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Wanaume naomba msaada kutoka kwenu

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mocrana, Oct 12, 2011.

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    Mocrana JF-Expert Member

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    Tumekuwa tukizoea kitchen party makungwi wake ni wanawake wenzetu kukueleza nn unatakiwa kumfanyia mumeo mm leo naomba kuwauliza wahusika wenyewe, ww kama mwanaume ungependa mkeo aweje kwa maana ya tabia, akufanyia mambo gani sio kwenye sita kwa sita bali kwenye idara zote, ili uweze hata kutamba mbele ya wanaume wenzio kuwa you have the best wife!
     
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    mzabzab JF-Expert Member

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    for me lazima kwanza kabisa asinitie aibu...jinsi anavyoji-present kwa watu kiujumla
    pili lazima aweze kuheshimu na kukubali kuwa mimi ni kichwa cha familia na kuwa yeye ndio msaidizi wangu.....sasa ndoa ni aprtnership na katika kila partnership lazima kuwe na trust hivyo basi lazima anahakikishie kuwa mie naweza kum-trust yeye bila any doubt na hii itatokana na yeye anavyonena na pia mwenendo wake.
     
  3. IGWE

    IGWE JF-Expert Member

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    Swali gumu na halina jibu moja,lakn ngoja nieleze yangu
    1.awe mzuri(subjective kwa vigezo vyangu)
    2.awe anajiamini(hapa namanisha awe na say na asimamie kile anachokiamni)_sio nafanya makosa anachekacheka kwa uoga.
    3.awe mtiifu(aitambue nafasi yangu kwake na kwa familia i.e baba kichwa cha nyumba).
    4.awe msikivu na mueledi wa mambo(sio anaambiwa vitu na kukurupuka na kuanza kurusha mawe)
    5.asiwe mhanga sana wa maisha(hapa namaanisha asiwe mbahili kupita kiasi)..kila kitu bajeti_sio
    6.mcheshi na mkarimu kwa familia na wageni pia
    7.awe msafi na ajue kutimiza wajibu na majukumu yake i.e kupika,kufua,usafi wa ndani etc
    8.asiwe na wivu kupita kiasi..kila mara kukuuliza uko wapi,unafanya nn,na kina nani?

    Ni hayo niliyofanikiwa kuyakumbuka,ila natumaini yapo mengine sema wateja ni wengi wanahitaji huduma ya kushonewa na kubrashiwa viatu,...anyway_i will be back
     
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    Tata JF-Expert Member

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    Akubali kuwa ndoa ni taasisi na kama ilivyo kwa kila taasisi ndoa ina mtendaji mkuu ambaye ni mume. Mambo ya Beijing awaachie akina Ananilea Nkya huko huko kwenye TV. Ayasikilize wanayosema lakini achanganye akili za mbayuwayu na za kwake.

    Sasa ili niendelee kukupa sera zaidi kwanza nijulishe kama umeolewa au la? na kama umeolewa una muda gani katika ndoa yako na je umepata mtoto au watoto. Hii ni muhimu kwa sababu kila hatua ina maelekezo yake mahsusi kuhusu nini hasa mwanaume anataka.
     
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    hapa leo mnaongea point
     
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    arabianfalcon JF-Expert Member

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    Haya wanaume mkowapi tupeni mnayoyapenda mfanyiwe ili mridhike.
     
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    Mocrana JF-Expert Member

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    Natarajia kuingia kwenye hiyo taasisi soon, so i want my husby 2 b awe proud na mm
     
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    Bishanga JF-Expert Member

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    Masharti na vigezo unavyovitaka suppose vinazingatiwa , sasa mazee wewe una reciprocate kwa kuwa na sifa zipi?
     
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    Bishanga JF-Expert Member

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    mambo Bebii?
     
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    Tata JF-Expert Member

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    Atazipata nyingi tu na sababu kubwa ni approach aliyotumia. Ameuliza kwa busara na inaonekana ni kweli anataka apate ufahamu. Mara nyingi huwa tunamhudumia mwanamke kutegemea na anavyokuja. Ukija na mada yenye madharau kwa wanaume utaishia kupata majibu yenye madharau tu vilevile. Tatizo kina mama wengi hawatambui uwezo walio nao juu ya wanaume - wazungu wanaita "power of a woman".
     
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    Bishanga JF-Expert Member

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    mi mke nilitafutiwa na bibi yangu mzaa baba,alitumia vigezo gani sijui.
     
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    IGWE JF-Expert Member

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    Mkuu,..wewe ulitegemea sifa kama zipi labda...2 start with
     
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    IGWE JF-Expert Member

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    ngoja kesho ntakuja na yenu,...na wewe ujitahidi kumwaga mapoint basi
     
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    Smile JF-Expert Member

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    kweli leo mmeamka vizuri yale oooh demu wangu ana mbweche mkubwa yale kuna siku tutavunjana huku mjue
     
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    Bujibuji JF-Expert Member

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    swali zuri sana hili. Kitchen parties are 100% useless
     
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    we unajuaje kama mbweche yako ni kubwa au ndogo?
     
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    IGWE JF-Expert Member

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    mm nalitambua hilo,na ndio maana nikitaka kuliwasha ni lazma nifunge vioo,...ila hiyo tabia ya kutembea na viwembe uache bana.
     
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    IGWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!Asante sana,wateja wakipungua rudi utumalizie na hayo mengine!
     
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    wee yani mtu hadi kwenye kiwiko cha mkono jamani cantalisia kamuhifadhi kweli bana leo mimi ningemlaza ndani bana khaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    ilawatu wana ukame bana khaaaaaa
     
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    huh..................hapa hebu niwe mgeni kidogo
     
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