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Ukimuita mwanamke my love maana yake...

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by The Boss, Jan 3, 2010.

  1. The Boss

    The Boss JF-Expert Member

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    A name can define your relationshipBy Christine Chacha

    What is in a name? A lot, I would say. That is if relationships are in discussion.

    And women love to be called names. Think the difference it makes if a guy calls you, "my love," or "Cutie". Two words, miles apart in meaning!

    The transition between when your man calls you by your real name, and a fancy one, is noteworthy. Jazzy names are a symbol of the phase you are in your union. It can tell whether you are moving forward or you are stuck in time.

    The stages
    At the beginning of the relationship you call each other by name. This later moves, to babe depending on how much you like each other, and the next thing you know he is calling you love.


    Honey vs sexy

    Babe-This is the first name that he will call you signifying that he indeed does like you. It says that this has a chance of advancing from a fling to something more meaningful. When he calls you babe in front of his friends he is basically trying to mark his territory saying " I may not be married to her but she is mine for now.

    Baby-When he adds the "Y" in babe it means that he does care about you, he pictures you as a young fragile thing that he would like to protect. This is his natural protective instinct coming to the surface and means he is seeing a lot more you.

    Cutie ? He is saying "hey I like what you're wearing, you look good, and I notice and appreciate the effort that you put into making yourself look that way. Kudos.

    Sexy -When he calls you sexy then it means your dressing or mannerism is alluring to the point that he is sexually attracted to you. Sorry ladies, but according to men when he calls you sexy that is exactly what he means so be wary if this does not change to something else with time.

    Gorgeous ? this means that you are the most beautiful thing he has ever laid eyes on. Your beauty is inestimable particularly in reference to the face, and is well-dressed.

    Sweetie- This is the name that surfaces when you can?t get enough of each other. You are all over each other and share secret meanings in public. You are by now intertwined and you are at what most call the honeymoon stage.

    Honey-I find this to be the sweetest name a guy can call his woman, it means he not only cares but also really likes the girl; maybe even loves her. But this will happen after considerable time dating.

    Beautiful - this, for me, is the highest compliment because it takes in the whole person, not just the outside.

    It means you have an awesome personality that can be connected with, respect. When he calls you this it means he wants to handle you with more energy, commitment, and honour.

    Your name- Having gone through all the phases of name-calling he calls you by your name. This means that the relationship has matured and grown into something serious that he does not have to play Mr nice guy anymore but he still respects you.

    But if he calls you by your name before he engages or marries you, be very worried as you could be loosing the spark in the relationship.

    With buddies
    Something worth noting is that the name that he chooses to call you especially in front of his friends can tell you where you stand with him.

    How he refers or introduces you to his pals also says something about how he perceives you. If he still introduces you as Stella to his boys after a whole year of dating, then run for the hills because this is a man who does not want to be identified with you.

    If he calls you his girl or girlfriend to his pals then he is being protective of you as if to say you belong to him and at the same time saying there could be a possibility of permanence.

    But then it could mean he likes you enough to want you all to himself.

    When he says this is 'my lady' then it means he respects you and expects the same from his buddies. He is trying to say that you are unlike his other "girls"; you are a lady that he holds in high esteem just like his mother.
     
  2. Annina

    Annina JF-Expert Member

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    The Boss,
    Asante kwa taarifa, wanawake wapo sensitive sana ndio maana mara nyingi hunaswa kirahisi na wanaume wanaojua kuchanga vyema karata zao hata kama sio wakweli kwenye mapenzi.
     
  3. Preta

    Preta JF-Expert Member

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    no comments
     
  4. Lily Flower

    Lily Flower JF-Expert Member

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    Hizo names huwa zinaanza mwanzoni kabisa mwa relationship mkishakuwa deep hutasikia tena, mbaya zaidi mkioana ndio itabakia Baba Chimpumu na Mama Chimpumu.
     
