Unataka kuboresha mahusiano? Soma hapa.....it is worth it!

[Kaunga]

"My name is James. I’m a typical Tanzanian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, It’s another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether she’s my mother or my wife. Don’t get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married…marriage has turned her into something that doesn’t amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years.

A lot of people say its unethical for married guys to be found in a club, but I wish everyone won’t be too quick to judge and understand that people look for fun to run away from their problems; they just want to breathe, like me.

I forgot to say that I work in Diamond Trust Bank, I love my job and my job loves me, maybe its because I’m the senior banking officer. Lol. This particular morning, a lady breezed into my office. My heart raced faster because I had not sighted anything this beautiful in a long while. She wasn’t the typical slender Barbie, in fact, she was a bit chubby but her smile, cuteness and…I was tripped.

“Hi Good morning! Your ATM has swallowed my card!” She laughed, unlike a typical customer that would ram you.

I just tried to form Boss laughter…

“Good morning, You know what? I’d personally make sure they get it out for you, but not today. Can you wait till Monday?” I smiled

“OK, can I just drop my number so you could call me up or just text when its ready so I don’t come twice? Please? My name is Grace” She blinked her eyes in a funny way.
“Sure”Ismiled We exchanged numbers. What a lucky Friday!

So it was 10:00pm and I headed to the club…as usual my friends were chilling for me. My wife had called a couple of times, I just ignored it. She knows I’m never home Friday nights.

“Look at you!” I heard someone say. I raised my head and it was the ATM lady-Grace.

“Wow, look at you too!” I was surprised to see her but I was happy I didn’t have to wait till Monday to see her again.

“Happy Friday!” She screamed because of the noise, “Wanna dance?”

I didn’t even have the chance to answer, she already pulled me to dance floor. I really suck at dancing but she helped me; she was a great dancer! I had fun! At some point we decided to go to a private area and we talked, ranging from work, business to personal life. I tried to hide my ring as much as possible, I certainly didn’t want this to end now.

“You are a really wonderful lady. You are so interesting…any guy would want to be with you all day” I said.

“I wasn’t always like this but I have learned the hard way that life is just too short to be sad” she sang

Then her phone rang…

“Hey baby! Yeah I’m at the private lounge, I’d like you to meet someone…alright boo” she talked excitedly as usual.

I was in shock until this tall handsome man walks up to her and kisses her.

“You were late. Meet James; I met him this morning, he’s helping with your ATM I told you got swallowed and James this is my B to the O-O,” she laughed “Meet my husband Dan, we only come here to dance every fortnight Friday; away from work, stress and kids.”

“Wow, a pleasure” I managed to shake him

Then she stood now excitedly holding her husband’s arms.

“Why don’t we invite James for Isabella’s 9th birthday tomorrow?” Her husband said

They have kids too? How long have they been married and they look like a couple just dating!

“Silly me, please come for my second daughter’s 9th tomorrow. It would be an honor” She brought out an I.V from her purse.

I began to feel so ashamed of myself…this was another guy like me, getting it right with one woman.

I collected the I.V and promised to be there.

“See you tomorrow! Have you had something to eat Dan?” she talked and dragged her husband along.

They left and I kept staring at the thin air like I had seen a ghost. They come just to dance together every fortnight Fridays? Why didn’t I think of that! Tunda loves to dance…she also likes long walks, she loves to talk…she loves jazz music, there’s this vivid picture I have of me putting her hand on my chest when we danced at a jazz club on our first year anniversary…I found myself typing all the things I knew Tunda loved to do on my Ipad and I realized I had denied her of all…I had made her the old woman she acts.

What the hell was I doing here! I didn’t even tell my friends goodbye, I walked out of the club into my Jaguar. Tunda’s call came through and I picked at first ring.

“Tunda?” My heart raced

“I know you are not coming home…”

“I am, stay up so we can gist. Been a while” I decided to do everything on that list and to even add many more for the rest of my lifetime with her.

“Are you alright?” She was shocked I suppose

“And I’d like us to go for a birthday party tomorrow. I want you to meet this amazing couple”

“You sound different James”

“Maybe I’m different”

“Don’t say it! don’t say it! when you come we will gist very well” she laughed

She laughed!!! In just that laughter that I hadn’t heard in a while, she sounded like the lady I married six years ago…

Dear reader,

I wrote this natural piece just to remind us that creating memorable moments with our partner matters. Do you know that little things are the sweetest things? Just creating time to gist and laugh with your partner, having a day in the week that’s exclusively for you both-No friends or kids allowed.

