I happen to have developed an addiction for paying sex.The sheer excitement of going into a bar and choosing a lady of my liking a plump,slim, tall,short,dark or light and after a few words maybe a drink or two we are in a room nearby doing our thing.The fact that there are no strings or feelings involved is part of the advantage.I have been hurt a few times in relationships and this easy way of relieving myself may block me from having a normal relationship with the opposite sex.About protecting myself i always use condoms and no kissing.