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Usifanye kosa hili tafadhali!!!!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mtama, Nov 12, 2010.

  1. M

    Mtama Member

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    Moja ya makosa wapendanao hulifanya ni kutaka kumbadilisha mwenzi wako kutoka tabia aliyonayo awe kama vakavyo,for your imformation hakuna binadamu mwenye uwezo wa kumbadilisha binadamu mwingine,kama atabadilika ni kwa muda tu na mara nyingi watu hupretand kubadilika wakati penzi jipya akikuzoea anarudia tena kwa kiwango kikubwa,au kama ni mwanamke atajidai kubadilika kwa sababu ya ubabe wa mwanaume akikuzoea atarejea kwenye tabia yake zaidi ya zamani,kama mwenzi wako anatabia unataka msubirie siku ana furaha mwite kwa upendo wa hali ya juu mwambie kwa mahaba,usimlazimishe,baada ya hapo endelea kumounesha upendo mkubwa
     
  2. Zneba

    Zneba Senior Member

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    sawa mtama asante kwa somo
     
  3. chiko

    chiko JF-Expert Member

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    Kubadilika yawezekana Mtama!!!!, Mimi nimebadilishwa na shemegio, nimetoka kubayani, lakini kwa mapenzi na mabembelezo hapa na pale , nimenyooka!!.

    Yote yategemea mapenzi, kama wampenda mtu, kugeuka si tatizo.
     
  4. M

    Mtama Member

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    Nami pia nilisema kwa upendo wa hali ya juu mtu huamua kubadilika mwenyewe na sio kubadilishwa na mtu,huo ndio ukweli
     
  5. Johnsecond

    Johnsecond JF-Expert Member

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    Ulichosema mwanzo ulikuwa sahihi saana Mtama, sasa mbona unataka kulegeza msimamo kwa maneno mazuri ya 'chiko'?. Ukweli ni ule uliosema na Chiko akija oneshwa otherwise katika mapenzi atarudia tu kule kubaya hivyo msimamo ni ule ule huwezi badili tabia ya mtu moja kwa moja, ila kwa a certain period inawezekana.
     
  6. Hunter

    Hunter New Member

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    :nono:Mtama, nashindwa kuhukumu uliyoyasema lakini nashawishika kupinga na hii nikutokana na various psychological research amabazo zinatambua kwamba mwnadamu ana tabia nyingi lakini ktk hizo anabadilika na hii nikwakutegemea umetumia njia zipi na kwa muda gani!
    kumbadilisha mtu ni taaluma ambayo watu husomea na nio maana vituo vya ushauri vipo,lakini hapo bongo vimewalenga zaidi waathirika wa HIV,
    na kusahau waathirika wengine.
     
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    Ferds JF-Expert Member

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    tabia za wapendanao ni kama ktk soka mtu hujikuta anaiga za mwenziye bila yeye kufahamu, ila tu kama mmependana wala hutumii nguvu utajikuta yumo ktk tabia yako
     
  8. kisukari

    kisukari JF-Expert Member

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    kama unampenda mtu sana,unajikuta unabadilika automatic,bila ya kulazimishwa.ila kama hakuna mapenzi ni ngumu mtu kubadilika.mfano ukimpenda mtu,unakuwa tayari kubadili dini kwa ajili ya yule mtu,lakini kama ndoa ikifa,wengi wao hurudi katika dini zao za kawaida labda hiyo ndoa iwe ya muda mrefu.Au kama ulikuwa mlevi,unaweza ukaacha,lakini maudhi yakizidi ndani pombe unairudia tena
     
  9. Speaker

    Speaker JF-Expert Member

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    sometimes inatokea hadi mnakua mnafanana hivi,sa usipo badilika tambua kuwa umekosea njia
     
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    ejogo JF-Expert Member

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    yeah, haya mambi ni automatic, si ya kuforce.
     
  11. kijana makini

    kijana makini Member

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    hamna ubishi hapo..
     
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