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Ukitaka kumuua mwanaume kisaikolojia!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by vukani, Oct 7, 2011.

  1. vukani

    vukani JF-Expert Member

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    Naona wanaume wametaharuki kwa hicho kichwa cha habari…………….Jamaniee sina maana hiyo! Namaanisha ukitaka kumuua mwanaume kisaikolojia na sio kwa kumtoa roho………Mweh!

    Inaelezwa kwamba kutokana na maumbile mwanaume hujiona ni mkamilifu wa kila jambo, kumbe sio kweli. Ukitaka kumuua mwanaume kisaikolojia, basi mkosoe, hapo ndipo lilipo tatizo. Mwanaume akikosolea hujiona kama amepoteza uanaume wake, na hasa kama anayemkosoa awe ni mwanamke, ndio anakuwa kwishnei kabisa.

    Na kama kukosolewa huko kutafanywa na mwanamke wakiwa kwenye tendo la kujaamiana hapo ngoma italala doro na haitasimama kabisa kutokana tafakari za kukosolewa………….. Yaani wao kukosolewa na mwanamke hukuchukulia kama aina fulani ya udhalilishaji, na kichwani mwao huenda maswali mengi sana ya kuhoji ukamilifu wao.

    Si kama mwanamke akikosolewa haumii, la hasha, huumia sana, lakini kiwango cha maumivu hutofautiana sana na kile wanachopata wanaume. Wanawake wamezoeaa kukosolewa tangu utotoni, kwa hiyo kwao hiyo sio ishu tena, kwani mfumo dume umewafanya waikubali hali hiyo pasi na hiyari yao.
     
  2. Engager

    Engager JF-Expert Member

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    Ukinikosoa nakutwanga makofi...over
     
  3. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    Mmmmh! Kwahiyo wanaume hampendi kukosolewa?
     
  4. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Husninyo soma hii.
     
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    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    We nyani sitaki.
     
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    usijaribu.
     
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    basi nishajua ngao yangu
    Na kama kukosolewa huko kutafanywa na mwanamke wakiwa kwenye tendo la kujaamiana hapo ngoma italala doro na haitasimama kabisa kutokana tafakari za kukosolewa………….. Yaani wao kukosolewa na mwanamke hukuchukulia kama aina fulani ya udhalilishaji, na kichwani mwao huenda maswali mengi sana ya kuhoji ukamilifu wao.
    yani nikiumia tu wakati wa maakuli mm namkosoa basi ye kwishney....................
    asante shoga umenipa ushindi na umeniokoa na mengi hujui tu
    nitakutafuta huko maishani na kukupa bonge la zawadi hutaweza kuamini
     
  8. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Hutaki nini?
     
  9. vukani

    vukani JF-Expert Member

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    Kwanza hawajiamini........ ubavu wa kukubali kukosolewa waupate wapi?
     
  10. Roulette

    Roulette JF-Expert Member

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    Sio kweli... inategemea na the way unamkosoa. Nadhani wanaume kama wanawake hawapendi kukosewa heshima. sasa wewe unamkosoa mwenzio katika tendo la ndoa alafu unategemea atakua bado imara? nenda ukafundwe upya mamaa
     
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    Bishanga JF-Expert Member

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    Vukani jamani,kwenye red hapo,ina maana wewe katikati ya malavidavi badala ya kupumulia mdomo huwa unaongea?yaani wakati mzee ndo hoi kajikunja anamalizia kaufundi kote we ndo huwa unamwambia 'lakini baba Kayai hako kativii ulikoleta mbona kakichina?' , mmmmmmhhhh
     
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    vukani JF-Expert Member

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    Halo halooo....... ndiyo shoga..... hawana ubavu hawa, wanajikweza tu............
     
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    Danganyaneni!
     
  14. Husninyo

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    uchokozi wako.
     
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    vukani JF-Expert Member

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    Sasa kama anafanya kama Bata nisimwambie.... Mweh! Mie nataka kufikishwa kileleni , halafu analeta mapozi................usharobaro wake huko huko..........LOL
     
  16. Engager

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    utakosoaje wakat inaonekana waz gem imekuelemea? Nisawa tu na kuita watu waje wamtoe m2 aliyekuzid nguvu wakat wa ugomvi et utamuua, wakati inaonyesha waz umezdiwa. By z way hiyo technique haiwez kufua dafu kwa muundo huo..lol
     
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    umeona eeh. Ukimkosoa kweli unamuua. Ngoja tuwasifie tu.
     
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    kwahy ht km unakojoa kitandani usikosolewe usifiwe tu?
     
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    Haya mwaga sifa zangu hapa.
     
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