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Why You Should Accept Yourself the Way You Are

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Kimbweka, Jan 4, 2012.

  1. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Live in thepresent when you stop trying to change your behavior, and you'll become like achild, becoming comfortable with yourself and ultimately believing in yourself.
    Let’sconsider for a minute that your life has a rewind button and you go back intime. On retrospection of your childhood, what do you see? Do you see the same‘you’ that lives in the present? Or are you picturing a different personaltogether?
    You startedoff your life in a jovial manner as a kid, not thinking a lot and doing prettymuch whatever you wanted. As you grew up, you started getting trained to behavein a certain way and got punished whenever you diverged. This made you questionyour behavior and ultimately your own worth over a period of time. In otherwords, you started getting uncomfortable with being yourself. Today, you nolonger are that happy-go-lucky kid with carefree demeanor that you used to beonce upon a time. Instead, you think unnecessarily and excessively, more oftenwhen it is least required.
    This hasresulted in you having deep ingrained inhibitions.

    Most of you are threatened by the idea that other people are emotionally andphysically concrete than you. While this might be true in some cases, most ofthe times it is just a hurdle that YOU create. Ask yourself this – even if theyare physically or emotionally stronger, what can you do about it? The answer isdisheartening but true - nothing. You cannot control others. The only personyou can control and change is yourself.

    If you have waited for the moment to arrive when you could change yourself, youhave my congratulations because the moment has indeed arrived. That moment isNOW. Now is the moment to completely embrace yourself the way you are. Acceptthe fact that you still have that inner-kid with care a damn attitude aliveinside. Stop being an adult for once. Go back to the days of school and be akid once again. Don’t care what the world thinks of you and be absolutelycomfortable in your own skin. You need to realize that layers of rubbish havebeen piled on your mind over the years. It’s time to shake those piles off andlet your mind fly free. Understand that below these layers, your mind stilllies pure and beautiful as it was when you were a kid. Instead of taking whatothers tell you about yourself as gospel, make an effort to know yourself andform opinions of your own. Cease mending yourself all the time and start lovingyourself for who you are. Discard the negative thoughts that suppress you andavoid negative self-talk. Enlist your accomplishments and be proud of them,however meager they might be. Get up everyday and tell yourself that you lovebeing who you are.

    Believe in yourself and the world will believe in you.

    Live byyourself 2012
    Happy NewYear 2012
    Kimbweka :A S-coffee::A S-coffee:
     
  2. PakaJimmy

    PakaJimmy JF-Expert Member

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    Du!
    Mtu kaiba PassWord yako!
    Siamini kama huyu ni Kimbweka nimjuaye!

    By the Way, asante sana kwa maneno murua!
     
  3. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    PJ bado kimbweka hafikiriki

    Kumbuka.. Umdhaniae ...siye....:lol:
     
  4. AshaDii

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    PJ Kimbweka ali Evolve interest to nudity....
    Mwanzoni post zake zilikua ka mithili ya Piddy,
    alikua anapost thread hata 7 kwa siku....
    Nakumbuka nilikua nabofya tu print....lol
     
  5. AshaDii

    AshaDii Platinum Member

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    Kimbweka kuna jamaa anaitwa Manumbu.....
    Anakutafuta bana kule JLW; aliogopa kua umezolewa
    na mafuriko ya Dar....

    Asante kwa Ujumbe Mwanana wa 2012, everything noted.

    Kheri ya Mwaka Mpya Mkuu....
     
  6. Smile

    Smile JF-Expert Member

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    Kweli k
     
  7. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Asante
    Nimeshawasiliana nae unajua siku hizi huku mabondeni kila nyumba imenunua mtumbwi ili kujihami na maafa ya mafuriko yajao. We tembelea uone, kila nyumba kuna mtumbwi umepaki nje......
     
  8. AshaDii

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    Hopefully umepona na all is well and good eeh?
     
  9. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Yah , imebaki tu kila asubuhi tunazianika TV, Magodoro na Radio Juani ili kukausha unyevunyevu....:A S embarassed:
     
  10. AshaDii

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    Pole saana Kimbweka.... All the BEST!
     
  11. HorsePower

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    You are right, kwa kuongezea, ukijikubali ni rahisi pia kuwaza maendeleo badala ya kupoteza muda na pesa kwenda kufanya mambo yasiyo na tija ikiwemo plastic surgery, na kuongeza maumbile ya mwili.
     
  12. Amyner

    Amyner JF-Expert Member

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    Thanks kibweka! Such a wonderful message to us all..
     
  13. Katavi

    Katavi Platinum Member

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    Asante sana Kimbweka kwa meseji nzuri........Happy New Year!!
     
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    sweetlady JF-Expert Member

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    Asante sana, ujumbe mzuri.

    Heri ya mwaka mpya.
     
  15. Kongosho

    Kongosho JF-Expert Member

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    Asante, nisipojikubali hakuna atakayenikubali
     
  16. Mr Rocky

    Mr Rocky JF-Expert Member

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    Kibweka Happy New Year too
    Na asante sana kwa ujumbe mzuri wa kuaanza mwaka
    Umebeba maana nzito sana na naikubali
     
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