Why do People Get Married...?

For men is
bse it guarantee them unconditional sex.
to have kids.
bse it is the right time.
bse everyone else does it.
 
Have u ever watched the movie called "why did i get married" its a famous movei and one of the actress is Janet Jackson. try to get it as it may answer all of your questions.
 
[FONT=Candara, sans-serif]In his 1965 book "[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Marriage for Moderns[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]", Bowman A.H. lists a variety of reasons. Among those are:[/FONT]

  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Love[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Economic security[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Parents' wishes[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Escape from loneliness or a parental home situation[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Money [/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Companionship[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Sexual attraction[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Protection[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Notoriety[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Social position and prestige[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Gratitude[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Pity[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Spite [/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Adventure[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Common interest[/FONT]


[FONT=Candara, sans-serif]The above list means that individuals seek satisfaction in marriage not only for basic physical sexual needs but also for their [/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]basic psychological needs[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif] for:[/FONT]



  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Affection[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Belonging [/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Independence[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Achievement [/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Recognition[/FONT]
  • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Self-esteem[/FONT]


[FONT=Candara, sans-serif]People may also marry because of more comprehensive need for [/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]self-actualization[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif] which includes personal growth and personality development. [/FONT]
 
1. Wamebarehe na kuvunja ungo.
2. agizo kutoka kwa Mungu (zaeni mkaongezeke)
3. Binadamu hakuumbwa kuishi pekeyake (akamfanyia msaidizi)
4. Ukamirifu (Key and rock theory)
5. nk nk!
 
They get married in order to:
- acquire a title superior to Bachelor.
- change their marital status
 
:ballchain:

Fulfillment of divine nature of creation

Ni kitu Mungu ameweka kwa kila mwanadamu aliemuumba.....Utaachana na wazazi nawe utaambatana na mke/mume wako

Na ili kiwe na ustaarabu mzuri kikawekewa taratibu ili isifanyike kama punda, mbwa na fisi

Pia kumbuka ni taasisi ya kwanza (yaani ndoa) katika uumbaji wa Mungu kabla ya taasisi yoyote
 
Mimi kila siku namkumbuka Socrates aliyesema 'Ukioa utajuta,usipooa utajuta'.
 
For men is
bse it guarantee them unconditional sex.
to have kids.
bse it is the right time.
bse everyone else does it.

MassaiBoi unatisha. It is true that we are married for sex and kids. But were also married because we are getting carried away (everybody does it). For those of you who are not married, sex becomes very expensive while to those married sex is not only for free but available at the right time. spiritually, marrying is the the God's order to all men thus all men should comply.
 
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