Behind any frustrated man there is a woman

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Samahani waungwana ila a few monts ago nimeanza kubugia pombe kama maji. Nilikuwa nimemwamini sana mke wangu. nilimpa asilimia mia moja. nami baada ya ndoa sijawahi kumsaliti sasa yeye kaamua kutoka na my best friend. jamaa yangu kawaona live wanatoka guest house akaja kunambia. mimi nilikuwa na mashaka na mahusiano ya mke wangu na rafiki yangu tangu muda mrefu kwa sababu nikiwa na mke wangu nikikutana na rafiki yangu mwizi, mke wangu anaangalia chini na hawezi kabisa kumtizama jamaa. sasa imethibitika mke wangu anananihiwa na rafiki yangu. Sijamwambia kitu hadi sasa ila nimeanza kunywa pombe kama maji. Na hapa JF naomba msinishauri kuâcha pombe. Nimeweka thread hii kuwatahadharisha wale wenye ujinga kama wangu wa kumwamini mke 100%. Samahani yawezekana kuna wanawake waaminifu pia. Ila nimeacha kabisa kufanya the needful na mke wangu. hata akiwa uchi namwona kama mwanamme mwenzangu tu. Sijui kama nitakuja kugusa K maishani. Kila nikijisikia kudo nakamata bia. Kwaherini akina dada. Ninajua JF mna hekima na busara ila kwa sasa sihitaji ushauri wowote. Am married to vodka. Nawaasa tu wale walioweka 100% kwa wake zao. YAMENIKUTA. Naomba kuwasilisha wakuu.
 

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Duh! Kwanza pole sana kama uliyosimulia yamekukuta kweli. Kwa mwanaume kuwa 'cuckolded' ni mbaya sana.

Pili, pombe si suluhisho la tatizo. Hata unywe dumu zima la Vodka matatizo yako yatabaki palepale. Unaweza ukawa kwenye dunia ingine kwa muda tu lakini ikiisha unarudi kwenye uhalisia wa hali halisi.

Tatu, kuna watu ambao wana abuse trust wanayopewa na wenza wao. Mwenzako akijua unamwamini mno kiasi cha kwamba akikwambia chochote wewe unakubali, hayo ndo matatizo yake. Kwa ufupi, binadamu haaminiki.

Nne, acha pombe (ingawa umesema hutaki ushauriwe hivyo) na songa mbele na maisha yako. Achana na huyo mwanamke. Hafai kuwa mke wa mtu. Anafaa kuwa kicheche tu. Unabaruza halafu unatambaa.
 

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Mkuu Vegule welcome to the club.cha msingi 2mshukuru aliyekaa chini na kupata formular ya alcohol.
But alcohol is so provisional...and then once sober you are back to square one. Actually chances are that it can compound the problem (talking about excessive drinking)
 

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hebu mwache, halafu uone jinsi huyo unaemwita best friend wako atakavyofanya....trust me, nae atasepa.
 

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Pole sana insikitisha kusoma story yako ila ni mambo ya kwaida,

ila naomba kuuliza kweli hajagundua unakunywa sana na kuuliza kwa nini?

mie nimeona wanaumewengi wanapitia hii ila wengi sio na best friend.

itabidi siku moja umwambie rafiki yako maneno haya 'ninajua' alafu mwachie uone ndumba katika yake na mkeo yaani, atamsumulia mkeo then utaona watakavyo react wape hard times pia as wataogopa kukuuliza ufafanuzi wa neno hilo la ninajua

kisha angalia drama yote, ila ingekuwa mie ningetafuta msichana nje wa kuniliwaza pia,pombe sio solution ndugu yangu. ila kumbuka kujikinga. huu sio mwisho wa dunia usijitese kwa raha za hao waliokufanyia mabaya.

Ndio maana kuna divorce, hata kwenye biblia imesemwa juu ya issue hii.

jamani acha kunywa pombe acha una future nzuri ahead of you, move on kama unaona inakusumbua ila akikisha unaongea na mtu juu ya hili jambo mtu wa karibu wazazi, siblings au in short mtu atakayekusaidia through this drama kiakili, kiafya na kwa kukusikiliza na kukusaidia ushauri
 

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Huyo mke ndiyo wale mnaokutana nao mtaani na kuanza maisha au ndoa bomani bila baraka za wazazi? Jamaa umelizilia mke na hivyo linaendelea kufaidi kwa kwenda mbele! Sijaona sehemu yoyote kulichimba mkwala. Limekuongezea unnecessary cost ya vinywaji otherwise kama uko lab ya TBL. Kwa jinsi hiyo wagoni wataendelea kutanua
 

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Ili watoto wao wateseke sio?
so for this one its ok baba ateseke lakini wengine hapana sio?

Hata ikibidi kuachana, cha maana ni kuweka mpango mzuri na endelevu wa kuangalia watoto rather than watoto kuteseka wakiwa na baba na mama
seeing a drunk farther, fighting with a b**ch mother talking all sh!t words and ending up ruining everyones lives
 

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kama wewe kidume kweli,namtafute mke wake nae umlambe!kwa njia yoyote ile!natumai hasira itaisha na atajua kuwa nothing s impossible!life s a battle man!u ve 2 fight
 

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so for this one its ok baba ateseke lakini wengine hapana sio?

Hata ikibidi kuachana, cha maana ni kuweka mpango mzuri na endelevu wa kuangalia watoto rather than watoto kuteseka wakiwa na baba na mama
seeing a drunk farther, fighting with a b**ch mother talking all sh!t words and ending up ruining everyones lives
Thumb up broda!
 

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Infidelity in woman is a masculine trait
sure...
mkuki kwa nguruwe?naona mnavyochangia kwa machungu ...nyie mnavyopigaga nje inakuwa tamu ennh?
kwa wenzenu vdole juu afu nyie kwenu mnapongezana kw akuwa na haus ndogo nyng......NA BADO....
thou siung mkono kitendo cha dada kumsaliti jamaa.....
 

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