Bakora za wale walioolewa wazijua?


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Mwanamke aliyeolewa na akawa anapata maudhi fulani fulani kutoka kwa mumewe wajua huwa anajibu mapigo kivipi?

Dalili ya kwanza ni mapishi yanaanza kuwa bora liende........na ule ustadi uliouzoea wa mapishi yenye haiba hupotea na visingizio ni kebekebe..........................Huo ni ujumbe jirekebishe.....................................

Akiona bado unajitutumua atakuwekea gia ya pili.........................ataanza kununa na akiona husiki wala huambiliki...........ataanza kulalamika mambo kibao na pengine hata asiligusie hilo.............................linalomkwaza................................

Akiona bado................eeeeeeeeehh hata watoto kama wapo watakiona cha mtema kuni .............maana atanza kuwaadhibu kwa makosa ya ukweli na kubambikiziwa.............


Bakora yake ya mwisho ni kitandani.....................atakunyima unyumba............na visingizio ni tumbo linauma au kazi nyingi sana na siku hizi ninachoka mno...................................

Hii ikishindikana.............basi yaani sasa................just to catch your attention ...........atatafuta bwana nje.......................................

Ujumbe ni...........treat your spouses very well to enjoy your marital bliss......................
 

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Mwanamke aliyeolewa na akawa anapata maudhi fulani fulani kutoka kwa mumewe wajua huwa anajibu mapigo kivipi?

Dalili ya kwanza ni mapishi yanaanza kuwa bora liende........na ule ustadi uliouzoea wa mapishi yenye haiba hupotea na visingizio ni kebekebe..........................Huo ni ujumbe jirekebishe.....................................

Akiona bado unajitutumua atakuwekea gia ya pili.........................ataanza kununa na akiona husiki wala huambiliki...........ataanza kulalamika mambo kibao na pengine hata asiligusie hilo.............................linalomkwaza................................

Akiona bado................eeeeeeeeehh hata watoto kama wapo watakiona cha mtema kuni .............maana atanza kuwaadhibu kwa makosa ya ukweli na kubambikiziwa.............


Bakora yake ya mwisho ni kitandani.....................atakunyima unyumba............na visingizio ni tumbo linauma au kazi nyingi sana na siku hizi ninachoka mno...................................

Hii ikishindikana.............basi yaani sasa................just to catch your attention ...........atatafuta bwana nje.......................................

Ujumbe ni...........treat your spouses very well to enjoy your marital bliss......................
Umesomeka mkuu ............. hapo kwenye pink huwa na wewe unachoka pia sivyo? ............. u got to give them the benefit of doubt too!
 

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Mwanamke aliyeolewa na akawa anapata maudhi fulani fulani kutoka kwa mumewe wajua huwa anajibu mapigo kivipi?

Dalili ya kwanza ni mapishi yanaanza kuwa bora liende........na ule ustadi uliouzoea wa mapishi yenye haiba hupotea na visingizio ni kebekebe..........................Huo ni ujumbe jirekebishe.....................................

Akiona bado unajitutumua atakuwekea gia ya pili.........................ataanza kununa na akiona husiki wala huambiliki...........ataanza kulalamika mambo kibao na pengine hata asiligusie hilo.............................linalomkwaza................................

Akiona bado................eeeeeeeeehh hata watoto kama wapo watakiona cha mtema kuni .............maana atanza kuwaadhibu kwa makosa ya ukweli na kubambikiziwa.............


Bakora yake ya mwisho ni kitandani.....................atakunyima unyumba............na visingizio ni tumbo linauma au kazi nyingi sana na siku hizi ninachoka mno...................................

Hii ikishindikana.............basi yaani sasa................just to catch your attention ...........atatafuta bwana nje.......................................

Ujumbe ni...........treat your spouses very well to enjoy your marital bliss......................
Na hata pale wanapokuja wageni, hasa wageni wa upande wa kiumeni!!!unaweza kuta kajifungia chumbani tu, kama ni kahawa au soda unaweza kuta kidume ndo ukawaandalia wageni!!!!!!
 

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Umesomeka mkuu ............. hapo kwenye pink huwa na wewe unachoka pia sivyo? ............. u got to give them the benefit of doubt too!
Ndugu yangu weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh wacha tu...................................................
 

