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What was meant to be a moment
of joy for a bride in Wante Village
in Mayuge District (about 125km
southeast of Kampala) turned into
sorrow after her groom arrived on
a boda boda (motorcycle).
Ms Jamawa Nambi was expecting
her fiancé, Mr Ali Malik, to turn
up in a convoy of vehicles.
She broke down before passing
out, moments after she received
news that he had arrived
unaccompanied.
“I don’t believe this. Something
wrong must have happened to
him. I was with him last week
when he was talking to a taxi man
on phone! If he had failed [to get
vehicles] he would have informed
me,” Ms Nambi was heard saying
before fainting.
Family sources revealed the
couple, who have one child, had
been cohabiting and had sought to
formalise their relationship,
prompting Ms Nambi to ask her
family to prepare for a traditional
wedding ceremony ( kwanjula ).
The source further said because
Nambi was the first girl in the
family to seek to formalise her
relationship, they [family] had
invested heavily in trying to make
the function memorable.
The family is said to have
organised a dance and served
neighbours a sumptuous meal on
Saturday night.
The shock
They were, however, shocked
when Malik arrived at around
3pm (+3GMT) on a boda boda and
remained unnoticed on the
roadside where the cyclist had
parked, until one of his brothers-
in-law saw him and notified the
family.
This brought disdain with some
members asking for him to be
chased away until when he could
afford better means of transport.
After a crisis meeting, they
agreed to welcome him to avoid
more shame.
Matters got complicated though,
when Malik presented $40
(USh100,000) as bride price and
gave 10 tunics ( kanzus ), 10 kg of
sugar and 20 sachets of salt, as
gifts.
When put to task, Malik, a
fisherman, told his in-laws that he
had deliberately not spent so
much, in order for him to save
money to start a business for
their daughter.
That eased the pressure, but the
function that had been scheduled
to end at 7pm did not quite go as
planned.
Nambi was promptly handed over
to Malik who left with her on a
boda boda within an hour after
arrival.- African Review
 
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huhuhuhuuhuuuhu
 
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Too much expectations is problem among many women
 
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What was meant to be a moment
of joy for a bride in Wante Village
in Mayuge District (about 125km
southeast of Kampala) turned into
sorrow after her groom arrived on
a boda boda (motorcycle).
Ms Jamawa Nambi was expecting
her fiancé, Mr Ali Malik, to turn
up in a convoy of vehicles.
She broke down before passing
out, moments after she received
news that he had arrived
unaccompanied.
“I don’t believe this. Something
wrong must have happened to
him. I was with him last week
when he was talking to a taxi man
on phone! If he had failed [to get
vehicles] he would have informed
me,” Ms Nambi was heard saying
before fainting.
Family sources revealed the
couple, who have one child, had
been cohabiting and had sought to
formalise their relationship,
prompting Ms Nambi to ask her
family to prepare for a traditional
wedding ceremony ( kwanjula ).
The source further said because
Nambi was the first girl in the
family to seek to formalise her
relationship, they [family] had
invested heavily in trying to make
the function memorable.
The family is said to have
organised a dance and served
neighbours a sumptuous meal on
Saturday night.
The shock
They were, however, shocked
when Malik arrived at around
3pm (+3GMT) on a boda boda and
remained unnoticed on the
roadside where the cyclist had
parked, until one of his brothers-
in-law saw him and notified the
family.
This brought disdain with some
members asking for him to be
chased away until when he could
afford better means of transport.
After a crisis meeting, they
agreed to welcome him to avoid
more shame.
Matters got complicated though,
when Malik presented $40
(USh100,000) as bride price and
gave 10 tunics ( kanzus ), 10 kg of
sugar and 20 sachets of salt, as
gifts.
When put to task, Malik, a
fisherman, told his in-laws that he
had deliberately not spent so
much, in order for him to save
money to start a business for
their daughter.
That eased the pressure, but the
function that had been scheduled
to end at 7pm did not quite go as
planned.
Nambi was promptly handed over
to Malik who left with her on a
boda boda within an hour after
arrival.- African Review
kweli we need men like him! hatuwezi kufunga harusi watu washibe halafu within a week niwagongee washikaji hela ya familia kula! go go broo peleka kitu yako geto kwa usafiri wa sh 2000 tu!
 
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kweli we need men like him! hatuwezi kufunga harusi watu washibe halafu within a week niwagongee washikaji hela ya familia kula! go go broo peleka kitu yako geto kwa usafiri wa sh 2000 tu!
Haya ni maamuzi magumu
 
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Ye alitaka ndoa au misafara ya magari?
 
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sijui nani aliwafundisha maharusi kutumia magari ya kifahari wakati sio maisha harisi wanayoishi

Bujibuji boda boda inahusu sana kwa watu wa vipato vya chini
 
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Aisee nimempenda huyo mwanaume bure ni baba na mume anaejali maendeleo ya familia yake....
 
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kilichomfanya azimie nini si ni usafiri kama usafiri mwingine ulivyo mm hata akija na pembetatu ilimradi kasafiri kuja kufunga ndoa si eti mentor?
 
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Aliamua kuweka kumbukumbu hasa kwa siku yake hiyo adhimu bila shaka hakuna atakaesahau siku hiyo au vipiiiiiiiii!!!!
 

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