Lady, when last have you told your partner he is so darn hot? Guy! When last have you told your lady she is the sweetest thing? When last have you whispered ‘Thank you’? When last have you been quick to say ‘I’m sorry’?

Do you even have a clue on what your partner loves to do?

When you ignore little things, they are the little pieces of rocks that build up to become a mountain you can’t easily break down as a married couple. Make each other happy.

Pay attention to little things, believe that they work and experience new bliss and enjoy your partner!"

Authored by ..... Couples-In-Christ admin.

 

[Nicole]

thanx ncy story!

 

[Sashel]

Wow.. nice lesson indeed!!

 

[Kaunga]

thanx ncy story!

Educative pia, nimeipata mahali nikaona niwagee mashostito na mabuddy wangu wa MMU.

 

[snowhite]

mi si ndo mana nakumiss usipokuwemo humu!mimi love this !
ndoa zetu zinakuwa mbya mara nyingi kwa ajili tu tunazembea mahala fulani!
hebu angalia hiyo couple ya pili!
uwwwiiih jamani ngoja nifanye fanye nirudi home naanza na mwaliko kabisa wa dinner la ukweli leo,na game matata la kusindikiza litakalotanguliwa na booonge la sweet and nyc talk and dance!Hubbieeeeee popote unaweza kurudi home sa hizi ili tupate pre match!u wont regret yu know!​

 

[Mc Tilly Chizenga]

nilipomaliza kusoma story yako,nikasema ngoja nifanye kitu flani kwa mke wangu,nikafikiri na kufikiri lakini sikuona,nikafikiri ambavyo nilikuwa nampa zamani nimeacha sikuona,nikawaza labda nifanye hiki..kumbe nimefanya juzi,nikasema nifanye kile kumbe nimefanya jana,mwisho nikampigia simu nakumchekesha hapa na pale na kumalizia kwa kumuambia nilitaka kusikia kicheko chako,akacheka na kufurahi zaidi hapo ndio nikajua hata kama nina furaha tuna furaha lakini nafasi ya kupeana furaha zaidi bado ipo...ngoja nianze ubunifu wa kumpa raha zaidi mke wangu....eh Mungu wangu ukanipe maarifa,busara na hekima ya kumpa maisha ya furaha mke wangu na familia yangu.

 

[snowhite]

nilipomaliza kusoma story yako,nikasema ngoja nifanye kitu flani kwa mke wangu,nikafikiri na kufikiri lakini sikuona,nikafikiri ambavyo nilikuwa nampa zamani nimeacha sikuona,nikawaza labda nifanye hiki..kumbe nimefanya juzi,nikasema nifanye kile kumbe nimefanya jana,mwisho nikampigia simu nakumchekesha hapa na pale na kumalizia kwa kumuambia nilitaka kusikia kicheko chako,akacheka na kufurahi zaidi hapo ndio nikajua hata kama nina furaha tuna furaha lakini nafasi ya kupeana furaha zaidi bado ipo...ngoja nianze ubunifu wa kumpa raha zaidi mke wangu....eh mungu wangu ukanipe maarifa,busara na hekima ya kumpa maisha ya furaha mke wangu na familia yangu.

amina!amina !amina!

 

[Kaunga]

mi si ndo mana nakumiss usipokuwemo humu!mimi love this !
ndoa zetu zinakuwa mbya mara nyingi kwa ajili tu tunazembea mahala fulani!
hebu angalia hiyo couple ya pili!
uwwwiiih jamani ngoja nifanye fanye nirudi home naanza na mwaliko kabisa wa dinner la ukweli leo,na game matata la kusindikiza litakalotanguliwa na booonge la sweet and nyc talk and dance!Hubbieeeeee popote unaweza kurudi home sa hizi ili tupate pre match!u wont regret yu know!​

Umeona eeh, halafu sijui kuna kamdudu gani kanakoweka mipaka kwamba hii ni kwa wapenzi tu na sio wanandoa.
Hiyo mipaka hiyo ndiyo inayofanya mapenzi kuwa so routine and boring.

Mi nakuaminia snowhite, najua ubunifu ni jina lako la katikati. LOL

 

[Kaunga]

nilipomaliza kusoma story yako,nikasema ngoja nifanye kitu flani kwa mke wangu,nikafikiri na kufikiri lakini sikuona,nikafikiri ambavyo nilikuwa nampa zamani nimeacha sikuona,nikawaza labda nifanye hiki..kumbe nimefanya juzi,nikasema nifanye kile kumbe nimefanya jana,mwisho nikampigia simu nakumchekesha hapa na pale na kumalizia kwa kumuambia nilitaka kusikia kicheko chako,akacheka na kufurahi zaidi hapo ndio nikajua hata kama nina furaha tuna furaha lakini nafasi ya kupeana furaha zaidi bado ipo...ngoja nianze ubunifu wa kumpa raha zaidi mke wangu....eh Mungu wangu ukanipe maarifa,busara na hekima ya kumpa maisha ya furaha mke wangu na familia yangu.

