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Nothing But The Truth? Truth Hurts!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mbu, Nov 19, 2010.

  1. Mbu

    Mbu JF-Expert Member

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    mnh, jamani?
    Kwenye haya maisha ya 'Baba & Mama' (Ndoa) kuna wengine wanatushauri kuwa wakweli, ati "only the truth will sets us free!", kuna wengine wanatuonya, "kinywa huponza kichwa!"

    Je, nini mtazamo wako juu ya hili?
    Unaamini kusema 100% ukweli wa kila kitu kwa mke/mume ni sahihi?
    au,
    unadhani ni heri ujibakizie % fulani 'kwa matumizi ya dharura?'
    Mwenzenu kila nikijifikiria kwa hii 5th amendment, mnh!

    - "You have the right to remain silent, Anything you say can and will be used against you!..." -
     
  2. afrodenzi

    afrodenzi Platinum Member

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    mmhhh hilo swali hatari
    lakini kwa maoni yangu ukisha oana/olewa itakuwa fresh mkiwa mnaelezana.....
    lakini kuna vitu vingine vinaweza kuhatarisha ndoa yenu..
    so u have to be careful and choose you words properly before you say any thing...
    (most of people have a little secret that no one have to know)
    so im gona say u have to say 90% and keep the 10% to yourself...
     
  3. TIMING

    TIMING JF-Expert Member

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    Mbu...

    they say kila kitu ni relative to the scenario and time....

    Mimi lazima niseme ukweli kama nafanya kitu na mtu, na lazima niweke facts zangu wazi, but that truth remain between me and the partner of crime tu! privacy is always key to personal life

    However, if i have seriously messed up, i would try as much as possible to let it go... In a movie burning bridges, the mom told a daughter --- "lie, it is the only thing that separate human beings from animals", and that advice came as the mom discovered that her daughter cheated on her husband

    i stand to be corrected but not every truth is noble...
     
  4. GFM

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    If you killed somebody, u better keep that to you and yourself as that can be a game changer.
    Yes, anything you say can be used against you, …..but remember that it can also be used to help you!
    And we are talking about married couple here, not vicheche! The problem of lying is you will always need
    to make a big lie to cover up for the 1st one. You gotta be damn smart in that respect! Otherwise
    arobaini yako ipo njiani………
     
  5. Che Kalizozele

    Che Kalizozele JF-Expert Member

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    Mpwa nakubaliana na wewe,binafsi siku zote naamini madhara ya kusema uongo ni makubwa ukilinganisha na madhara ya kusema ukweli kama yatakuwepo.Hivyo siku zote naamini katika kusema ukweli.
    Kuna siku nilikutana na dada mmoja nikamuuliza,haujambo dada yangu?

    Akanijibu,"Namshukuru Muumba anaendelea kunifichia siri zangu" Kusema ukweli haimaanishi kwamba hauna siri ambazo mwenzio hajui,maana yangu ni kwamba unapokuwa na option ya kudanganya au kusema ukweli,kusema ukweli is a best option.Na siri hapa namaanisha personal issues ambazo naamini zitakuwa zinatoka as time goes on.Ni vigumu kumuambia mwenzio mambo uliyoyafutika ndani ya moyo wako for years yoote ndani ya siku moja.
     
  6. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Some secrets are bound to remain secrets.....................................................and its not a lie its just.........not telling the truth.
     
  7. pmwasyoke

    pmwasyoke JF-Expert Member

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    Sio lazima kila ukweli usemwe. Lakini inapobidi kusema, uwongo haufai - ni kujiwekea mtego utakaonasuka siku za usoni.
     
  8. GFM

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    Hata wewe bibie, nilidhani waniamini..............U got to have a friend that u trust! .............. they have a name for people who don't ..........of course it can be you and yourself................ but u got this guy/gal that is on your side till death do u apart.
    How much of a friend is he/she to you? Do you count on him/her for anything?
     
