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Staying Apart.... Dawa ya Long Lasting Marriage........

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by VoiceOfReason, Dec 12, 2010.

  1. VoiceOfReason

    VoiceOfReason JF-Expert Member

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    Kwa wale walioshapata wenzao... na kuoa wanajua uvumilivu ni moja ya nguzo za ndoa... lakini tunajua kabisa kizazi cha sasa sio wavumilivu thats why wazazi wetu waliishi pamoja kwa muda mrefu tofauti na sasa......

    Kuna Jamaa mmoja Baada ya kuishi na Mke wake kwa Miaka 50 aliulizwa na Mwenzake Je? umewezaje kufanikisha hilo?.... Naye alijibu kuwa Nimeweza kukaa na mwenzangu kwa muda mrefu kwa kutokukaa nae kwa muda mrefu..... The point being sio mbaya kama mume na mke kuwa na some me time mume au mke anasafiri kidogo hata kwa wiki.. akirudi mwenzake anakuwa amesham-miss sio kila siku mpo wote 24/7 7 days a week for 365 days.. hapo ndo mwanzo wa kuchokana
     
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    Brandon JF-Expert Member

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    hili nalo neno! Nimeipenda sana.
     
  3. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    What is ur marriage status?
     
  4. roselyne1

    roselyne1 JF-Expert Member

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    nilipooana heading ya topik yako nikajua umemaanisha key to long lasting r'ship ni kulala vyumba tofauti...:A S shade::A S shade:
     
  5. VoiceOfReason

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    Single
     
  6. VoiceOfReason

    VoiceOfReason JF-Expert Member

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    Hapana dada sasa hapo itakuwa ni kwamba mmeshachukiana tayari... wakati bado penzi lipo motomoto mnakuwa apart kwa muda now and then mna delay kuchokana na kupunguza ugomvi usiokuwa na kichwa wala miguu
     
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    :A S tongue::A S tongue:
     
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    roselyne1 JF-Expert Member

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    nimeichakachua posti yangu,sikujua umeshaniquote........:embarrassed::embarrassed:nimekuelewa ila kuchokana baada ya muda fulani nadhani hakuepukiki hata kama mnapeana nafasi bado hii routine baadae itakuwa monotomy,akisafiri unatamani abakie huko huko...:rant::rant::rant:
     
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    naomba ni PM sasa hv nikuhabarishe please
     
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    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    real then update urself
     
  11. VoiceOfReason

    VoiceOfReason JF-Expert Member

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    Kweli Kuchokana kupo.. , lakini kama mlipendana mwanzo lazima kuna some positives as well as some negatives.. kwahiyo mkiwa apart lazima utamiss those positives.... kuliko mnapokuwa wote all the time mtu unaconcetrate kwenye negatives...... kama walivyosema "Aint No Sunshine Till Its Gone" Na kama tunavyojua there is a Thin Line Between Love and Hate... Mtapokuwa mnaboana kila mara and getting into each others nerves its easy for that love to turn to hatred... lakini unapopata breather na kutafakari unajua umuhimu wa mwenzako
     
  12. klorokwini

    klorokwini JF-Expert Member

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    hii rule yako inaweza ikawork lakini pia inaweza ikala kwako, hiki ni kizazi cha bongo fleva bana, samtaimu hiyo wiki unayoondoka mwenzi wako keshaipigia mahesabu. nadhani kuchokana sio ishu sana ,ishu ni watu tunaobey sana command za emoshen zetu.
     
  13. VoiceOfReason

    VoiceOfReason JF-Expert Member

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    Binadamu hachungwi ndugu yangu kama akiamua kufanya chochote hata ukikaa nae masaa 24, anaweza akafanya chochote akienda saloon, sokoni, kazini n.k. ........ Some birds are not meant to be caged...... "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were"
     
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    Wameiba Kura JF-Expert Member

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    Nooo basi haupo sahihi, kukaa mbali sometimes inavunja ndoa, but it depends nani uko nae.
     
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    Hii Comment inaonyesha experience flani hivi....si Bure hii......Anyway kipindi unatamani abaki hukohuko nani atakua anakupa Co????
     
  16. klorokwini

    klorokwini JF-Expert Member

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    kama umenisoma vizuri, sikuongelea kuhusu binadam kuchungwa , nimeongelea kwamba unaweza uka apply hiyo rule yako na ukalizwa vile vile, so kama unajaribu we jaribu tu lakini usizani kuwa hiyo rule ni solusheni kwa kizazi cha leo. nazani utakuwa umenipata, kama bado nishtue nirewind.
     
  17. VoiceOfReason

    VoiceOfReason JF-Expert Member

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    Kwa kizazi Cha sasa hakuna solution ya kuacha kulizwa it takes two to tangle Kama umepata mwenza mapepe hata ufanye nini kama atataka kuondoka ataondoka tu.... kwahiyo chochote utakachofanya utakuwa una delay the inevitable, soon or later ataondoka tu, ila kama unaye partner mwelewa na yupo poa si vibaya mkawa mnapeana ka nafasi kidogo sio mpaka muwe wote all the time....
     
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    Mla Mbivu JF-Expert Member

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    HAWA SI NDIO WALE WALIOPIMA DNA ZA WATOTO WAO JAMAA AKAKUTA WATOTO WATATU KATI YA WANNE ALIONAO SIO WAKWAKE? maana kuna vidume vilikuwa vinavizia akisafiri tu...
     
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    VoiceOfReason JF-Expert Member

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    Kama ni mtu wa kuchakachuliwa hata usiposafiri watu watachukua tu...... Na mtu ambaye hajiheshimu mpaka uwepo karibu hafai, inabidi awe anajiheshimu no matter wewe upo wapi...
     
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    mmmhhh hii rule safi lakini si dhani ka itafanya kazi kwa watu wengi sana ..
    watu wengine wanapenda kubadisha tu mazingira ka hali ni ngumu kidogo...
    ila wako 24/7 pamja lakini ..
    mambo ya nyumbani yakiwachosa wanachukua holiday wote,,
    safari za hapa na pale za kupeleka mchele na sukari kwa bibi hizo sawa, au za kikazi n.k
    si amini kuwa apart ndo solution ya kuish long lasting love more like break it lol
    mmmhh binafsi nahitaji Dozi yangu ya Klorokwini daily ..
    sasa nikikosa hiyo naniko mbali na mpenzio ..
    siitabidi niende dukani kununua...
    halafu ndo tutarudi kwenye ile thread yako nyingine
    "Honesty Is the Best Policy…. Lakini Kwenye Mapenzi Sometimes Uongo Is the Only Answer"

    yanini kujitafutia matatizo umeamua kuwa na mtu gangamaa naye mpaka hapo kielewe..
    kama huwezi kudum kwenye relationship stay single...
    samahani kama nimekukwaza

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