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Wewe unasemaje kuhusu hili

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Kimbweka, Aug 18, 2011.

  1. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Ni kweli watoto wanalelewa pasipo baba yao huwa anti-social?

    Soma hapa chini


    Without dads, kids grow up to become anti-social
    A new study has shown that fathers play a crucial in the development of children - and that without a dad present in the crucial first stage of life, offspring grow up to be less sociable.

    Previous studies have shown that girls reach puberty younger, become sexually active earlier and are more likely to get pregnant in their teens if their fathers are absent when they were young.

    Other work has suggested that sons of missing dads have lower self-esteem later in life.

    The latest study looked for biological changes in laboratory mice when they were raised without fathers.

    A team at McGill University Health Centre in Montreal, Canada, used a strain of mice, which, like people, are usually monogamous and tend to rear their young pups together.

    They removed the fathers from some of the mouse pups three days after birth until they were weaned at 30 to 40 days old.

    The scientists, led by Dr Gabriella Gobbi, then analysed the behaviour and brain cells of the pups - and compared them to mice brought up with both parents.

    Brain cells in the ''single parent'' mice had a muted response to the ''cuddle hormone' oxytocin, a feel-good chemical released in the brain during sex or moments of intimacy.

    That meant they were less likely to feel positive when in the company of others. The fatherless mice were also more anti-social.

    "Usually if you put two animals in the same cage they investigate and touch each other, but when we put to animals deprived of a father together they ignored each other," New Scientist quoted Gobbi as saying.

    Her colleague Francis Bambico presented the work at the World Congress of Biological Psychiatry in Paris, France, in early July.

    The scientists are unsure whether the same biological changes take place in human children raised without a father - and whether the findings are applicable to people.

    In the strain of mice used in the experiment, the fathers lick and groom the young pups more than the mothers do. Because grooming affects the development of pups, it could be the lack of physical contact that cause the changes in the brain, the researchers say.

    The finding follows another study, which showed that men experience a huge surge in oxytocin after a child is born.

    Dr Ruth Feldman of Bar-Ilan University in Ramat-Gan, Israel tested oxytocin levels of 80 couples before a child was born and six months afterwards. She found that levels of the feel-good chemical rose in mothers and fathers after the arrival of a child.

    The chemical affected the parents in different ways.

    Mothers with the highest levels spent much longer gazing at their children, stroking and kissing them and speaking in a "sing song" voice, she found.
    Dads with the highest levels played more with their child than fathers with the lowest levels.

    "Fathers and mothers contribute in a very specific and different way," said Feldman, who presented the results at a Society for Research in Child Development meeting in Denver, Colorado, in April.

    She believes fathers may be ''biologically programmed'' to help raise children
     
  2. Lizzy

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    Hii ndio mada iliyonifanyaga nianze kuchagia JF.....sisemi tena maana yote nilisema siku hiyo na bado sijabadili mawazo/imani yangu juu ya hili swala.
     
  3. Nyani Ngabu

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    Sidhani kwa kweli kwa sababu vyanzo vya anti-social behavior viko vingi mojawapi na kikubwa ni personality traits ambazo ziko fixed at birth.
     
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    Kuna ukweli katka hili!
     
  5. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Sijakuelewa, pamoja na kuwa vingi je kichi nacho kinaweza kuwa moja ya sababu ama hakipo kabisa katika hivyo vingi???
     
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    lakini baba anawezaje kumfanya mtoto awe anti social, huenda mchango wa mama ndo mkubwa zaidi kwa sababu muda mwing hukaa na watoto hasa kwenye hatua ya ukuaji.
    Nakubali lakini kwa kiasi kidogo.
     
  7. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Na ikitokea mama anayekaa nao kwa huo muda mwingi naye pia ni anti-socual then hapo inahitaji angalizo....
     
  8. J

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    Hii Research nakubaliana nayo kwa asilimia kubwa kwa sababu ukiangalia kwa asilimia kubwa watoto hasa wa kiume wanaolelewa na mama tu bila baba wengi wao huwa wanakosa adabu na wanakuwa na dharau fulani na hata mahusiano ya karibu na wengine yanakuwa hafifu kiasi fulani!
     
  9. Lizzy

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    Acha uongo wewe...eti wengi hua na dharau!!Kwasababu kumheshimu mwanamke anafundishwa na baba mlevi na mnyanyasaji ama?!<br />

    Ukweli ni kwamba kwa asilimia kubwa hua wanakua kinyume na unachosema.Wengi hua wanakua na ukaribu na mama zao kama mama zao ni wamama kweli na sio alimradi mwanamke. Pia wanawajengea heshima kwa kuona vile wanavyowahangaikia kitu ambacho kinawafanya wawe na heshima kwa wanawake huko mbeleni.

    Hamna mwanaume mwenye akili timamu anaeweza kulelwa na mama yake kwa tabu zote na mwenyewe akielewa alafu eti akue akidharau wanawake.Naamini wanaume wa aina hii wanaapriciate sana wanawake.
     
  10. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Kwa kweli sioni connection yoyote mimi.
     
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    mshamu JF-Expert Member

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    Kuna ka ukweli fulani hivi kama vile nini mifano hai juu ya hilo ingawa ni kama watu watutu hivi.
     
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    Dahhh mi najiita "Super social"
    Na nimekulia bila baba..
     
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    I agree. You are very sociable.
     
  14. Lizzy

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    Puhleeeez....we ulivyo anti-social ningekua sikujui ningesema umetokea mars!
     
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    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Asante kwaherii...
     
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    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Wengi unawapata wapi? Waliokuzwa na Wazazi wote wawili ama waliokuzwa na mama bila baba kama wewe. !!!
     
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    lizzy kula tano,na chapati yangu moja nakuwekea
     
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    thank you :)

    umeanza aee. naona huishi kunichokonoa..

    sjakuelewa hapo mwanzo.. sioni connection ya nlichosema na unachouliza..
     
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    lizzy kula 5 na chapati yangu moja nakuwekea.mimi nimelelewa bila baba,childhood yangu ilikuwa the best,na ndoa yao ilivyokuwa kiukweli ni bora alivyokuwa mbali.
     
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    Na soda yangu tutashea basi...asante dear!
     
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