memory so that he pass his exams. When I reached the office I remembered that I had to text him and inquire about his night, if he slept well and also to tell him that the 10,000 he left me when he was leaving is not enough because there was no cooking oil in the house, there was no flour and milk for our 1 year daughter. No money to buy water and also daily expenses as you know 1kg of meat now goes up to 4000 not to mention tomatoes, snacks for tea and all that. So I asked him to give me a password for one of his two ATM cards he left me in case of emergency as he said when he was leaving. He said no, that is only for emergency, the money I left you should be enough for all those things. Can you imagine I was fasting for the last two days and was determined to continue until he finishes his exams just to pray for my dear husband so that he passes, I am asking myself is it really worth it to fast and pray for this kind of a husband, even if he passes his exam and have a more better life than now, even if he gets more money than he has now, with this attitude, will his family benefit from it. I am in dilemma, what should I do with him, does it need a counselor to show him that 10000 is not enough to leave to your family for one week while he is away? Tell me does it need an economist to do calculation and advice on that? I could understand it if he has no money but he does have money in the banks, I mean he can more than afford but I dont know if he is mean or what. I am fade up I am thinking of separation, please advice.