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Partenity leave: Nini tunatakiwa tufanye kama wanaume?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by TIMING, Dec 9, 2010.

  1. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    Wakuu,

    Nimeona leo nichangamshe jamvi kwa kuomba tujadili nini cha kufanya pale ambapo mwanaume unakua umepata mtoto... we usually get very excited when our loved ones are expecting and we get even more excited when when get a new baby.

    Quickly we forget all the fears, trauma, blood, anxiety na hata jinsi our loved ones are over-exposed to the grave dangers of delivery na ni kwa jinsi gani wanakua karibu zaidi na kifo kuliko hata wakipa malaria, TB na UKIMWI (magonjwa yanaopwa mabilioni kila leo).

    I have had a chance to be a farther more than once na kuwa kwenye process ya delivery na hata kukaa na mama na mtoto from day one baada ya kid kuzaliwa;

    Binafsi nina manne au matano makubwa sana
    La kwanza ni jinsi ya kuwa karibu sana na mama hasa zile saa za kujifungua, in fact that is where our roles zinakua more than needed kutoa supoport na guidance kwa mama, ndugu jamaa na marafiki... sometimes hata hao caregivers wanaosaidia wapenzi wetu kuzaa

    La pili ni namna ya kupokea mtoto, ni lazima tuwe tumejiandaa sana... lakini kubwa zaidi hapa ni ku-appreciate mama kuliko kubaki tunashangaa mtoto tu!! Mara nyingi sana sisi wanaume, tunapoona mtoto au kukabidhiwa mtoto, mara moja tunahamisha attention yote na kusahau mjumbe wa Mungu aliyebeba ujumbe huo... we can do better than that

    La tatu, ni namna ya kujitolea kuongoza malezi ya mtoto, wengi wetu hupokea mama au mama mkwe kuja kulea, lakini kusema ukweli, ni sisi ndio wenye primamry role ya kumsaidia mama... sie ndio tuwajuao wenzetu na pia sie ndio wenje miji. Sometimes anaweza kuja mama au mama mkwe ambaye mara ya mwisho kuogesha au kukanda ilikua 20 years ago!!

    Jingine kumweka mwenza kwenye security ya hali ya juu kimahitaji na pia kihisia na mapenzi... hata kama tunatoka au vipi ni vyema awe secure kwamba its all for a good course
    [FONT=&quot]La tano, ni kuwa wasafi wa hali ya juu, dedciated to help during night hours na kuwaandalia wenz mambo mazito ya maakuli... THEY LOVE IT[/FONT]

    yapo zaidi lakini kwa kuchangamsha mada na pia kuchangamsha.... nasema kwamba being a dad is beyond having a baby

    you can Google a few links such as
    BabyCenter | Homepage - Pregnancy, Baby, Toddler, Kids
    www.fatherhoodinstitute.org
    thefatherfactor.blogspot.com

    na pia ni vyema kusoma kitabu kinaitwa what to expect when you are expecting

    Its always good to be a dad, but its always the best to be the best dad
     
  2. Fab

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    wao! mkeo ana raha...:redfaces::teeth:
     
  3. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    fab

    wanasema fuata nitendayo na si nitendayo... ila mengi hapo juu kwakweli nimejitahidi sana... nakaribia kujaza timu ya basketi mazee!!
     
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    Tata JF-Expert Member

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    Hii paternity leave ni wakati mzuri wa kuwa site ukishughulikia ujenzi wa nyumba au kwenye shughuli za ujenzi wa familia.
     
  5. Asprin

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    Nani kakudanganya?
     
  6. Teamo

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    haya bana.....!:bored::bored::bored:
     
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    Asprin JF-Expert Member

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    Acid salama kamanda? Hii kitu nimeiprinti, ntampostia dogo Teamo aifanyie kazi. Copy ntampa Dasophy.

    Siku nyingine ukiamka bila mahangover unaandika mashairi mazuri sana.

    Good stuff pal!
     
  8. Teamo

    Teamo JF-Expert Member

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    hehehe!
    haya bana n'kubwa

    chumbani kwangu kumekuwa kama LOUNGE......wakina mama wote wanaenda kumuangalia mtoto chumbani wanakaa huko na kupiga store.hii itakuwa sababu nzuri pia wewe ukija na mama matesha yeye ataingia kumchek kidi sisi takuwa KAPONGO pale nafanya kile kinachostaili....!valuu na pepsi.wanaume haturuhusiwi kumuangalia mtoto kabla ya kufikisha 40 deiiz
     
  9. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Aksante kaka Acid........kwa kweli ujumbe wa ijumaa hii ni mzito duh...............yaani nilidhani ni jumatatu ati.

    Ni kweli kabisa umeelezea vizuri hata mie binafsi mwanzoni sikuwa nauona umuhimu wa patenity leave nikajua ni utaratibu wa kigeni tumeuiga tu na sisi..........sikuwahi kuwaza nini hasa mwanaume/baba anatakiwa kufanya katika zile siku 3 apewazo baada ya mkewe kujifungua. Hapa leo nimepata shule. Ubarikiwe and have a happy furahi day
     
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    FirstLady1 JF-Expert Member

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    Acid nimekosa la kusema
    Umenifurahisha sana kwa hii post yako ur a darling
     
  11. Mom

    Mom JF-Expert Member

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    Congratulation Acid, inaelekea wewe ni good father and husband!
     
  12. Kimbweka

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    Asante mkuu
    Wengine huwa tunakaa na kunywa mtori na mama (Mzazi)
    Ukirudi kazini umenenepeana
     
  13. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    kweli wewe mtata
     
  14. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    jirani

    Kwa hili acha niringie mkuu... pale namanga ile migoti ya ngombe nilinunua hadi wakadhani nimezaa na nchina mazee...

    we ngoja siku moja ntakuletea ushahidi

    the finest is well aware maana wakati anasimamia misa pale st. joseph tulikua tunamtuma yale matunda ya uhindini
     
  15. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    halahala teamo

    kifua cha mtoto bado mazee

    angalia bana hii milli yetu siku hizi ya kichina, dont congest your room with many people

    ila kingine aisee, make sure mama anajiremba hata kama bado kachoka maana hili nalo ni la kuangalia sana, akina mama wakijifungua wanakua hata nywele zao hawazijali wala ile mikangha huiachia tu

    set a beautiful and well ventilated nest for your new angel nephew

    Acid
     
  16. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    Thanks dreamtoy

    full pinky naona
     
  17. Asprin

    Asprin JF-Expert Member

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    Nlijua tu, kina mama watavutiwa sasa na hii sredi......Acid ulipanga kupata attention na senksi za hawa viumbe?
     
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    Asprin JF-Expert Member

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    Ewaaaa....kama kawaida: "carina inapoangalia ndipo safari inapoelekea" - Kimambo's first law of infidelity
     
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    Paternity leave inatolewa siku 3 tu sasa ndani ya siku hizo baba anaweza akamsaidiaje mama?

    Binafsi naona akina baba nao tupiganie haki angalau tuwe na Paternity leave ya siku 30.
     
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    Wow! Acid, hope ur a lovely husband and father! Congrats!
     
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