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Ukiwa na tabia hizi jua mwenzio anakereka!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mtambuzi, Sep 6, 2011.

  1. Mtambuzi

    Mtambuzi Platinum Member

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    Watu wengi wanapozungumzia kuvunjika kwa ndoa au uhusiano, sababu zinazojitokeza sana au kutajwa ni zile za ulevi, kutoka nje ya ndoa, kipato, uchafu, na mengine ya aina hiyo, lakini wanasahau kuwa kuna baadhi ya tabia zenye kukera ambazo kama zisipoangaliwa kwa makini zinaweza kuipeleka ndoa au uhusiano shimoni:

    Nitataja baadhi ya tabia hizo kwa uchache ili nisiwachoshe:
    1. Kujilinda- ni kitendo cha mwanandoa kutopenda kupingwa, kwa namna yoyote, hata pale inapoonekana dhahiri hayuko sahihi, atatumia muda mwingi kujitetea na kutoa mifano chungu mzima isiyo na kichwa wala miguu.

    2. Kutofurahia ukimya- mwanandoa asiyefurahiya ukimya ni yule ambaye mdomo wake unamuwasha wakati wote anapenda kuongea tu, na wakati mwingine huongea utumbo mtupu. Mara nyingi watu wa aina hii hupoteza kumbukumbu ya kile walichosema au walichozungumza muda mfupi ulipita.

    3. Utani ulopita kiasi- uchekeshaji ni mzuri sana katika kuboresha ndoa au uhusiano na hujenga afya kwa wanandoa unapotumiwa vizuri. Lakini pale utani unapozidi unakuwa ni kero kwa mwenzako. Utani unakuwa mzuri iwapo utatolewa kwa muda muafaka. Kuna wakati unaweza kukuta mwanandoa anatoa utani wenye kushusha na kutweza bila kujali hisia za mwenzake hii ni hatari sana katika ustawi wa ndoa. Kuna wakati unaweza kukuta mwanandoa roho yake iko juu juu pale wanapotembelewa na wageni maana anakuwa na wasiwasi kuwa mwenzake anaweza kumfanyia utani wa ajabu kabisa nakumuharibia siku na kumuabisha kwa wageni.

     
  2. The dirt paka

    The dirt paka JF-Expert Member

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    Go ahead!
     
  3. Nzenzu

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    hii nimeipenda!
     
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    napita tu
     
  5. Mr Rocky

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    Mhhh ngoja nitafakari
     
  6. hope 2

    hope 2 Senior Member

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    Uchafu.. na kutokua makini kwenye mipangilio ya vitu.
    Unaweza kuja ukakuta kiatu juu ya friji(joking....) hasa kwa ile jinsia nyingine
     
  7. Mtambuzi

    Mtambuzi Platinum Member

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    Wenda wapi Bebiii?
     
  8. Joseph

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    Nimeipenda ila nahitaji zaidi maana zipo chache
     
  9. Gaga

    Gaga JF-Expert Member

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    kwa kweli ile kujilinda mie huwa siipendi zaidi, mtu kaona kabisa kakosa hata kukubali kosa hkuna ,mbish kupita kiasi....ni mengi sana hujaandika hapo , gubu nalo ni ishu ingine.thanks kwa kutukumbusha mtambuzi
     
  10. Mtambuzi

    Mtambuzi Platinum Member

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    Ni kweli, ndio maana nikasema nitazitaja chache ili nisije nikawachosha kwa kusoma maelezo marefu.......thread hii nitaiendeleza hapo nitakapopata muda, lakini pia nimewaachia wengine waweke kero zao, sikupenda nimalize kila kitu.............
     
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    Chauro JF-Expert Member

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    Gubu linakera kuliko maelezo
     
  12. IGWE

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    aiseeeee!
     
  13. Nyati

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    Tafadhali toa maelezo zaidi juu ya hili GUBU sisi wa Bara hatulijui vizuri
     
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    Uchoyo, mie sipendi mtu choyo, awe mke au mume, hata wageni wakija ananuna, hii nahisi huwa namkwanza mwenza wako
     
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    Gubu analo mtu anayependa kulalamika tu, kila kitu yeye analalamika, hata akiona umeacha mlango wazi annaweza ongea masaa mawili, kila kitu yeye ni kulalamika na maneno hayaishi
     
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    SURN JF-Expert Member

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    imenijenga sana.naisubil nyingine
     
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    Kutoa siri za ndani kwa wasiohusika/kwa watu wa nje
     
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    Bucad Senior Member

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    Nimekubali! Lakini pia kuna hili la ujuaji kiukweli linakera mno maana utakuta mtu anajifanya kujua kila kitu na kumwona mwenzake hakuna anachokijua na mwisho wa siku hujiona mwalimu au kiongozi anayestahili kumwongoza mwenzake kwenye kila jambo. Inaboa kupita kiasi!
     
  19. kanywaino

    kanywaino Senior Member

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    unahitaji neema ya mungu kuwa na ndoa au mahusiano imara kwani hayp yote unayosema watu wanayafuata ila bado ndoa na mahusiano yao matatizo kutwa kukicha.
     
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