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Sababu za msingi za kumpiga mwenzi wako!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Kaunga, Sep 25, 2011.

  1. Kaunga

    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Wana MMU habari za weekend?
    Nimeona nianzishe Uzi huu baada ya The Finest kunitafakurisha kwenye Uzi wake "what make u stay"
    Ni mara nyingi sana kwa kwa baadhi ya waume kupiga wake zao naomba tujadiliane ni lini, kwa kosa lipi mke anastahili kupigwa! (ni mara chache sana mke kumpiga mume; naomba tusijadiliane hilo)

    Pia naomba tuchunguze kwa undani sababu za kijamii zinazompa uhalali wa mume kumpiga mke kama zipo!

    Na mwisho, tuchunguze tabia za wanaume hawa ambao hupiga wake zao (wataalamu wa psychology mtusaidie), je wanamitu kinachofanana (have s/thing in common); huenda hii itawasaidia kina dada wanaotaka kuolewa kutambua mapema!

    Karibuni kwa michango yenu ya thamani!
     
  2. ndetichia

    ndetichia JF-Expert Member

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    kikubwa kinachowapelekea kumpiga mwenza wake ni wivu na sifa za kijinga ndio zinapelekea huko..
     
  3. Kaunga

    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Nakubaliana na wewe; lkn na wanawake pia si huwa na wivu? Au kwakuwa wengi wetu hatuna nguvu za kupigana?
     
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    HAMNA WAPIGAJI WAZURI KAMA WANAWAKE!
    Ila yao it's like a silence killer,na kwa sababu yy ndie kashika zana zote,she can even kill you, si anakuwekea ka cyanide unajikuta umeondoka na anaedelea na raha?
    Kupigana nai mambo ya kizamani na haswa kwa watu wasiondelea(mind),rate imeteremka sana.
    Lakini kubwa kwa lote ni tabia,mtu ambaye ni violent mke wake anaweza hata kuwa anamletea chai akampiga kwa sababu hakuileta kwa adabu?*?
    Hamna sababu ya kumpiga mwanamke maana visababu utakuta mtu anapigwa kwa sababu ya mwili wake au utumwa wa kununuliwa na viji mahali.e.g mtu amekutwa analiwa uroda anapigwa yeye,mtu amekutwa anazungumza na mwanaume(unknown or known to the fam)anapigwa yeye,chakula hakina nyama -kipigo.
    Wapiganaji kuna siku utampiga mtu umuue na wewe ndio adios au Keko ya miaka kadhaa:fencing:
     
  5. BADILI TABIA

    BADILI TABIA JF-Expert Member

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    hakuna uhalali wa kumpiga mke, ni ujinga na ubabe wa kishamba wa baadhi ya wanaume (ambao mara nyingine wanawake wengine wanauendekeza na kulea maradhi)
     
  6. Kaunga

    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    TMK Dar
    Nazungumzia phisical violence. Unasema hakuna sababu ya msingi; nakubaliana nawe. Labda tuangalie wanaume wanaowapiga wake zao, do they have something in common? Malezi/ makuzi yao, je wao ni violent hata maofisini, wanajiamini, utendaji wao kwa ujumla!

    Tujaribu kuangalia root cause na influencing factors za tabia hiyo!
     
  7. Kaunga

    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Kwanini wanataka kuonesha ubabe? Ina maana hawajiamini au? Na kama ndivyo hiyo ndiyo njia pekee yakuonesha wako ontop?
     
  8. BADILI TABIA

    BADILI TABIA JF-Expert Member

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    absolutely na ukimkuta mwenye wivu wa kijinga + kutokujiamini kwake, tegemea kipigo kisichoisha!

    Ingawa mara nyingine malezi yanangia, mwanaume alokulia nyumba ambayo baba anampiga mama akili yake inajitune kuwa mume kumpiga mke ni kawaida, na mwanamke anadhani kupigwa na mume ni sawa.
     
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    unajua tatzo la kumpiga mwandan wako au mkeo hutokana na tabia ila siku zote anaesababsha yote haya ni mwanamke mwenyewe. Kwann anasababsha huwa wanapenda kufanya vitu ambavyo umemkanya au mliongea ili mrad aone utachukuwa hatua gan na hapo ndipo unapokuta mwny kukosa uvumilivu anamshushia kipigo.
     
