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Why do opposites attract?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Boflo, Jul 25, 2012.

  1. Boflo

    Boflo JF-Expert Member

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    [HR][/HR] I've heard so many people say that their partners are totally opposite to them in personality, but instead of causing conflict, the relationship seems to work perfectly.

    Do you think these 'opposites' complete each other and make for a better relationship than if you chose someone similar to you?
     
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    fafanua kidogo mkuu, sijakupata vizuri pengine hicho kidhungu kinanipa shida
     
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    Kikubwa kwenye mahusiano ni kuvumiliana, uvumilivu ukiwepo mtakuwa wamoja kwenye kila kitu
     
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    let me help you wapi haujaelewa mkuu?
     
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    swali juu ya swali, haya bana!
     
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    upo haya nasubiri hiyo sehemu ya kukuelewesha
     
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    niandikie kwa kiswahili mada nzima manake sijaielewa
     
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    enter google translation
     
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    mkuu kumbuka wakalimani wanalipwa kiufupi anasema amesikia watu wengi wakisema wenza wanaotofautiana kimuonekano
    sio tu husababisha migongano bali mahusianu huwa imara. je unafakiri utofauti huo unaimalisha uhusiano kuliko kumchagua mnaendana? Hivyo ndivyo nilivyoelewa mimi
     
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    Tayari mdau kapistrano kaniweka sawa, vidhungu vyetu vya kuungaunga hivi vinaleta shida sometimes
     
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    Unaweza kunitafsiria KIMAKONDE tafadhali? Kifupi sijakusoma:disapointed:
     
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    Mmh from my experience sio kweli cause mkiwa hamuendani mtakua mnagombana daily..mfano:mimi ni muongeaji sana halafu partner wangu awe mkimya sana au mimi napenda utani then partner wangu yuko serious mda wote si tutakua tunagombana kila wakati?mkiwa mnaendana kwa kiasi fulani ni rahisi sana kucope with each other..
     
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    Boflo
    ... In general, people are attracted to compatible matches who are also a little bit different than them. You don't want to be with someone who's exactly the same as you are.

    The thing a lot of people look for in someone, the reason we think that opposites attract is when we date someone, we're looking to fill a void that's missing in ourselves. But think about it: the opposite ends of a magnet attract. Just because you're aggressive, in life and in bed, doesn't mean you'll want that in someone. For you, a compatible match might be someone who's not aggressive, but who likes being treated aggressively.

    Think about the number of times that nice guy ended up going out with the girl no one likes. Or the sweet girl ended up dating the big jerk. Yeah, some girls like 'bad guys' but something is making them pick the same person routinely. Maybe she wants to be bad. Or maybe you like the challenge of getting her attention.
     
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    jamani inaonekana watu hamjamuelewa Boflo,mi nimemuelewa kuliko maneno yake yanavyoweza kueleza!kifupi Boflo ni kama anauliza yeye ni mwanaume kwani kuna shida gani akiamua "kutolewa" na mwanaume mwenzake!si ndio Boflo unataka tukujibu hapo?
     
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    LOL :D. lakini Boflo alisema ana mke kwenye thread hii hapa mke-ananichapa

    opposites compliment each other and produce synergy, thats why it works.
     
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    Hii naikubali hata mimi na ninaamini opposite atracts apposite...hamuwezi kulingana kila kitu mkavutiana lazima kuwepo na utofauti...
     
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