MwanajamiiOne
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HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
If a man wants you, Nothing can keep him away, If he doesn't want you, Nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviours
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship thats not meant to be, slower is better
Never live life for a man before you find out what makes you trully happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't be friends.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend, Don't settle.
If you feel he is stringing you along then he probably is,
Don't stay bcoz you think he will get better.
You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better,
The only person you can controll in a relationship is you.
Avoid a man who've got a buch of children by a bunch of different women,
He didnt marry them when they got pregnant, why would he treat you differently
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you, If something bothers you, Speak Up.
Never let a man know everything, He will use against you later.
You can not change a man's behaviour, changes comes from within.
Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Don't make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nithing less
Never let a man define who you are, Never borrow someone else's man
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you
All men are NOT DOGS,
You should not be the one doing all the bending, Compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, There is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issue before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for some one to COMPLETE you.....
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals
Look for someone complimetary not supplimentary
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right
Make him miss you sometimes, When a man always know where you are and you're always readily available to him, he takes you for granted
Never move in to his mother's house, Never co-sign for a man.
Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt give you everything that you need,
Keep him in your rader but get to know others
Dr. PHIL: Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtfull.
sijui kama hii inaaply kwa wanaume tu au hata sie kina dada. ila inafundisha
You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone, and if a man mistreats you, he will miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the first place, Just know that he is not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices, make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts.
Share this with other people
You will make someone smile, another re think her/his choices and the other to be prepare
Source: Lady Jay Dee: HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
If a man wants you, Nothing can keep him away, If he doesn't want you, Nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviours
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship thats not meant to be, slower is better
Never live life for a man before you find out what makes you trully happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't be friends.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend, Don't settle.
If you feel he is stringing you along then he probably is,
Don't stay bcoz you think he will get better.
You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better,
The only person you can controll in a relationship is you.
Avoid a man who've got a buch of children by a bunch of different women,
He didnt marry them when they got pregnant, why would he treat you differently
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you, If something bothers you, Speak Up.
Never let a man know everything, He will use against you later.
You can not change a man's behaviour, changes comes from within.
Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Don't make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nithing less
Never let a man define who you are, Never borrow someone else's man
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you
All men are NOT DOGS,
You should not be the one doing all the bending, Compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, There is nothing cute about baggage.Deal with your issue before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for some one to COMPLETE you.....
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals
Look for someone complimetary not supplimentary
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right
Make him miss you sometimes, When a man always know where you are and you're always readily available to him, he takes you for granted
Never move in to his mother's house, Never co-sign for a man.
Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt give you everything that you need,
Keep him in your rader but get to know others
sijui kama hii inaaply kwa wanaume tu au hata sie kina dada. ila inafundisha
You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone, and if a man mistreats you, he will miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the first place, Just know that he is not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices, make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts.
Share this with other people
You will make someone smile, another re think her/his choices and the other to be prepare
Source: Lady Jay Dee: HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