  5. Mlango wa gunia

    Mlango wa gunia Senior Member

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    Majina hayo matamu kweli katika wakati na mtu akimaanisha sio anapotaka kukuibia.ngoma mapenzi yaki expire sasa uanaanza kupewa majina mengine.So saaaaad.
     
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    Hivi hatuna majina matamu matamu kama haya kwa kiswahili?
     
  7. bht

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    laaziz, mahabuba, waubani, nk!!
     
  8. GP

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    yapo mbona:
    asali wa moyo,
    mpenzi,
    laaziz(hapa naomba ufanunuzi nani anatakiwa aitwe laaziz, HE au SHE?)
    mahabuba,
    waridi,
    mamsapu,
    etc
     
  9. bht

    bht JF-Expert Member

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    barafu wa moyo, wa ubani heeeee mpwa na we umo duh!!!
     
  10. PakaJimmy

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    Habari za huko kwenu Iringa/ Mbeya?

    Lakini ulichosema LF ni kweli kabisa, BIG 5TO YOU!:D.

    Mi huwa nafurahi sana kuona watu wakiwa katika uchumba wanavyoshikana shikana njiani hazarani na kuitana kila jina la mapendo yasiyo'exist! [ref#$%^&*geoff~~not==%%8one...""'of|||them###33]...lakini huwa wakati mwingine nawasikitikia kuwa mambo yale yana mwisho wake, soon or later!...hayadumu!

    Actually ndio sababu kubwa sana inayowafanya wanaume /wanawake wengi waingie MBA, MAANA huko wanakutana na vijineno vya uchokozi vya mapenzi vitaamu walivyovisahau zamaaaani!

    Ndani ya familia vimaneno hivyo haviwezi kutumika tena maana utakuta baba unadaiwa kodi ya meza, nguo za sikukuU, mshahara wa hausigeli, nauli za shule na ada za watoto na mambo kedekede.

    Hivyo unaishia kuchukiana na mama ambye wakati huo atakuwa anataka hela za salon akaweke sijui ma'enjofesi, na makalikiti!
    Anyway..tuombe Mungu...! Hizi familia si mchezo mamaake!
     
  11. Fidel80

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    Yapo mahabuba, asali wa moyo, nikitembea nakuona mbele, nikinywa maji naona sura yako kwa bilauri n.k
     
  12. Nyamayao

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    laazizi.....lakini hayanogi kabisa kama ninavyokuita sweetheart, darling, baby.
     
  13. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Heri ya mwaka mpya mpenzi

    Ni kweli kabisa hainogi na mbaya zaidi haya hayaweziwekwa kiswahili yakanoga mfano baby -mtoto, sweetheart- moyo mtamu, kidogo darling!!
     
  14. bht

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    MJ1 sasa usifanye tafsiri ya moja kwa moja jamani unaharibu....
     
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    i will be calling her by her name!....

    though she always calls me HNY
     
  16. Katavi

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    HE and SHE
     
  17. Nyamayao

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    heri na wewe dear wangu, nashukuru Mungu ame2wezesha kuuona.....ndio hapo nasema hainogi kabisa.
     
  18. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Sasa jamani bht si nilikuwa najaribu kwa kiswahili? maana ukweli ni kuwa ya kingeredha yanasound vema masikioni lol
    Heri ya mwaka mpya 2010
     
  19. GP

    GP JF-Expert Member

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    kivipi mkuu??
    niliwai kusikia kitambo kidogo ya kwamba neno LAAZIZ linatumiwa na mtu wa jinsia fulani kumuita mpenzi wake wa jinsia tofauti, wazee wa bakita, tuki msaada plz.
     
  20. bht

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    heri na kwako pia dia!!! we na Nyamayao vekesheni ilikuwa ndefu duh!!! misd u gurlz.....

    sas MJ1 tusojua kibluray hayo tunaona yasound poa tu...!!
     
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