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7 points to check if a gal is interested in You!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Masanilo, Feb 23, 2009.

  1. Masanilo

    Masanilo JF-Expert Member

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    How To Check If a Girl Is Really Interested in You

    If you want to start a relationship with a girl, the first thing to do is to check if she's really interested in you. The problem is that body language is not always a safe way to find this out. There are some girls who can imitate the body language of an interested girl, but they are not interested in you. They will only play with your heart and/or use you!!! Yo Yo take a note!

    These are some techniques to detect these types of "users" and that help to protect you from being used:

    1. First check out if she will give you her phone number, and if this is her true number! If she won't give you her number or it is a false one, forget her!

    2. Check out if she will go on a date with you. If she is "too busy" all the time or something like that and it is impossible to get a date with her, then she is not interested.

    3. If she is asking you to buy her a drink the first time you flirt with her, then alarms should go off in you head. Don't allow her to use you this way! Amarula, Safari, Serengeti eti nina kiu kweli leo!!

    4. If you are on a date with her do something where you don't need to spend too much money and don't bring her a present on the first date. You want her to love you as a person and not to love your presents or the fact that you pay for everything. Try to keep the temptation of using you as low as possible.

    5. After the first (or maybe the secondeven the third) date tell her something like "Well, I really enjoyed...." and so on and "Maybe we can do this again next time. You can call me..." It is important to tell HER to call YOU not beeping!!!!!because she will only call you if she is interested.

    6. Analyze if she only wants do things that make her happy. For example, if she is calling you only if she wants to have someone to repair her car, fixing here fence or something like that, but never calls you for a normal date, then think about it...

    7. If you find out that she has a boyfriend or if she even tells you that... FORGET HER! She may pretend that she is interested in you and that she might leave her boyfriend for you, but she will NEVER DO IT!!!

    Mnaweza ongezea!!!:cool:
  2. Kaizer

    Kaizer JF-Expert Member

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    Good points, but I guess this applies for those still in the hunting zone...LOL
  3. Nzokanhyilu

    Nzokanhyilu JF-Expert Member

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    - huku kijijini hakuna phone numbers, tifanyeje? Mluzi au pembe la ng'ombe inaruhusiwa kwa njia ya mawasiliano?
    - halafu kule kwa ndugu zetu wa mlimani ukimpiga ngwala imetoka, fainali kwa wazazi.
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    p53 JF-Expert Member

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    a merely generalization.not every girl is the same.so be careful!
  5. Masanja

    Masanja JF-Expert Member

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    hayo ni mapenzi ya kidhungu! Ya dating na kupelekana Addis in Dar au Sleepway..hayo tunawaachia nyinyi mkitoka majuu..mnapokuja kutafuta "wachumba" na ofcourse vile vidada vya Masaki na Obay...

    Huku kwetu uswahilini ni kumpiga swali..baada ya hapo..unaomba mkutano Rose Garden au sehemu nyingine ya "heshima". Akija hapo unajua kitaeleweka in the long run. Mnaramba bia zenu na yeye anakunywa "soda" ..baada ya hapo unaagiza kuku wa kuchoma au samaki...siku hizi wanakunywa mvinyo kwa hiyo inabidi uende umekamilika.....baada ya hapo, kama bia imefika mahala pake.....ni kuanza kuuliza vipi inakuwaje..twende kwangu? Tukapumzike...au uko busy?..ukisikia kasema.."ahh wewe hujui kesho ni siku ya kazi" Basi hapo ujue umeshapata mzigo..ni swala la timing...Ukisikia kauliza.."kwako kufanya nini?"..hapo inabidi uanze ku-think big..you might be out of the picture after all...