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Nini kifanyike kuzinusuru ndoa za nyakati hizi?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Chepeti, Nov 29, 2011.

  1. C

    Chepeti Member

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    Kama mjuavyo ndoa za nyakati hizi zimekta tofauti kabisa na kipindi cha wazazi wetu na bibi na babu zetu.Ndoa za enzi hizi zimekua ni kama mbwembwe tu ila watu wengi hawadumu kwenye ndoa zao ,nini tatizo ,naomba michango yenu
     
  2. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Tatizo ni
    1.watu kuingia ndoani bila kujua wanachofuata humo. . .
    2.kuingia kwasababu ya vitu ambavyo ni rahisi kuisha (pesa, uzuri wa mwili, uzuri wa sura, fame etc).
    3.kuingia kwenye ndoa na mawazo ya kwamba kila siku itakua jumapili. . . hawajiandai na vikwazo.
    4.kuingia kwa shinikizo la watu wengine.
    5.kuingia kwa hofu ya "kuchelewa" au kukosa kabisa mtu mbeleni.

    Watu wakianza kuoana for the right reasons (kupendana na kuhitajiana) labda matatizo yanayohusiana na infidelity (tatizo kubwa linalozaliwa na hayo hapo juu ) yatapungua.
     
  3. Kongosho

    Kongosho JF-Expert Member

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    Tusioane!
     
  4. m

    mzabzab JF-Expert Member

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    mwisho wa dunia ndio utakuwa solution.....mengine yote ni kutapatapa.
     
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    Tall JF-Expert Member

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    TATIZO:
    WENYE NDOA,HAWAHESHIMIANI,HAWAPENDANI KIUKWELI,HAWAWAJIBIKI,HAWATUNZANI,HAWAAMINIANI,HAWASHIRIKIANI,HAWASIKILIZANI,HAWASAMEHEANI,HAWAHESABU MEMA YA WENZAO ILA MABAYA TU,HAWALINDANI.HAWAHURUMIANI.

    Haya YAKIONDOKA,ndoa patakuwa kama peponi NI FURAHA AMANI NA RAHA.
     
  6. Freema Agyeman

    Freema Agyeman JF-Expert Member

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    anzisha shule ya ndoa
     
  7. ldd

    ldd JF-Expert Member

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    Wadada wapunguze kutembea nusu uchi! alafu pia wanawake wamekuwa wengi ivyo unakuta wanakomalia mpka wenye ndoa! so unakuta mama watoto akisanuka anasepa mazima!
     
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    Tall JF-Expert Member

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    halafu wewe utakuwa mwalimu mkuu???
     
  9. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Mavazi ya wadada yanachangia vipi kuvuruga ndoa?
     
  10. mikatabafeki

    mikatabafeki JF-Expert Member

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    ndoa muhimu
     
  11. B

    Beby Member

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    you are so bright. Nimependa point zako, n t z very tru!
     
  12. Freema Agyeman

    Freema Agyeman JF-Expert Member

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    only if got moral high grounds...why not
     
  13. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Thank you darling.
     
  14. BAK

    BAK JF-Expert Member

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    Mambo kama haya ndani ya ndoa huwa yanaongeza uhai kwenye ndoa.



    I just wanna...
    Show you how much I appreciate you
    Wanna show you how much I'm dedicated to you
    Wanna show you how much I will forever be true
    Wanna show you how much you got your girl feelin' good
    Wanna show you how much, how much you're understood
    Wanna show you how much, I value what you say
    Not only are you loyal, you're patient with me bay
    Wanna show you how much, I really care about yo heart
    I wanna show ya how much, I hate being apart
    Show ya, show ya, show ya til you're through with me
    I wanna keep it how it is, so you can never say how it used to be

    (Bridge)
    Loving you is really all that's on my mind
    And I can't help but to think about it day and night
    I wanna make that body rock, sit back and watch

    (Chorus)
    Tonight I'm gonna dance for you (ohh ooh ohh ohhh)
    Tonight I'm gonna dance for you (ohh ooh ohh ohhh)
    Tonight I'm gonna put my body on your body
    Boy I like it when you watch me, ah
    Tonight it's going down
    I'll be rockin' on my babe rockin', rockin' on my babe
    Swirlin' my babe Twirlin', swirlin' on my babe
    Baby lemme put my body on your body
    Promise not to tell nobody cuz
    It's bout to go down

