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The 3 Things Love Is NOT

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by The Finest, Sep 20, 2011.

  1. The Finest

    The Finest JF-Expert Member

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    Love is everywhere, in every type of relationship, waiting patiently to be discovered to those who are open to it.

    1. Love Is Not Demanding - Giving is at every core of all that Love is. So if you find yourself constantly complaining or feeling a lack of
    fulfillment because you are not receiving a desired expectation from someone you claim to "love" dig deep within.

    2. Love Is Not Controlling - Being aware of the fact that you have another person completely under you influence does not give you a
    moral right to manipulate them in whatever way that suits you. A lover genuinely desires the best for who he (or she) loves. A lover sees
    an opportunity to have his way, but instead chooses what to do the best for the other person.

    3. Love Is Not Be-Grudging - Love accepts everyday as brand new. It forgets the wrongs of yesterday, and joyfully anticipates the rights
    of today. It looks upon the one who is loved with the hope that his goodness will shine through. There is no Love without Faith. It's
    impossible to love someone yet have absolutely no faith in the good that is in them. You can't love someone and yet be constantly
    suspicious and expecting only the worst from them.

    Love will accept the weakness of another but be committed by faith, to helping the person find strength in their weakness, we shall be beat down, we shall be bruised, we shall be scorned, we shall be ashamed. Yet through our hurts, through our pain, the Love in our hearts will be our desert rain.

    Love You All.

     
  2. Mr Rocky

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    Wou out of closet a man of love and caring is here
    Thank you TF
    Ila one point here
    How can u be in love without demanding something
     
  3. Mpita Njia

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    You have made my year, The Finest, thank you very much
     
  4. King'asti

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    so hiyo line hapo mwisho,u mean u have no expectations, no control over us, and no grudges? basi kama ndiyo, i love u even more. uwe na jioni salama yenye uwajibikaji
     
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    thanks TF .....tungetimiza hayo magonjwa ya ujilipua nayo yangepungua
     
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    like!!!!!!!!
     
  7. The Finest

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    Thanks to you King'asti
     
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    Thanks TF.

    Have a blessed evening.
     
  9. ndetichia

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    mkuu hapo chini kwenye point ya 2 kidogo huwa inakuaga ngumu kwa wengi lakini iko poa mbaya mkuu TF
     
  10. The Boss

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    no comments....lol
     
  11. The Finest

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    We can always try and do our best mkuu
     
  12. The Finest

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    Say sumthin Boss lol!!!
     
  13. The Boss

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    it is very good in theory,but in practical life..???????/
    dah,ngumu aisee

    ya jana na juzi tunaishi nayo pia...
     
  14. Mrx

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    love love love everyone talk about love.............tel me freind what is love my side i dont understand and i dont want to accept it. pleaz explain it for me.
     
  15. Remmy

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    Love u too TF
     
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    Hiyo ya tatu kibongo bongo mhhh
     
  17. Asprin

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    Source please??
     
  18. Rutashubanyuma

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    Well, the Finest, you have barely touched the point.....................the truth of the matter is LOVE is not:-

    1) adultery

    2) fornication

    3) sodomy........................................

    hayo mengineyo uliyoyataja they are just minor issues........................
     
  19. The Finest

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    CCM you got it??
     
  20. Asprin

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    Which Journal?
     
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