Well yeah almost the same thing happened to me. I trusted someone so much because I thought we had a good future together, we had been together for four years, I did a very stupid thing, last year i took a bank loan and gave him the money because his business was dying. In June this year he told me he was seeing someone else and in August they got married. Im still paying the bank loan which is making me financially lost, and trying hard to be both a mother and father to my kid. Honestly I dont think I want anything from him even if he one day decides to pay me. If I dint have the loan to pay every month may be I might have been able to pay my fees.