Yaani nimefurahi sana kujua umeufanyia kazi ujumbe huu right away, sio vitu vikubwa sana lakini vina effect kubwa sana katika mahusiano yetu.

Malizia na kutoka naye out, si Friday leo!

 

[snowhite]

Umeona eeh, halafu sijui kuna kamdudu gani kanakoweka mipaka kwamba hii ni kwa wapenzi tu na sio wanandoa.
Hiyo mipaka hiyo ndiyo inayofanya mapenzi kuwa so routine and boring.

Mi nakuaminia snowhite, najua ubunifu ni jina lako la katikati. LOL

pana cheya mutoto ya kingoni ikiwa kwenye ajira yake ya kudumu!wapi mlongo wangu @FP. hiv unajua mi na shem wako tuna utaratibu wa OPRAS,ahahahahahhahaah!ahsante kwa kuniaminia mwaya!

 

[Mc Tilly Chizenga]

Yaani nimefurahi sana kujua umeufanyia kazi ujumbe huu right away, sio vitu vikubwa sana lakini vina effect kubwa sana katika mahusiano yetu.

Malizia na kutoka naye out, si Friday leo!

poa poa,nataka post hii inifanye niwe bora zaidi...kuna asilimia kama 20 ya mambo flani nikiyaweka sawa yatatuweka ktk daraja la wanandoa wanaofurahia zaidi ndoa yao duniani...we are not far from that...na tunaamini inawezekana

 

[Kaunga]

poa poa,nataka post hii inifanye niwe bora zaidi...kuna asilimia kama 20 ya mambo flani nikiyaweka sawa yatatuweka ktk daraja la wanandoa wanaofurahia zaidi ndoa yao duniani...we are not far from that...na tunaamini inawezekana

Mi Love you sana kwa kweli. Keep it up bro!

 

[gfsonwin]

jamani nimefurah sana kwa hii post.
ndo maana nasema hapana kumzoea mwenzi wao bana wala ustake akuzoee kila siku mfanye akuone mpya...........

 

[kapistrano]

nilipomaliza kusoma story yako,nikasema ngoja nifanye kitu flani kwa mke wangu,nikafikiri na kufikiri lakini sikuona,nikafikiri ambavyo nilikuwa nampa zamani nimeacha sikuona,nikawaza labda nifanye hiki..kumbe nimefanya juzi,nikasema nifanye kile kumbe nimefanya jana,mwisho nikampigia simu nakumchekesha hapa na pale na kumalizia kwa kumuambia nilitaka kusikia kicheko chako,akacheka na kufurahi zaidi hapo ndio nikajua hata kama nina furaha tuna furaha lakini nafasi ya kupeana furaha zaidi bado ipo...ngoja nianze ubunifu wa kumpa raha zaidi mke wangu....eh Mungu wangu ukanipe maarifa,busara na hekima ya kumpa maisha ya furaha mke wangu na familia yangu.

Hapo kwenye red pamenivutia sana!

 

[kapistrano]

jamani nimefurah sana kwa hii post.
ndo maana nasema hapana kumzoea mwenzi wao bana wala ustake akuzoee kila siku mfanye akuone mpya...........

New new new every day "LIKE" it

 

[kbm]

Educative pia, nimeipata mahali nikaona niwagee mashostito na mabuddy wangu wa MMU.

please kaunga could you explain it in swahili or franch.

 

[isabella]

what an inspiring story....

 

[Mtambuzi]

Duh, nimetoka kapa aisee, hiyo lugha huwa inanisumbua sana.......

 

[Kaunga]

Duh, nimetoka kapa aisee, hiyo lugha huwa inanisumbua sana.......

Jamani mtambuzi, nimepata ujumbe uliojificha ndani yake (niache uvivu wa kutotafsiri makala). Nitajaribu atleast kusummarize.

 

[Nivea]

Duh, nimetoka kapa aisee, hiyo lugha huwa inanisumbua sana.......

kwikwiwkiwk mtambuzi unajua RICA wapo karibu na oficini kwako ni aibu 2weeks unatema chehe