Ancestors are your parents of your parents grand grand parents they want good for you. They are like your guardian angels who have your best interests at heart. They play an important role in your life. It is of paramount importance to listen to their injunctions and lead a righteous life. Even in scriptures it it written that respect your father and mother so your days be extended on the land of the living.
Most people aspire to get married and walk down the aisle with the live of their lives. Regrettably this is not always the case as ancestors may not approve of your partner. This applies to both males and females. They can block all avenues because of your partner whom they do not approve.
Others argue that ancestors control one's life... They do not control our lives but they want good for you. It is not controlling as we see it. Even you as a parent you want what is good for your children as you do not want to see your children to do wrong decisions of choosing the the wrong partner to marry.
It is important to note that the wrath of choosing wrong life partners does not happen apply everyone. In most cases it applied to the chosen ones who have special gifts passed on to them by their ancestors.
Your ancestors can vehemently reject your partner because of various reasons namely :
1. Your partner comes with inherited deep rooted family issues.
There's a great possibility of that happening, some people come with inherited family issues or you are not adhering to what you are called for, or when there are disasters in the foreseeable future. Most of the time we do not adhere to the sign and live in those toxic relationships and live in doom, but most of the time there are solutions, do due diligence, do not tire to consult and know the root cause of whatever is happening between the two of you.
2. Your partner has come to bring nothing but destruction in your life.
Ancestors can forsee if your partner is coming to you with good intentions. They can see if your partner is meant for you as there are devil's agents out there who are meant to bring destruction in your life.
As long your partner does not wish you well, your ancestors will make sure that you do not become successful until he or she leaves you. Right there and then your doors will be opened from your ancestors and you will flourish. Other partners block your blessings that is why the ancestors reject them.
3. Your partner does not reunite the ancestors, they will always push him far away from you.
Some families have customs which they practice to reunite and expand the family. An example of this is when some clans allow for cousins to marry each other. The cousins need not be close immediate cousins but distant cousins who share the same lineage. They want your partner to reunite the ancestors from both families to be one again.
What happens when you turn a blind eye and revolt against your ancestors?
In short you will see flames.
If your relationship is not approved by your ancestors things will always go according to plan.Your ancestors will vuur vaai (cause havok) on your lufe until you opt for being single. You always hit a brick wall. Happiness and peace will be a foreign concept in the partnership. Businesses will collapse, jobs get lost in some mysterious ways, either one of both partners will fail dismally in their academics and people will hate the for no reason.
Actually everything becomes stagnant until you meet the right one. they close all avenues. Once you meet her/him you become broke and have bad luck in whatever you were trying to achieve. Sometimes you can see that since you met your partner nothing is going right with your life. Before crossing paths with them you were a well oiled machine but now things are in disarray.
But in all that we do we need to ask for a partner first which sadly we do not always do so. We marry the love of our lives and things fall apart from there. When this happens do not be disheartened. All hope is not lost. You can still make your marriage work, here is how :
Should you be married with your partner and your ancestors do not approve your relationship there is still a ray of hope in this quandary. You can mitigate your situation by appealing to your ancestors to bless your marriage and accept your partner.
You do this by burning sage( imphepho )and communicate with your ancestors. This is mainly done in the early hours of the morning, when you have not eaten anything and have not engaged in any intimate acts with your partner.
You plead with your ancestors and and get to understand what the problem is. At times it can be mitigated especially in instances where there is a child or children born from the marriage. It is easier because if they allowed a child/children to be there, it could mean there is a plan to change the situation.
Plead and mention all the positive things about your partner, examples of them taking good care of the family, providing for you guys, how your partner bore you children, how your partner made a home out of a house and how they genuinely want your marriage to work.
They will still be with you through thick and thin and support you even if you were to loose all materials of this world.Do this several times and excercise patience. This goes in line with your partners conduct. If they are bringing you nothing but pain then it is unlikely that your ancestors will approve. When you consult with your ancestors the answers will be revealed in due time.
