Why do women leave men?

Asprin said:
We...nani kakumabia uchangie hii sredi kwa ki-Kinyerere?...Kama hujui kiinglish, hebu kuja huku kitandani nikupige twisheni
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Babu nasikia umeiba kitufe cha LIKE naomba ukirudishe basi
 
The Finest said:
Ina maana Asha D wanawake wengi wanakuwa hawawezi kutofautisha kati ya AFFECTION na ATTRACTION???
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Wanaweza kutofautisha. Kuna ile situation ya kusema upo single a guy amekuja na vimbwanga vyote unajua kabisa he is not really your choice but you feel some sort of affection hivyo anaamua what the heck ngoja awe angalau wa mda na yeye (the guy) aridhike. Hii kitu sio nzuri affection inatokana na pity haiwezi mature, while attraction on the other hand...
 
Asha D said:
Wanaweza kutofautisha. Kuna ile situation ya kusema upo single a guy amekuja na vimbwanga vyote unajua kabisa he is not really your choice but you feel some sort of affection hivyo anaamua what the heck ngoja awe angalau wa mda na yeye (the guy) aridhike. Hii kitu sio nzuri affection inatokana na pity haiwezi mature, while attraction on the other hand...
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I got something hapo but i think it's not rare sana hapo kwenye bluu
 
The Finest said:
Hahaha BJ which excitement is that????
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Nashindwa kuielezea sana, it has to do with feelings..halafu ni automatically!..
Mfano kitu kidogo kikimix akili na kuniput off, basi pendo linafifia na penzi linakufa..halafu, so hard kurudi nyuma!!..inakuwa end of excitement na adventure inaishia hapo hapo..
 
The Finest said:
If you do not know how to make a woman feel emotional response yaani Attraction and also to feel the Gut level physical then umeula wa chuya you are going to be out of control in any relationships and willbe very likely have women leave you for the rest of you life
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You are absolutely right Gaga maana hii ATTRACTION na AFFECTION huwa inachanganya[/QUOTE]

TF,jinsi attraction na affection inavyo wa confuse kina mama ndo love na lust inavyo wa confuse kina baba.Unamtupia jicho mdada na kujisemea 'du huyu ni wangu wa milele' kumbe tamaa tu ukishamlamba unaanza kujiuliza 'what was all the fuss about?' na hiyo ni baada ya kuingia migharama kibao katika kumfukuzia na si ajabu katika kujikuza kwake cha kwanza mmekilia Dubai kama sio UK.
 
BelindaJacob said:
Nashindwa kuielezea sana, it has to do with feelings..halafu ni automatically!..
Mfano kitu kidogo kikimix akili na kuniput off, basi pendo linafifia na penzi linakufa..halafu, so hard kurudi nyuma!!..inakuwa end of excitement na adventure inaishia hapo hapo..
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I have to catch up with you nikitoka St Peters Basilica
 
Bishanga said:
You are absolutely right Gaga maana hii ATTRACTION na AFFECTION huwa inachanganya
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TF,jinsi attraction na affection inavyo wa confuse kina mama ndo love na lust inavyo wa confuse kina baba.Unamtupia jicho mdada na kujisemea 'du huyu ni wangu wa milele' kumbe tamaa tu ukishamlamba unaanza kujiuliza 'what was all the fuss about?' na hiyo ni baada ya kuingia migharama kibao katika kumfukuzia na si ajabu katika kujikuza kwake cha kwanza mmekilia Dubai kama sio UK.
ATTRACTION
AFFECTION
LOVE
LUST

Bishanga nashukuru sana kwa ufafanuzi mzuri kuna kitu nimejifunza hapoa
 
BelindaJacob said:
Nashindwa kuielezea sana, it has to do with feelings..halafu ni automatically!..
Mfano kitu kidogo kikimix akili na kuniput off, basi pendo linafifia na penzi linakufa..halafu, so hard kurudi nyuma!!..inakuwa end of excitement na adventure inaishia hapo hapo..
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Belinda dear utaacha wangapi? wanaume wote tuna mapungufu.
 
