Single LADIES and LADS. . .

Yes i am a fine lad..i managed to stay single until University,then a certain 'wannabe good girl' showed up and screwed my clean sheet record. So now am waiting for the right one with no intentions of adding another notch to my belt.

Wow. . . that's quite a record.

Hopefully you will find you FINE LADY when the time is right. But if you don't mind me asking, what exactly are looking for in a lady.
 
Hapa imekatazwa "Kutegana" "Kupita" mimi hapa "Nimejileta" na nimeletwa na nia ya KUPERUZI mjadala. Hivyo naendelea kufatilia mtiririko wa mchakato huu.
 
Bht tafadhali fafanua hiyo ndoto ya kila mwanamke. . . . ukitaja vigezo vinavyokufanya umwone hivyo ndo tutajua kama ni "every womans dream man" kweli au ni "some
women's dream man."

Well nina mengi kusema juu yake bt again I will reserve some for supper...

He upholds high standards of morality
He is very respectifuly
He is very responsible
He is a man of justice
He is very inteligent and knowledgable
He is VERY principled (kuyumbishwa kwake hakuna)
He is very 'naughty' ni ngumu kuwa bored nikiwa naye...he Makes every moment an enjoyable one
He is not MEAN
He loves me for who I am (tough love is what I am talking about here...lol and tha is what I need)
He has a golden heart
He is very matured
.............................
........,.....................
ntaendelea tolea lijalo.....
 
me single bt opposite sex nipo mod 20's , so kwa sasa vigezo ni hivi kama nimekosea nisahisheni kaka na dada zangu labda nikifika 27
to 30 nitabadilika but i plan to get married at 27
1. awe mkristo lutheran, rc, any other not mlokole

4. awe my best friend than my love ambae tutaangalia mpira pamoja, playing playstation games, dancing kwaito and other stuffs friends do
,

Ahsante MK. .. Ila naomba niulize kwanini ulokole ni tatizo?

Alafu namba nne naona kama umeweka interest zako tu, je utakua tayari kushiriki zake?
 
Nashindwa kuliongelea kwa mapana kwa sbb tayari nipo ndani ya ndoa, ila ingetokea nafasi nyingine awe mcha Mungu,Anipende/nimpende na awe naakili zote yaani za darasani na za maisha kuliko mimi,awe na influence katika kichwa changu yaani wakati mwingine aweze kuniongoza (kiroho,kimwili n.k). mwenye uwezo wa kujicontrol akili na mwili wake sipendi watu wanao toka nje ya ndoa/mahusiano yao nawachukia hata kama hawanifanyii mimi.
 
Thanks Lizzy but i wish i could have this chance twice ..................ooooh no it has already gone.Anyway tell me,i know in normal circumstances it is possible but emotionally,honestly am done.Or may be advise me otherwise.
Vinginevyo asante kwa thready
 
Well nina mengi kusema juu yake bt again I will reserve some for supper...

He upholds high standards of morality
He is very respectifuly
He is very responsible
He is a man of justice
He is very inteligent and knowledgable
He is VERY principled (kuyumbishwa kwake hakuna)
He is very 'naughty' ni ngumu kuwa bored nikiwa naye...he Makes every moment an enjoyable one
He is not MEAN
He loves me for who I am (tough love is what I am talking about here...lol and tha is what I need)
He is has a golden heart
He is very matured
.............................
........,.....................
ntaendelea tolea lijalo.....

My kinda guy. . .just like my gentleman!! lolz

Nwy thank you mwaya. . . ila unajua wapo wanawake ambao mwanaume wa ndoto zao baadhi ya hizo sifa?Pamoja na kwamba vigezo vyote hapo ni "TOP NOTCH" bado wapo watu wasioona umuhimu wake.
 
Well nina mengi kusema juu yake bt again I will reserve some for supper...

He upholds high standards of morality
He is very respectifuly
He is very responsible
He is a man of justice
He is very inteligent and knowledgable
He is VERY principled (kuyumbishwa kwake hakuna)
He is very 'naughty' ni ngumu kuwa bored nikiwa naye...he Makes every moment an enjoyable one
He is not MEAN
He loves me for who I am (tough love is what I am talking about here...lol and tha is what I need)
He is has a golden heart
He is very matured
.............................
........,.....................
ntaendelea tolea lijalo.....
I almost thought it was me..lol... maana hizo qualities zinafanana na za kwangu
 
Nashindwa kuliongelea kwa mapana kwa sbb tayari nipo ndani ya ndoa, ila ingetokea nafasi nyingine awe mcha Mungu,Anipende/nimpende na awe naakili zote yaani za darasani na za maisha kuliko mimi,awe na influence katika kichwa changu yaani wakati mwingine aweze kuniongoza (kiroho,kimwili n.k). mwenye uwezo wa kujicontrol akili na mwili wake sipendi watu wanao toka nje ya ndoa/mahusiano yao nawachukia hata kama hawanifanyii mimi.


MbaliSana asante mchango wako.
Unaposema ingetokea nafasi nyingine una maana ya kwamba ulipopata nafasi yako ya kwanza hukuzingatia hivyo? Kama jibu ni ndio ningependa kujua iwapo umefanikiwa mpaka sasa au la, kama sio je ulizingatia nini wakati huo?
 
Ahsante MK. .. Ila naomba niulize kwanini ulokole ni tatizo?

Alafu namba nne naona kama umeweka interest zako tu, je utakua tayari kushiriki zake?

