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Why do People Get Married...?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by sebbybert, Mar 26, 2011.

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    sebbybert New Member

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    Why do People Get Married...?
     
  2. Tausi Mzalendo

    Tausi Mzalendo JF-Expert Member

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    are u married?
    if yes, u should know better than anybody else.
    If not, wait you will soon know.
     
  3. Shantel

    Shantel JF-Expert Member

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    Will see
     
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    masssaiboi JF-Expert Member

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    For men is
    bse it guarantee them unconditional sex.
    to have kids.
    bse it is the right time.
    bse everyone else does it.
     
  5. Wandah

    Wandah Member

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    not yet married so no comment.......!
     
  6. NOT ENOUGH

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    Have u ever watched the movie called "why did i get married" its a famous movei and one of the actress is Janet Jackson. try to get it as it may answer all of your questions.
     
  7. Gurta

    Gurta JF-Expert Member

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    [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]In his 1965 book "[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Marriage for Moderns[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]", Bowman A.H. lists a variety of reasons. Among those are:[/FONT]

    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Love[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Economic security[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Parents' wishes[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Escape from loneliness or a parental home situation[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Money [/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Companionship[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Sexual attraction[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Protection[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Notoriety[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Social position and prestige[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Gratitude[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Pity[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Spite [/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Adventure[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Common interest[/FONT]


    [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]The above list means that individuals seek satisfaction in marriage not only for basic physical sexual needs but also for their [/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]basic psychological needs[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif] for:[/FONT]



    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Affection[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Belonging [/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Independence[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Achievement [/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Recognition[/FONT]
    • [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]Self-esteem[/FONT]


    [FONT=Candara, sans-serif]People may also marry because of more comprehensive need for [/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif]self-actualization[/FONT][FONT=Candara, sans-serif] which includes personal growth and personality development. [/FONT]
     
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    People get married because they want to get married!Neeeext....!
     
  9. Elia

    Elia JF-Expert Member

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    1. Wamebarehe na kuvunja ungo.
    2. agizo kutoka kwa Mungu (zaeni mkaongezeke)
    3. Binadamu hakuumbwa kuishi pekeyake (akamfanyia msaidizi)
    4. Ukamirifu (Key and rock theory)
    5. nk nk!
     
  10. afrodenzi

    afrodenzi Platinum Member

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    Tough question
    I don't know ae
    my be because they can...
     
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    Wanataka kuibanjua amri ya sita kihalali
     
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    MAMMAMIA JF-Expert Member

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    They get married in order to:
    - acquire a title superior to Bachelor.
    - change their marital status
     
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    illi wafanye mapenzi usiku
     
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    kuepuka zinaa
     
  15. Loly

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    huna mchango wewe, walinzi je?
     
  16. NewDawnTz

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    :ballchain:

    Fulfillment of divine nature of creation

    Ni kitu Mungu ameweka kwa kila mwanadamu aliemuumba.....Utaachana na wazazi nawe utaambatana na mke/mume wako

    Na ili kiwe na ustaarabu mzuri kikawekewa taratibu ili isifanyike kama punda, mbwa na fisi

    Pia kumbuka ni taasisi ya kwanza (yaani ndoa) katika uumbaji wa Mungu kabla ya taasisi yoyote
     
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    Bishanga JF-Expert Member

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    Mimi kila siku namkumbuka Socrates aliyesema 'Ukioa utajuta,usipooa utajuta'.
     
  18. Mama Brian

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    Ha ha ha! sina mbavu kwa kucheka.
     
  19. St. Paka Mweusi

    St. Paka Mweusi JF-Expert Member

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    Unaniangusha mtaalam wangu,kwani ambao hawajaoa hawafanyi mapenzi usiku?Mbona madada poa karibu wote huanza kuonekana mitaani kagiza kanapoingia??
     
  20. Mzalendo Mkuu

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    MassaiBoi unatisha. It is true that we are married for sex and kids. But were also married because we are getting carried away (everybody does it). For those of you who are not married, sex becomes very expensive while to those married sex is not only for free but available at the right time. spiritually, marrying is the the God's order to all men thus all men should comply.
     
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