The Finest said:
TF,jinsi attraction na affection inavyo wa confuse kina mama ndo love na lust inavyo wa confuse kina baba.Unamtupia jicho mdada na kujisemea 'du huyu ni wangu wa milele' kumbe tamaa tu ukishamlamba unaanza kujiuliza 'what was all the fuss about?' na hiyo ni baada ya kuingia migharama kibao katika kumfukuzia na si ajabu katika kujikuza kwake cha kwanza mmekilia Dubai kama sio UK.
ATTRACTION
AFFECTION
LOVE
LUST

Bishanga nashukuru sana kwa ufafanuzi mzuri kuna kitu nimejifunza hapoa
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Bandeko na ngai,hivi vitufe vya 'senks' na 'likes' nani kavichapa? kenda viuza wapi? Bongo hii!
 
Mahusiano yote ya kimapenzi bahati mbaya yana hali hii. Hufikia wakati mwanamke akaona mme wake hamfai, sababu yoyote ile, hata kama mwanaume yule ni billionea au physically yuko fit kupita kiasi.

Ni kwamba katika mahusiano yoote hufikia wakati commitment ndo huwaweka watu pamoja, full stop. Wanawake mara nyingi ndo huanza kupoteza mwelekeo. Mwanaume ukishajua kuwa mkeo yuko hivyo, utatoka nje, utafanya hiki na kile, ila haisaidii. Ndoa nyingi huvunjika kipindi hikii, wengine hubaki tuu, ili mradi waendelee! Ila always kuna light at the end of the tunnel kwa wale wanaovumilina kipindi hiki.

Ni stages tu katika mahusiano, na hutegemea mtakavyoichukulia! Nobody is wrong, ila na mabadiliko ndani ya miili yanayojitokeza nje kwa mtindo huu.
 
KipimaPembe said:
Mahusiano yote ya kimapenzi bahati mbaya yana hali hii. Hufikia wakati mwanamke akaona mme wake hamfai, sababu yoyote ile, hata kama mwanaume yule ni billionea au physically yuko fit kupita kiasi.

Ni kwamba katika mahusiano yoote hufikia wakati commitment ndo huwaweka watu pamoja, full stop. Wanawake mara nyingi ndo huanza kupoteza mwelekeo. Mwanaume ukishajua kuwa mkeo yuko hivyo, utatoka nje, utafanya hiki na kile, ila haisaidii. Ndoa nyingi huvunjika kipindi hikii, wengine hubaki tuu, ili mradi waendelee! Ila always kuna light at the end of the tunnel kwa wale wanaovumilina kipindi hiki.

Ni stages tu katika mahusiano, na hutegemea mtakavyoichukulia! Nobody is wrong, ila na mabadiliko ndani ya miili yanayojitokeza nje kwa mtindo huu.
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Kipima Pembe than you for the useful post, sijui kidude cha LIKE kimeibiwa
 
Attraction vs Affection. Being a lover (attraction) is different from being a provider (affection). Put it simply attraction leads to sex. Affection leads caring and niceness but not sexual interest. When a woman feels affection for a man, the man is probably too much of a nice guy. She may think of him as just a friend or may be even a potential husband who has provider stamped all over his forehead. Affection is puppy love. Attraction is mad love and physicality.

You can determine how women view you because you are the one who chooses what type of relationship you're going to have with women. If you want to represent the provider type and having women feel affection for you ('awww') then just listen to what mainstream dating teachers say. Buy her gifts and trade your money for her time. If you want to turn her on and lead towards sex, then portray attributes of the lover. Keep money out of it, focus on raising her F.A.R.M. (female attraction response model) and remain the relational authority between the two of you.

And remember: Women like to sit at the edge of the chair. They love it! If you can make her to always sit the edge of the chair, then she will always be attracted to you.
 
EMT said:
Attraction vs Affection. Being a lover (attraction) is different from being a provider (affection). Put it simply attraction leads to sex. Affection leads caring and niceness but not sexual interest. When a woman feels affection for a man, the man is probably too much of a nice guy. She may think of him as just a friend or may be even a potential husband who has provider stamped all over his forehead. Affection is puppy love. Attraction is mad love and physicality.

You can determine how women view you because you are the one who chooses what type of relationship you're going to have with women. If you want to represent the provider type and having women feel affection for you ('awww') then just listen to what mainstream dating teachers say. Buy her gifts and trade your money for her time. If you want to turn her on and lead towards sex, then portray attributes of the lover. Keep money out of it, focus on raising her F.A.R.M. (female attraction response model) and remain the relational authority between the two of you.

And remember: Women like to sit at the edge of the chair. They love it! If you can make her to always sit the edge of the chair, then she will always be attracted to you.
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EMT I love those words which i have highlighted them with blue color
 
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