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The Other Woman

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by BAK, Sep 17, 2012.

  1. BAK

    BAK JF-Expert Member

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    After 21 years of marriage, I discovered a new way of keeping alive the spark of love. A little while ago I had started to go out with another woman. It was really my wife's idea. "I know that you love her," she said one day, taking me by surprise. "But I love you," I protested.

    "I know, but you also love her." The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

    That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. "What's wrong, are you well," she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.

    "I thought that it would be pleasant to pass some time with you," I responded. "Just the two of us." She thought about it for a moment then said "I would like that very much."

    That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited at the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's. "I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed," she said as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting."

    We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.

    After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entree, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. "It was me who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said.

    "Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I respond. During the dinner we had an agreeable conversation, nothing extraordinary - but catching up on recent events of each others life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you". I agreed.

    "How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

    A few days later my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said:

    "I paid this bill in advance. I was almost sure that I couldn't be there but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife.
    You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you." At that moment, I understood the importance of saying, in time: "I love you" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.
    Nothing on earth is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off to "some other time".

    Someone said:

    "I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life."

    Please share this beautiful love story with members of your family, relatives and friends

     
  2. Prisoner 46664

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    A touchy tale..

    its true we should not be so quick in letting go of the other woman..nothing could hurt more than to see those who you used to love and care for walk out of your life, supposedly because your 'age' doesnt fit in their routines..sad
     
  3. King'asti

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    Ooh, so sweet!
    Touchy. This has given me an idea.... Asante best!
     
  4. BADILI TABIA

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    story za kutoana machozi acha!
     
  5. nyumba kubwa

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    Napenda sana story kama hizi. Nimekumbuka ya kale katoto mtoto alompelekea mama yake maua, mama sababu ya u busy kaishia kumpush asimsumbue amechoka kama sikosei.

    BAK umeshahau kusindikiza na songi.Lol

    Ronan Keating - If Tomorrow Never Comes - YouTube


    "If Tomorrow Never Comes"

    Sometimes late at night
    I lie awake and watch her sleeping
    She's lost in peaceful dreams
    So I turn out the lights and lay there in the dark
    And the thought crosses my mind
    If I never wake up in the morning
    Would she ever doubt the way I feel
    About her in my heart

    If tomorrow never comes
    Will she know how much I loved her
    Did I try in every way to show her every day
    That she's my only one
    And if my time on earth were through
    And she must face this world without me
    Is the love I gave her in the past
    Gonna be enough to last
    If tomorrow never comes

    'Cause I've lost loved ones in my life
    Who never knew how much I loved them
    Now I live with the regret
    That my true feelings for them never were revealed
    So I made a promise to myself
    To say each day how much she means to me
    And avoid that circumstance
    Where there's no second chance to tell her how I feel

    If tomorrow never comes
    Will she know how much I loved her
    Did I try in every way to show her every day
    That she's my only one
    And if my time on earth were through
    And she must face this world without me
    Is the love I gave her in the past
    Gonna be enough to last
    If tomorrow never comes

    So tell that someone that you love
    Just what you're thinking of
    If tomorrow never comes
     
  6. andishile

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    Be blessed!
     
  7. BAK

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  8. Heaven on Earth

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    Jamani hii stori imenisikitisha sana.....

    BAK thank you nimejifunza kitu sana
     
  9. christine ibrahim

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    dah!....bas bana
     
  10. Stamina

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    Kweli umuhimu wa mtu unaonekana pale anapokuwa hayupo!! So if u have parents or family please show them love!!
     
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    aiseee ....
     
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    naa JF-Expert Member

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    Touching
     
  13. mwallu

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    i just love this story
    uwa sichoki kuisoma
     
  14. BAK

    BAK JF-Expert Member

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    Shukrani sana Heaven on earth...JF ni shule kubwa sana ndio maana wengi tunakuwa addicted na hii kitu inaitwa JF maana tunajifunza mengi sana.

     
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    oooh sad story but nimejifunza kitu.
     
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    Caroline Danzi JF-Expert Member

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    nimechoka sana leo, n imejitahidi kusoma ila ki english hakipandi.
     
  17. K

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    Oh God help me 2 love ol thoz around me so dat wen they're gone isiume xana duh touching story.
     
  18. nyumba kubwa

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    Huu uzi umenikumbusha uzi mwingine wa aliyeuliza 'kipi bora kupendwa na mume au ndugu za mume' kama niko sawa

    Nadhani ni vema kuwasaidia waume zetu waendelee kuwa na uhusiano mzuri na wazazi na ndugu zao...we should not make them choose ...zile za 'nambie kama umenioa mimi au mama yako' ni mbaya sana...tunawapa wakati mgumu na stress hata kama hawatuambii...yes watakuchagua wewe lakini moyoni hawanaga amani.
     
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    Ungeweka original si huu wa picha za kutengeneza...original ndio mzuri bana


     
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    nina aleji na kiinglish tatzo... Nyani Ngabu nikalimanie.
     
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