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Unaweza kumuacha umpendae?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Dena Amsi, Nov 22, 2010.

  1. Dena Amsi

    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Jamani mie nauliza nipate kufahamu kuna rafiki yangu anaishi na mwanaume (hawajafunga ndoa) Jana kanipigia simu kuwa huyo jamaa kapata nyumba ndogo na anamwambia kuwa waachane lakini mdada bado anampenda sana jamaa. Swali ni kuwa anashindwa kumuacha sababu anampenda sana jamaa anashindwa afanyeje? Mie nikaona leo niilete hapa. Mbaya zaidi jamaa amebadilika sana. Tumshauri Wakuu
     
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    Elli JF-Expert Member

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    anafanya makosa huyo mwenzio, upendo ambao sio Biological unapaswa kuwa wa pande mbili, yaani nakupenda na wewe unanipenda hata kama una-pretend lakini swala ni kwamba unanipenda so mmoja akisema sipendi tena, you have to pack your things and go, maisha ni popote hukuzaliwa nae huyo, na mbaya zaidi ni kwamba reconciliation ni ndogo sana kutokea kwasababu ana kimwana mwingine na tatizo weweza kuta jmaa ndo ana kifaa kikali zaidi, the best thing ni ku-put off that veil from your eyes and see the realities. Sina neno mie
     
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    yaani amesha jua jamaa ananyumba ndogo nje lakini bado anamtaka (kweli love is blind)
    mshauri mwenzio asije jiingiza kwenye moto ambao umesha anza kuchoma..
    borea ajitahidi sana kumwacha huyo jamaa sasa kuliko kum nganganie.....
    afikirie na magonjwa pia..
    pendo si kulazimisha pendo nikubembeleza........
     
  4. Chauro

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    kwanza hawajafunga ndoa huyu dada wa nje anakuwaje nyumba ndogo maana mi sioni nyumba kubwa hapo na huyo dada aliamua kuishi na huyo kaka kabla ya ndoa kwa misingi ipi?saa zingine tunatafatuga matatizo wenyewe umeenda kuziba riziki zako kwa kuishi na lijitu lisilojua thamani ya penzi lako bila ndoa kwanini
     
  5. Dena Amsi

    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Nimeipenda sana hii. Thanks nitawakilisha ujumbe
     
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    kwa hiyo unajaribu kusema hauruhusiwi kuishi na mwanaume kabla ya ndoa???
     
  7. Dena Amsi

    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Unaruhusiwa bwana
     
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    Bi. Mkora JF-Expert Member

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    Kwanini anamng'ang'ania huyo mwanaume wakati anajua ana mwanamke mwingine? Kwani anazo mbili?
     
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    hamna mtu anakatazwa lakini mnaishi kwa mikataba ipi ivi una kijibwana tu huko unahamisha vimizigo vyako kwake halafu akikuchakachua unasema ana nyumba ndogo sijawahi ona mimi bado lazima ifike wakati wana mama tusishushe thamani zetu unajuaje kama ana mpango wa kukuoa wewe au yupo kwenye mchakato halafu unaamua kuwa kupe kabisa embu nikuulize swali kabla ya kuolewa huwa tunakuwa na mahusiano na watu wangapi je tungehamia kwao ingekuaje kila siku tungehamisha nguo siyo hamna nyumba ndogo hapo jamaa bado yupo kwenye operation kata umeme finito

     
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    mi nimekuelewa lakini bado sikubaliani nawe kabisa..... kwani ni wanawake tu ndo wanahamiaga kwa wanume ....mbona wanume wengi tu wahamiaga kwa wanawake .kutokana na maelewano yenu..... na mimi ninavyoona ni borea mtu amchague jamaa yake mmoja aishi nae.... ali wafahamiane vizuri kutoka juu mapaka chini hiyo ni kabla ya ndoa..kwa sababu hutaki kujiingiza kwenye commitment za ndoa kwa mtu ambeye humfahamu na humjui vizuri .. na kama vitu haviendi sawa hapo ndo unakaa chini unatafakari na kupanga mipango mingine ya maisha ... kuliko kutanga na njia kila upande...
     
  11. Dena Amsi

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    mapenzi
     
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    Umemaliza sitii neno
     
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    asante kwa hilo...
     
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    huyo mwanamke ashukuru kwa kuambiwa ukweli,na afungashe mizigo yake mapema,atakuja kupata mwengine,ingawa kuachwa inauma asikwambie mtu.maisha popote jamani atazoea tu
     
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    inawezekana kumwacha mtu unayempenda! its just to let it go...it takes time but yes. she will overcome.....
     
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    nimemaliza kwa sasa....
     
  17. Dena Amsi

    Dena Amsi JF-Expert Member

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    Hapa umenikumbusha mbali sana ule wimbo wa "kuachwa kuachwa kuachwa ni shughuli pevu" Nitamshauri ataweza tu hakuna linaloshindikana
     
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    basi usiite nyumba ndogo au tafsiri ya hii misemo huwa inakuje mpo kwenye kuchunguzana na jamaa kacheat so anaonekana sio muaminifu pigia mstari hapo halafu unataka kusema kuishi pamoja kabla ya ndoa kuna kupa nafasi ya kufahamiana vema kwangu ni BIG NOO hembu elezea kumjua wapi labda harufu yake vizuri au unaweka alama kengele na ikirudi unakagua


     
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    Unaijua sheria ya ndoa ya TZ? Mimi si mtalaamu wa sheria ila navyoelewa mie ni kwamba mwanaume na mwanamke wakiishi kwa muda wa zaidi ya miezi sita hao tayari ni mke na mume.
     
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    cha kwanza kabisa mimi sijasema kitu chochote kuhusu nyumba ndogo... haiwezi kuwa nyumba ndogo kama bado hamjaoona...... na kuishi na mwanaume kama kwako ni big NO basi kwangu ni big YES. kuna mambo mengi sana ambayo mnaweza jifunza kuhusu wote kabla ya ndoa...sex, financial situation ,love life ....... etc. kwa kweli naamini kila mwanamke ni tofauti..
     
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