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Who's more compromising?? Men or Women??

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    hashycool JF-Expert Member

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    Who's really more compromising in a relationship?? Men or Women??.

    Generally speaking, that is!!!

    I tend to think it's men.

    When the string is pulled too tight and about to break, men usually let go. Men, more often than not, walk away from the fight. Why??... Because they think with their heads. They know they could do more damage…. if the fight escalates.

    Women, on the other hand, usually get taken over by emotions and stop thinking rationally, and when that happens, they really can do some crazy things. Ask me!!! We men know that...... That’s why we walk away.

    At least that’s my experience!!

    But at the end of the day, for a relationship to last, it has to be based on give and take. You can’t take and not give, or you can’t give one and take ten!!!!

    It would be nice if we can have it our way…. all the time!!! But....forget it, that will never, ever happen!!!

    what do you have to say about that?...
     
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    Generally i think its men sababu wengi wao ndio they do damage
     
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    mmhhh so men think with their head,what do women think with Hashy???
    most of the time men are the trouble maker's so they normaaly leave because they can't control what they have caused....although some men get scared that they might be beaten by their wives.........:boxing::boxing:
     
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    Ohooo real?

    "Eboo!!! Kumbe ni DO-ONCE sio DO-WANS".

     
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    :A S-rose:
     
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    Khee Kheee Kheeee you are my sister but i am scared one day you might :boxing::boxing::boxing::fencing::fencing:
     
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    back to topic!!!!
     
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    are we really the trouble makers?..
     
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    I think so, what do you think???
     
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    Women were more compromising then men 10 to 12 years ago but not anymore...they want everything that men have and would try to asset their dominance wherever they can...as a general women have become more cold hearted rather than having nerves of steel
     
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    Why do you think women have changed?
     
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    Women these days tend to me more independent. They want more from their lives and want to choose how they live. This could be once reason for the increasing divorce statistics. Women no longer just accept things the way they are; if they are unhappy in their marriage they won't take it. Could this be one positive of increasing divorce for women? This independence has also meant many more single women....l.o.l
     
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    oh yes we are independent....we want to make our own decisions and see them respected.....we want freedom to do what we have always dream of.....we do not want men deciding everything for us.....the more we get educated,manage to have good jobs,become aware of our rights.....the more difficult it gets for men who want us to do whatever they want.....men have to learn that women of the 21st century are different from women of the past centuries....lol
     
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    Do women COMPROMISE when the waiter drops the check?
    Do women COMPROMISE and pay alimony?
    Do women COMPROMISE and pay child support?
    Do women COMPROMISE about leaving the seat up?
    Do women COMPROMISE on Valentine's Day?
    Do women buy men diamond rings too?
    talaka nyingi huwa initiated by WOMEN!!
    That's not a "compromise".
    Men are more interested than women in making it work.
    Women are not even close to men.
    Until you are prepared to accept the same amount of responsibilities as men in the event a marriage fails women can stop pretending........
     
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    Leo sikuwezi Hashy......umeamua.......l.o.l

    :wave::wave::wave::wave::wave::wave::wave: byeee,meet you on friday........stay well.
     
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    hope you come back and answer my questions...l.o.l
     
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    kaka hawa watu wanapenda sana kulalamika out of nothing......l.o.l
     
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