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Na hata pale wanapokuja wageni, hasa wageni wa upande wa kiumeni!!!unaweza kuta kajifungia chumbani tu, kama ni kahawa au soda unaweza kuta kidume ndo ukawaandalia wageni!!!!!!
Hii ni kweli tupu hakuna hata chembe ya chumvi hapo wajamani........................................................
 

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Tatizo lingine la ndoa za siku hizi ni kwamba mabinti wengi hawapati mafunzo ya ndoa. Kwa mfano enzi zetu sisi kabla ya kwenda kwa mume kuna mafunzo binti unapewa na makungwi kabla ya harusi, nini wajibu wako katika ndoa. Kikubwa zaidi ni kwenda kumtunza mume wako. Umpende na umuheshimu. Ni tofauti kabisa na ndoa za sasa.
 

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Na hata pale wanapokuja wageni, hasa wageni wa upande wa kiumeni!!!unaweza kuta kajifungia chumbani tu, kama ni kahawa au soda unaweza kuta kidume ndo ukawaandalia wageni!!!!!!
da wewe umesema kweli kabisa yaani live bila chenga
 

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Tatizo lingine la ndoa za siku hizi ni kwamba mabinti wengi hawapati mafunzo ya ndoa. Kwa mfano enzi zetu sisi kabla ya kwenda kwa mume kuna mafunzo binti unapewa na makungwi kabla ya harusi, nini wajibu wako katika ndoa. Kikubwa zaidi ni kwenda kumtunza mume wako. Umpende na umuheshimu. Ni tofauti kabisa na ndoa za sasa.
Umetoboa ukweli ulipo.............................
 

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ivi kweli utampendaje na kumuheshimu mtu ambaye mwenyewe heshima yake kwenye familia zero yupo tu jina baba sio kwamba watu hawana elimu ya ndoa labda uongelee watu kukimbia responsibilities zao unataka kusema wanawake wa zamani walifanya haya kwa kupenda au walikuwa hawana option na dunia ilikuwa haijafunguka kama sasa

Tatizo lingine la ndoa za siku hizi ni kwamba mabinti wengi hawapati mafunzo ya ndoa. Kwa mfano enzi zetu sisi kabla ya kwenda kwa mume kuna mafunzo binti unapewa na makungwi kabla ya harusi, nini wajibu wako katika ndoa. Kikubwa zaidi ni kwenda kumtunza mume wako. Umpende na umuheshimu. Ni tofauti kabisa na ndoa za sasa.
 

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ivi kweli utampendaje na kumuheshimu mtu ambaye mwenyewe heshima yake kwenye familia zero yupo tu jina baba sio kwamba watu hawana elimu ya ndoa labda uongelee watu kukimbia responsibilities zao unataka kusema wanawake wa zamani walifanya haya kwa kupenda au walikuwa hawana option na dunia ilikuwa haijafunguka kama sasa
Maswali magumu haya..........................
 

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sasa ukitaka kutatua tatizo lazima uanzie kwenye root cause maana utangoa majani halafu umeacha mizizi hapo utakuwa umefanya nini
 

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Tatizo lingine la ndoa za siku hizi ni kwamba mabinti wengi hawapati mafunzo ya ndoa. Kwa mfano enzi zetu sisi kabla ya kwenda kwa mume kuna mafunzo binti unapewa na makungwi kabla ya harusi, nini wajibu wako katika ndoa. Kikubwa zaidi ni kwenda kumtunza mume wako. Umpende na umuheshimu. Ni tofauti kabisa na ndoa za sasa.
Mafunzo hivi sasa nilidhani ndio yapo advanced kuliko zamani kwa sababu wataalamu wa ndoa wanamfunda bi harusi kwenye kitchen party! Au si hivyo?
 

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Mimi kabla sijamuoa shemeji yenu, siku moja alikuja kwangu tukatofautiana lugha na baadae nikamlazimisha apike, akapika huku amenuna, alichofanya ni kwamba zile mboga aliweka chumvi nyingi kiasi kwamba kwa binadamu wa kawaida huwezi tumia!!! dah, nilichoka!!!
 

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Mimi kabla sijamuoa shemeji yenu, siku moja alikuja kwangu tukatofautiana lugha na baadae nikamlazimisha apike, akapika huku amenuna, alichofanya ni kwamba zile mboga aliweka chumvi nyingi kiasi kwamba kwa binadamu wa kawaida huwezi tumia!!! dah, nilichoka!!!
Usichoke tafuta suluhu ili ufaidi...................
 

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