I think it was important I mention this because EMT said 'wanawake wenye watoto wana siri nyingi'. As you say, sometimes they are as ignorant as men... all they know is that they cheated (or were given permission to have extramarital affairs) but sometimes they couldn't tell who the father (of their babies) is .
Tatizo lingine linakuja pale DC anapoomba ndugu zake 'wamsaidie'. at the end of the day mke kasaidiwa na ndugu wa mmewe, the kud looks like the grandpa, and she slept with three brothers...Nakubaliana na wewe kwamba mwanamke akitetembea na wanaume wawili kabla ya conception hatajua which one is the father of her child. Lakini mwanamke ambaye nia yake ni kupata mtoto sidhani kama atatembea na wanaume wengi at once. She will set her target kama target ikigoma, she will move on to the next one. The Boss himself kadhibitisha hili hapo juu. So kama mwanamke ametembea na mwanaume akijua anachokitaka kutoka kwake it is highly probable atajua baba wa mtoto ni nani.
Lakini mwanaume cannot say categorically that he is the father of his child based on what the wife told him. Anakuwa believer tuu. So, the issue turns to trust. Kama mwanaume anamwamini huyo mwanamke then, he will trust what she tells him. Otherwise, itakuwa mambo ya DNA au labda pale mtoto anapokuwa photokopi ya mwanaume husika.
This is why men always pray to God give them The Virtuous Woman. This is also the reason why many people trace their lineage through the offspring of their female children. They don't want to mix up things.
Ndio ipi hiyo mkuu?
