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The Top Five Reasons She Can't Orgasm

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by eRRy, Jan 13, 2010.

  1. eRRy

    eRRy JF-Expert Member

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    1. She is too stressed out:

    Tension in a woman's body is the number one killer of orgasms.
    If she's holding a lot of tension in her body it will inhibit endorphins
    from flowing freely through her body which is essential for her
    experiencing the level of pleasure of a vaginal orgasm.

    If she has a lot of tension give her a massage. Massage is very
    powerful for getting any woman relaxed and in the moment.

    2. All her emotional needs in the relationship are not being met:

    It's all to common for us men to overlook or not understand a woman's
    needs in the relationship.

    If she feels an emotional void toward you for whatever reason she will
    be guarded and will not let her mind go, or surrender herself if
    this is the case.

    3. She is "trying" to hard to orgasm:

    Many guys learn the physical techniques and the first thing they do
    is say "oh hey honey, I have these super tricks I want to try to make
    you orgasm".

    This is not the right way to go about it.

    This puts pressure on her to orgasm which will kill any chance of
    her achieving orgasm. There should not be any discussion or
    expectation about the outcome of the sexual experience.

    This will free up her mind so that she can let go on her terms
    with out expectation.

    4. You are not a leader in your relationship, and ESPECIALLY not in
    the bedroom:


    She should trust and BELIEVE that she can surrender herself to you
    in the bedroom. You need to be the leader in the bedroom and lead
    her to orgasm.

    Guys who are wussies or supplicate to much in the relationship or
    bedroom will not be able gain enough trust for her to surrender
    herself fully.

    5. She is not confident in her body or her sexuality:

    If she's self conscious about her body she's going to have a hard time
    letting go.

    She shouldn't have any unhealthy thoughts about sex or giving
    herself to you. If she does, which isn't uncommon for women raised
    in very conservative environments, then you must take things slowly
    and make sure she's comfortable and can overcome any self-limiting
    beliefs about her sexuality.

    Sex is an enjoyable and healthy part of life for adults to experience
    and she needs to fully embrace her sexuality.
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    Have a Nice Day!
     
  2. Hebrew

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    Simple!! Get her Drunk..atasahau hayo yote na atafika kileleni
     
  3. Shishi

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    every day???
     
  4. BigBro

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    Yes, EVERY DAY...
     
  5. Teamo

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    mh!...
     
  6. KIFARU

    KIFARU Senior Member

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    Wakuu drunk si mchezo, hata kama ana kale kamchezo cha kujiexpress anaweza ibia siku hiyo,jamaa zangu wanavyoniambia.lakini vielelezo vyote hapo juu viko sahihi
     
  7. Buchanan

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    Hapa anaweza kutumia tricky ya kujifanya hataki sex, ili umtimizie mahitaji yake fulani ambayo inawezekana ulikuwa unakataa kumtimizia kwa sababu yoyote ile, ndio mfanye sex!
     
  8. Soulbrother

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    okay, twice a day kama unataka mchana na usiku
     
  9. Shishi

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    :eek: mwe!!!
     
  10. kobonde

    kobonde Senior Member

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    Utauwa baba,angalia baadae usimuite cha pombe
     
  11. Penny

    Penny JF-Expert Member

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    Nakweli ndugu yangu, maana hawa wadudu hawachelewi kukubadilikia kama kinyonga vile. Na alafu kumpa mwenzio pombe ili alewe ndo akutimizie haja zako sidhani kama hapo kuna mapenzi tena zaidi ya kubakana kama jogoo na kuku.
     
  12. Shishi

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    Penny dadangu mbona umepotea sana...karibu jamvini tena!
     
  13. Penny

    Penny JF-Expert Member

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    Nipo dear, ni mihangaiko ya hapa na pale tuu dear wangu. Nilikuwa kwenye first tremester sasa naendelea vizuri namshukuru Mungu kwa yote nipo sasa kwenye second tremester.
     
  14. BAK

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    Hongera Penny na nakutakia kila la heri na mafanikio katika safari yako.
     
  15. Penny

    Penny JF-Expert Member

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    Asante sana dear.
     
  16. Shishi

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    hongera my dear... kumbe ulijificha kufanya tumambo we ahahhaha. nakutakia kila jema katika hiyo safari.... be blessed!
     
  17. Penny

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    Mwe cunajua tena...asante sana mwaya.
     
  18. L

    Lizy JF-Expert Member

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    Shishi my dear, upo Shosty?

    am I late to wish you a Happy New Year 2010?
     
  19. Shishi

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    Ahahaha Lizy nipo nashkuru..never too late. 2010 vipi nafurahi uliiwahi! kila la kheri katika mambo yako!
     
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    Lizy JF-Expert Member

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    Asante, kila la kheri kwako pia.
     
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