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Sababu za wanandoa kwenda nje ya ndoa yao

Discussion in 'JF Chit-Chat' started by imma.one, Sep 23, 2011.

  1. imma.one

    imma.one JF-Expert Member

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    Habar za leo wana jf.
    Kuna sababu nyng zinazosababisha wanandoa kutoka nje ya ndoa zao nazo ni pamoja na:-
    1.wanandoa kujsahau
    pind wanapokuwa wachumba huahdiana mengi zaidi.
    2.kupunguza utamu
    unakuta wakati wa uchumba/upenzi wanapeana ile ya haja na kila mmoja kuridhika lakini baada ya ndoa huanza ratiba na visingizio kibwena
    3.kunyimana uhuru
    unakuta wakat wa awali mlikuwa mnaish kwa amani,uhuru na upendo lakn baada ya hapo uko wap?na nan? Unafanya nin? Kwanini? Huwa zinaboa na kuifnya ndoa kama kifungo.
    4.kubadilika kwa maisha.

    Unakuta maisha ya awali mmoja aliamin kuwa ni bingo sasa maisha yamechange
    5.Tamaa
    wengi huponzwa na tamaa za pesa ama uroda hii ni kutokana na tabia za mtu binafsi hasa anaposhndwa kujizuia.
    6.Makundi
    epuka sana mwanamke/mwanaume mwenye makundi kwn mmoja kwenye kund akikuchukia tu na ananguvu kwny kund imekula kwako.
    7.Iman za kishirikina
    kuxa wengu huamin kuwa akishaolewa/kuoa ni lazima amfunge mwenza kutoka nje wakati mganga mwenyewe anamgogoro huo huo na mkewe/mmewe.
    8.Utumiaji wa madawa
    kama dawa za ngozi,nywele,pombe,bangi na dawa za kuongeza nguv za kiume kwani huleta negative impact kubwa.
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  2. Mtambuzi

    Mtambuzi Platinum Member

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    Mbona umeishia kati kati bana.............. zilitakiwa azifike kama kumi hivi.
     
  3. imma.one

    imma.one JF-Expert Member

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    Ok nimeziongeza mkubwa endelea
     
  4. NG'ADA

    NG'ADA Senior Member

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    hii haijapotea jukwaa kweli?anywayz...kiufupi inataka moyo kuwa ndani ya ndoa...
     
  5. imma.one

    imma.one JF-Expert Member

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    Kaka James ukishakuwa porini usiogope nyoka kaka.nilazima mwisho wa cku uoe au la fanya kinyume chake.
     
  6. Shine

    Shine JF-Expert Member

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    Vibaya kumshauri mwenzako kufanya kinyume chake coz ata mungu amekataa
     
  7. Shine

    Shine JF-Expert Member

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    Yafaa mtu kuyatambua baadhi ya matatizo yaliyoko kwenye ndoa ili pindi utakapo ingia ujue utajipanga je ktk ndoa
     
  8. Likwanda

    Likwanda JF-Expert Member

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    Wanando waendelee kuvumiliana tu, sioni sababu ya halali itayomfanya mwanandoa kutoa penzi nje. Kama kunamapungufu ni bora ndoa ivunjike kwanza.
     
  9. Mtambuzi

    Mtambuzi Platinum Member

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    Hapo sasa umepatia................. Si unaona imependeza eh!
     
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