Ultimately your ancestors were once on the land of the living. When they see that your partner has genuine love for you, it's all systems go. We all deserve happy endings.
Most people aspire to get married and walk down the aisle with the live of their lives. Regrettably this is not always the case as ancestors may not approve of your partner. This applies to both males and females. They can block all avenues because of your partner whom they do not approve.
Others argue that ancestors control one's life... They do not control our lives but they want good for you. It is not controlling as we see it. Even you as a parent you want what is good for your children as you do not want to see your children to do wrong decisions of choosing the the wrong partner to marry.
It is important to note that the wrath of choosing wrong life partners does not happen apply everyone. In most cases it applied to the chosen ones who have special gifts passed on to them by their ancestors.
Your ancestors can vehemently reject your partner because of various reasons namely :
1. Your partner comes with inherited deep rooted family issues.
There's a great possibility of that happening, some people come with inherited family issues or you are not adhering to what you are called for, or when there are disasters in the foreseeable future. Most of the time we do not adhere to the sign and live in those toxic relationships and live in doom, but most of the time there are solutions, do due diligence, do not tire to consult and know the root cause of whatever is happening between the two of you.
2. Your partner has come to bring nothing but destruction in your life.
Ancestors can forsee if your partner is coming to you with good intentions. They can see if your partner is meant for you as there are devil's agents out there who are meant to bring destruction in your life.
As long your partner does not wish you well, your ancestors will make sure that you do not become successful until he or she leaves you. Right there and then your doors will be opened from your ancestors and you will flourish. Other partners block your blessings that is why the ancestors reject them.
3. Your partner does not reunite the ancestors, they will always push him far away from you.
Some families have customs which they practice to reunite and expand the family. An example of this is when some clans allow for cousins to marry each other. The cousins need not be close immediate cousins but distant cousins who share the same lineage. They want your partner to reunite the ancestors from both families to be one again.
What happens when you turn a blind eye and revolt against your ancestors?
In short you will see flames.
If your relationship is not approved by your ancestors things will always go according to plan.Your ancestors will vuur vaai (cause havok) on your lufe until you opt for being single. You always hit a brick wall. Happiness and peace will be a foreign concept in the partnership. Businesses will collapse, jobs get lost in some mysterious ways, either one of both partners will fail dismally in their academics and people will hate the for no reason.
Actually everything becomes stagnant until you meet the right one. they close all avenues. Once you meet her/him you become broke and have bad luck in whatever you were trying to achieve. Sometimes you can see that since you met your partner nothing is going right with your life. Before crossing paths with them you were a well oiled machine but now things are in disarray.
But in all that we do we need to ask for a partner first which sadly we do not always do so. We marry the love of our lives and things fall apart from there. When this happens do not be disheartened. All hope is not lost. You can still make your marriage work, here is how :
Should you be married with your partner and your ancestors do not approve your relationship there is still a ray of hope in this quandary. You can mitigate your situation by appealing to your ancestors to bless your marriage and accept your partner.
You do this by burning sage( imphepho )and communicate with your ancestors. This is mainly done in the early hours of the morning, when you have not eaten anything and have not engaged in any intimate acts with your partner.
You plead with your ancestors and and get to understand what the problem is. At times it can be mitigated especially in instances where there is a child or children born from the marriage. It is easier because if they allowed a child/children to be there, it could mean there is a plan to change the situation.
Plead and mention all the positive things about your partner, examples of them taking good care of the family, providing for you guys, how your partner bore you children, how your partner made a home out of a house and how they genuinely want your marriage to work.
They will still be with you through thick and thin and support you even if you were to loose all materials of this world.Do this several times and excercise patience. This goes in line with your partners conduct. If they are bringing you nothing but pain then it is unlikely that your ancestors will approve. When you consult with your ancestors the answers will be revealed in due time.
Ultimately your ancestors were once on the land of the living. When they see that your partner has genuine love for you, it's all systems go. We all deserve happy endings.