    You'll never need 2, cuz I will be your number 1
    Them other chicks are superficial
    But I know you know I'm the one
    That's why I'm all into you
    Cuz I can recognize that you know that
    That's why I'm backin' this thing back
    Pop, poppin' this thing back
    Drop-drop-drop-dropping this thing back
    This is for the time, you gave me flowers
    For the world, that is ours
    For the moonlight, for the power of
    love
    I know I won't never ever eh-ever give you up
    And I wanna say thank you in case I don't thank you enough
    A woman in the street and the freak in the you know what
    Sit back sit back it's the pre game show
    Daddy you know what's up
    [ Lyrics from: Beyonce - Dance For You Lyrics ]
    (Bridge)
    Loving you is really all that's on my mind
    And I can't help but to think about it day and night
    I wanna make that body rock, sit back and watch

    (Chorus)
    Tonight I'm gonna dance for you (ohh ooh ohh ohhh)
    Tonight I'm gonna dance for you (ohh ooh ohh ohhh)
    Tonight I'm gonna put my body on your body
    Boy I like it when you watch me, ah
    Tonight it's going down
    I'll be rockin' on my babe rockin', rockin' on my babe
    Swirlin' my babe swirlin', swirlin' on you babe
    Baby lemme put my body on your body
    Promise not to tell nobody cuz
    It's bout to go down

    Imma take this time
    To show you how much you mean to me
    Cuz you all I need
    No money can emphasize or describe
    The love that's in between the lines
    Boy look into my eyes
    While I'm grinding on you
    This is beyond sex
    I'm high on you
    If it's real then you know how I feel
    Rockin on you babe
    Rockin rockin on you babe
    Swirlin on you babe
    In my mind all I can think about
    Is a frame for our future
    And the pictures of the past
    And a chance to make this love last

    (Chorus)
    Tonight I'm gonna dance for you (ohh ooh ohh ohhh)
    Tonight I'm gonna dance for you (ohh ooh ohh ohhh)
    Tonight I'm gonna put my body on your body
    Boy I like it when you watch me, ah
    Tonight it's going down
    I'll be rockin' on my babe rockin', rockin' on my babe
    I be swirlin' my babe swirlin', swirlin' on you babe
    Baby lemme put my body on your body
    Promise not to tell nobody cuz
    It's bout to go down

    Watch me pop it, pop it, pop-pop-pop-pop it for you baby
    Drop it, drop it, drop it, drop it for you baby
    Watch it, watch it, watch it, watch me throw it baby
    Wanna make that body rock, sit back and watch

    Watch me pop it, pop it, pop-pop-pop-pop it for you baby
    Drop it, drop it, drop it, drop it for you baby
    Watch it, watch it, watch it, watch me throw it baby
    Wanna make that body rock, sit back and watch

     
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  15. C

    Chepeti Member

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    kuna umuhimu sana kuhusiana na hili janga,issue sio kuanzisha shule,walioko humo wengi wao ni watu na elimu zao na ufahamu wao
     
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    ldd JF-Expert Member

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    Pevuka, ze way mnanadi biashara zenu mnakuta men wengi wanashawishka kujaribu,na wakshazama uko hawatoki!
     
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    christer Senior Member

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    nadhani ni kutoelewa maana ya mtu mwenye mume na mwenye mke(aliyeoa au kuolewa)anatakiwa a behave vipi.ili kutofautisha mazoea ya kabla ya ndoa na maisha baada ya ndoa.pia ha wafahamu kuwa ndoa ni kutoa uhuru wako kiasi ili umilikiwe na mumeo au mkeo.na ndoa bila kumilikiana haiwezi kuwa na mafanikio.ubabe uliopo sasa(uchelewe kurudi utaki kuulizwa,simu yako isiguswe n.k)ndo maana ndoa nyingi hazina amani kabisaaa.na mtu anatoka nje ya ndoa kuondoa stress kumbe ndo analeta matatizo makubwa sana ya mbele.mwisho vijana tumjue Mungu.maana nafasi zetu na mamlaka yetu yameandikwa wazi katika vitabu vya dini.ukifahamu mwanaume unawajibu gani na haki gani uwezi kupata shida na mkeo pia akifahamu anawajibu gani ktka ndoa na haki zipi hapatakuwa na ugomvi.mbona ofisini tuna peform vizuri tu nyumbani tunashindwaje?
     
  18. Sniper

    Sniper JF-Expert Member

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    Lizzy Umeolewa? Da naleta posa kwa kweli kama hujaolewa, nipokeeeeeeeeeeeee

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    Il Gambino.
     
  19. HorsePower

    HorsePower JF-Expert Member

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    Ndoa siku hizi ni fashion, ile maana halisi ya kuungana na kufanya familia huku wanandoa wakitunzia heshima, imepotea kabisa!
     
  20. sijui nini

    sijui nini JF-Expert Member

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    msiongelee upande mmoja tu jamani...mbona zipo pia zinazodumu hizhiz za siku hizi...mfano ya kwangu...tumetuliiaaa na tunazaidi kusonga kwa uwezo wa MWENYEZI....I alwzys say thank you to God for this..!!
     
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