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    Kupiga sio kitu nzuri vyema ni table talk.WANAOPIGA WAKE ZAO BADO HAWAJAZINDUKA KIAKILI na wengi wanaopigwa ni wale magori kipa au hawana kimbilio lingne zaidi ya kumtegemea mume wake ndo maana huwa wanashindwa hata kwenda kuwashitaki wanaume zao. WANAWAKE WENGI WAO WANAOPIGWA NAO HAWAJAZINDUKA KIAKILI
     
  11. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Ninaamini kabisa hapo ulikusudia kuandika ILA WAKATI MWINGINE au KUNA WANAWAKE WENGINE.
    Maana kwa kuandika hivyo ulivyoandika ni kama unasema siku zote ni wanawake tu wanaokosea na kuwafanya waume zao wawapige.
     
  12. Kaunga

    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Hivi unajua kuwa mwanamke ni mtu mzima? Anakanywa mtoto mdogo, mtu mzima mnajadiliana! Je ofisini secretary wako akikosea pamoja na kwamba 'umemkanya' unampiga?

    Na wewe mf; mkeo akikukanya kunywa pombe na kuchelewa kurudi nyumbani usiposikia akupige?

    Maana yangu kila mtu anakwazwa once in a while; je njia rahisi ya kumdispline mtu ni kipigo?

    Labda swali la msingi ni kuwa; lengo hasa la kumpiga mwenzio ni nini? Kumrudi, kumkomoa, kumuumiza, kumfundisha au kumaliza Hasira zako?
     
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    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Lakini wengine ni wafanyakazi, mwanajamii alitupa historia yake kule kwa The Finest; mimi pia nilipigwa sana na kudhalilishwa, nilikuwa na kipato changu kizuri tu. Ila kuna ukweli kuwa wenye uwezo tunaweza kutoka kwenye relation hizo zaidi ya wale wasio na uwezo wa kipato!
     
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    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Mj1; hata kama mwanamke kakosea na hakanyiki, ukimpiga ndio atabadilika? Jua mwanamke aliyeolewa ni mtu mzima tayari. Mimi siamini kuwa kipigo ndio fundisho, nashindwa hata kuelezea; lkn kwa mwanaume aliyeniabuse mimi it was insecurity na kujaribu kuprove uanaume wake!
     
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    Kaunga, uko sawa kabisa. Kwa hii post yako ninaomba nisiongeze kitu kwani imekamilika. Abuse cuts across haijalishi msomi, tajiri au masikini ikipata nafasi ya kuwa exercised inakuwa. Katika maisha yangu sikuwahikumwona baba yangu akinyanyua mkono kumpiga mama yangu (sijui huko chumbani kwao) na wala sikuwahikufikiria kuwaza kuwa pamoja na 'uelewa wangu kielimu,' iko siku ningekuwa abused na kuvumilia kila kilipokuwa kinatokea hadi kufikia siku ya kusema basi.
    Hapo kwenye red hapo kaunga nadhani wapigaji wengi wanaangukia hapo. Kweli kabisa.
     
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    unazungumzia kumpiga mke kwa vp,say amekosa/amefanya maudhi au basi tu wajisikia kumpiga. wangu alishawahi kuniudhi nilimnasa vibao viwili na later aligundua kuwa ni kweli alikosa. hii nayo utasema ni nn?
     
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    inawezekana unaamini mwanamke akipigwa ndo anajua kapendwa? Hv unampiga huyo ni mtoto? Na pale mwanaume anapokosea,mwanamke ashushe kipigo au kwa kuwa wao hawana nguvu? Mie nadhani ukimpenda mke/mume na kumthamini huwezi kunyosha mkono wako juu yake, mtazungumza kama watu wazima na kumaliza tofauti. Kumpiga mwenza wako ni dharau ya hali ya juu.

    Mwanamke hapigwi ngumi, anapigwa na kitenge tena wax original
     
  18. BADILI TABIA

    BADILI TABIA JF-Expert Member

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    na mtoto akikosea unamfanya nini? Wewe ukikosea anakulamba makofi?
    Wanawake mnaanza kupigwa kdg kdg leo kofi moja kesho mawili mtondogoo ngumi, mwishowe atakucharanga na visu
     
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    hapo kwenye red mkuu naona bado unaongelea wanawake wa kipindi cha mama zetu co hawa wa dot.com
     
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    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Anayekuudhi/aliyekuudhi duniani ni mkeo tu? Mwalimu wako hajawahi kukuonea, utawala wa sasa hujawahi kuudhi? Hujawahi kunyimwa haki zako? Je kwanini huwanasi vibao hao wengine?

    Unamnasa kibao mkeo kwakuwa wamliki, au kwakuwa hawezi jidefend? Mimi nakuona weak; n u take all ur trouble to the vulnerable and defendless being like mkeo!
     
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