Dada lizzy ulokole wana imani za ajabu anaweza akarudi nyumbani ghafla akasema kupika ni kufuga mapepo si unajua makanisa yana mengi siku hizi, au ghafla akapotea kwenda porini kumpokea mwokozi, nazani ulisikia yale ya airport watu walioenda kutaka kusafiri kwenda kuhubiri injili bila ticket wala viza,

Kuhusu interest zake as long as we are friends nitashare na zake, but ziwe na respect to manhood, i like to have fun and being happy so kila jambo linalotupa furaha wote, i mean mutual benefits nitajoin but isiwe kucheza taarabu...
 
Una mpango wa kuoa/kuolewa?

Kama jibu ni HAPANA . . kwanini?
Kama ni NDIO. . . je ni VIGEZO gani ambavyo vikifikiwa na mkaka/mdada utashawishika/penda kuingia ndoani?
Na ni MASHARTI (usichukulie neno masharti kwa uzito wake, namaanisha vitu ambavyo ni muhimu kuzingatiwa) gani ambayo yakizingatiwa unaamini ndoa yako itadumu?
My dia Lizzy,
Dah!hii ya leo kali ila salama lol!
kwa upande wangu ni hv:
Jibu: Ni NDIO
sababu/vigezo
;
*He is a real Man,means ni mwanaume sio Mvulana
*Ni matured enough 30-35
*Mkristo mchamungu
*Ananipenda km nilivyo
*Ni mwelewa
NB,nashukuru mungu ndie nilienae na ametimiza vigezo mpaka vya ziada na tunasubiri mapenzi ya mungu yatimie kwetu.
 
Thanks Lizzy but i wish i could have this chance twice ..................ooooh no it has already gone.Anyway tell me,i know in normal circumstances it is possible but emotionally,honestly am done.Or may be advise me otherwise.
Vinginevyo asante kwa thready

Kikungu you can always have another chance if you want it and you up for the challenges that comes with it.
Emotions can always be repaired.

Nwy, care to share with us what captivated you the first time and how the real thing turned out to be?
 
Dada lizzy ulokole wana imani za ajabu anaweza akarudi nyumbani ghafla akasema kupika ni kufuga mapepo si unajua makanisa yana mengi siku hizi, au ghafla akapotea kwenda porini kumpokea mwokozi, nazani ulisikia yale ya airport watu walioenda kutaka kusafiri kwenda kuhubiri injili bila ticket wala viza,

Kuhusu interest zake as long as we are friends nitashare na zake, but ziwe na respect to manhood, i like to have fun and being happy so kila jambo linalotupa furaha wote, i mean mutual benefits nitajoin but isiwe kucheza taarabu...

Hahahahaha. . . ahsante MK.
Nimekusoma na ninakubaliana na wewe kwamba baadhi yao hua wanatumia dini vibaya.

Mmmmh ni zipi hizo zisizo heshimu uanaume kwa maoni yako?
 
dada lizzy ulokole wana imani za ajabu anaweza akarudi nyumbani ghafla akasema kupika ni kufuga mapepo si unajua makanisa yana mengi siku hizi, au ghafla akapotea kwenda porini kumpokea mwokozi, nazani ulisikia yale ya airport watu walioenda kutaka kusafiri kwenda kuhubiri injili bila ticket wala viza,

kuhusu interest zake as long as we are friends nitashare na zake, but ziwe na respect to manhood, i like to have fun and being happy so kila jambo linalotupa furaha wote, i mean mutual benefits nitajoin but isiwe kucheza taarabu...
hii kali jamani ahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
 
My dia Lizzy,
Dah!hii ya leo kali ila salama lol!
kwa upande wangu ni hv:
Jibu: Ni NDIO
sababu/vigezo
;
*He is a real Man,means ni mwanaume sio Mvulana
*Ni matured enough 30-35
*Mkristo mchamungu
*Ananipenda km nilivyo
*Ni mwelewa
NB,nashukuru mungu ndie nilienae na ametimiza vigezo mpaka vya ziada na tunasubiri mapenzi ya mungu yatimie kwetu.

Canta i'm happy for you. . . natumaini mambo yataenda vizuri usije ukaanza kutafuta tena maana huku nje wengi ni wale wale, umri umeenda ila bado hawajakua.
 
Nipo kwenye ndoa, ila ingetokea nafasi nyingine, awe mcha mungu kwelikweli, hajawahi zaa mtoto na mtu mwingine,ananipenda sana/nampenda sana , interest zetu zifanane, awe na akili za darasani na Maisha kuliko mimi. awe na uwezo wa kuniongoza kimwili na kiroho yaani sio bila mimi nyumba haindi sipendi vilaza kweli, asipende ngono za nje ya mahusiano.
 
My kinda guy. . .just like my gentleman!! lolz

Nwy thank you mwaya. . . ila unajua wapo wanawake ambao mwanaume wa ndoto zao baadhi ya hizo sifa?Pamoja na kwamba vigezo vyote hapo ni "TOP NOTCH" bado wapo watu wasioona umuhimu wake.

ile 'every woman's dream man' ilikuwa kibwagizo tu cha kuonyeshea kuwa hizo sifa anazo posses 'gentleman' wangu ni 'TOP NORCH' AS YOU HAVE PUT IT and not necessarily that every woman would like to see that in a man BUT most do...
 
I almost thought it was me..lol... maana hizo qualities zinafanana na za kwangu

Wacha wee....lol
jipaishe bana usisubiri kupaishwa, wengine ( if you have it flaunt it...Gee anahusika hapa)
 

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