  9. RR

    RR JF-Expert Member

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    Nothing But The Truth-----doesn't exist! Some truths are worth 6feet under....
    Truth Hurts ---- hurts and we don't have to hurt our loved one...
    Halafu MJ1 kunyamaza pia ni aina ya uongo!.....
     
  10. Teamo

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    hili hi tatizo la kitaifa
     
  11. Maty

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    na kimataifa pia mwe :tape::tape::tape:
     
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    Ashangedere Senior Member

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    Jamani mimi hapo ndio tatizo langu yani mimi sijui nikoje sijui kabisa kujiwekea siri zangu huwa nasikia kuna kitu kinanisumbua kama mzigo fulani hivi, najikuta tu yani najikuta tuu nishamwambia shemeji yenu (sijui kaniendea bwagamoyo hahahaa) na nikisema mengine kweli huwa yananirudia mwenyewe sasa hata sijui nifanyeje ili nisiwe na kiherehere (hahahaaaa) cha kumwambia baba watoto kila kitu.
     
  13. RR

    RR JF-Expert Member

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    Ukiongolea kushindwa kuficha siri....kuna mama mmoja alishindwa kuficha siri ya yeye kumbambikia mmewe 'first born' wao.....
     
  14. Konakali

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    Kwa hapo red, unahatarisha mahusiano yetu....! Maana nikija kugundua mwenyewe basi ujue hakutakuwepo mjadala wowote...! Katika ubongo wa mtu, kuna files kama kwenye RAM ya computer hii unayoitumia...! Sasa hizo 10% zitakuwa kwenye file lipi, kama sio file la "SECRETS"? Iwapo hili file lipo kwenye ubongo wako basi litaendelea kuhitaji updates na utakuwa na nafasi ya kuendelea kufanya/kukaribisha secrets zingine nyingi kwa kuwa una pahala pa kuhifadhi....! Now, the only thing that will set you free in your relation is to delete this file completely from your memory, and the only way to delete it ni kuanika kila kitu kwa mwenzio, unless you are rushing and running.....! Tafadhali sana, elewa kuwa japo ni kazi ngumu kutimiza, lakini "Ukweli siku zote unakuweka huru"....! Just think on yourself, binafsi ni rahisi kumsamehe mkweli au muongo? Kwangu mimi huenda nikamsamehe mkweli toka moyoni bile kujali kanitendea kosa la aina gani, lakini nikishagundua kuwa alichoniambia sivyo, basi asitegemee msamaha kabisa, nitamsamehe lakini tutaachana mara moja...!
     
  15. LeopoldByongje

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    You are very very right. Big Up kamarade :hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie::hippie:
     
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    pmwasyoke JF-Expert Member

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    Umbeya ni kusema ukweli (au hata uwongo) kwa msikilizaji asiyetakiwa. Hivyo hata msamiati wetu unatambua haja ya kuwa economical katika usemaji wa ukweli.
     
  17. Mbu

    Mbu JF-Expert Member

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    ...ok,
    Nimewasoma wote, wengi wenu mna support "kusema ukweli daima uwongo kwenu ni mwiko!"

    Lakini?
    inawezekana kweli? in a real 'Baba & mama' life kusema ukweli daima?
    Tuwe wakweli jamani, ndoa nyingi mbona zi mashakani?
    :thumb:
     
  18. Mtende

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    yes truth can set u free,but remember some other truth can put u into life trouble and made u regret all ur life,on telling the truth be careful about what u want to tell,and whom ar u telling such truth otherwise u gonna suffer
     
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    :hungry:
     
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    hapa pamoja nakuficha ID zetu bado kuna wakati tunasema uongo ndo kwa wenzi wetu tukubali tukatae kuna mambo yanasemwa na mengine yatabaki kuwa ya kwako ndo maana huu usemi "You have the right to remain silent, Anything you say can and will be used against you!..." - kila nikiukumbuka midomo yangu lazima iwe mizito kusema baadhi ya mambo na yatabaki moyoni mwangu mpaka kesho
     
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