We are the victims of our own selves! We have never been exposed to situations which seriously need a change of mindset throughout our growing up period! Sure it won't be easy to change when all but our own pride seems to fall apart as we continue to age and be caught up with life. Throughout our lives we have lived inside a cage, a cage which had rules, rules of which if followed gave us results we desired TO PASS! Now we are thrown out in the world unfair and unequal ground. Sure it is a difficult battle and we evidently seems to be loosing the battle so we go back and find a place and space where we can impose boundary and establish a platform that we can simply win! Only to realize it's ourselves we are hurting! To me it is simply an act of cowardliness... if you really want to be superior go out there in the world and do that! Then and only then you will become my role model!