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Nichukue hatua gani hapa?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Manyanza, Sep 15, 2011.

  1. Manyanza

    Manyanza JF-Expert Member

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    Wadau, habari za jioni?
    Naombeni ushauri wenu katika hii ishu kuna binamu yangu mtoto wa shangazi yangu anataka kunifanyia uhuni kwa Girlfriend wangu.
    Nina Mpenzi wangu ambaye tumeanza kuwa na mahusiano kama miezi minne sasa baada ya kuwa marafiki wa muda mrefu, nilijuana na huyu binti tangu akiwa kidato cha pili mpaka amemaliza kidato cha sita mwaka tulikuwa tukiwaasilana na kutembeleana kila alipopata likizo mpaka sasa tumejikuta tupo katika uhusiano.
    Nimeandika thread hii kuomba ushauri wenu kabla ya kutaka kuchukua maamuzi yangu binafsi, kifupi, nina binamu yangu ambaye huwa namchukulia kama kaka na rafiki yangu wa damu lakini kwa kitendo alichofanya jana amenichefua na nimemuona hafai..
    Kwa kuwa namchukulia kama rafiki sikuweza kumficha kuhusu Girlfriend nikampa mpaka namba za simu na kuna siku tulienda pamoja mpaka kwa Girlfriend wangu na akaonana nae, kwa hiyo tangu siku hiyo wamekuwa wakiwasiliana kila mara na huwa wanataniana sana, GF wangu ni Mcheshi na ni muongeaji na anamchangamkia kila mtu hata binamu yangu na yeye ni muongeaji na anapenda sana utani...
    Jana usiku kampigia GF wangu simu akawa anamwambia ni lini atakuja Dar? Anataka kuonana nae lakini asiniambie mimi na akija atachukua hotel wataspend the whole night pamoja.
    GF wangu alichomjibu akamwambia hawezi kuja dar bila mimi kupata taarifa.. na akazidi kumwambia kwa sasa uwezekano wa kuja Dar ni mdogo kwani tarehe 3 October anaenda Chuo Iringa Tumaini. Kwa hiyo hawezi kuja na kama akija basi atakuja kwa sababu maalum.
    ( GF WANGU KWA SASA YUKO KWA BIBI NA BABU YAKE MOSHI)
    MAZUNGUMUZO HAYA GF WANGU ALIKUWA ANAYAREKODI NA AMENITUMIA SOUND CLIP KWENYE EMAIL.
    Alilazimika kurekodi na kunitumia baada ya kuona jamaa anaanza kuongea ishu ambazo sizo, na GF wangu hajapendezwa na hili jambo kabisa.
    Inshort Binamu yangu ana motto wa kiume ana miezi alizaa na msichana wakati wakiwa chuo huku Malaysia.
    Kwa kweli alichokuwa anakiongea huyu jamaa kimenisikitisha na kimenifanya nimuone mshenzi wa tabia na ambaye hafai katika jamii sasa nifanyaje??/
    Nilichokuwa nimepanga:-
    1. Nimemwambia shangazi ambaye ni mama yake au dada yake
    2. Nimchane live
    3. Nimwambie mke wake ambae amezaa nae na ikiwezekana nimpelekee na ile Sound clip asikilize
    4. Au niwambie washikaji zake ili wampe live.
    Lakini kabla sijachukua haya maamuzi nikakumbuka kuna wadau wa MMU naomba ushuri wenu wadugu kabla sijaamua kuchukua hayo maamuzi n iliyotaja hapo juu, ingawa najua yatasababisha mahusiano yetu kuwa mabaya...
    Please advice wakuu:
    Note: my cousin- 27 years. Me 24(kesho) and my GF is 21
     
  2. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    Mwambie gf wako ajifunze kukabiliana na mitongozo. Huko chuo anapoenda atakuwa anakushtakia kila anapotongozwa?
     
  3. Lizzy

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    Si tayari girlfriend wako ameshaonyesha hana muda nae?!MPOTEZEE.

    Au mjulishe tu kwamba unajua madudu yake na hujayafurahia.
     
  4. Ennie

    Ennie JF-Expert Member

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    M face mwenyewe na umueleze unajua anachofanya na hujapenda. Next time uwe makini nae maana umeshamfahamu tabia yake sio.
     
  5. The Boss

    The Boss JF-Expert Member

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    Ukimshtakia kwa mama yake
    trust me...utamuongezea ujiko..ingawa ni ujinga..

    Wamama wakilietewa kesi za watoto wao wa kiume kutongoza
    mioyoni huona sio kesi kabisaaaa
    ingawa mbele za watu atajifanya kakasirishwa lol
     
  6. BADILI TABIA

    BADILI TABIA JF-Expert Member

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    mwambie huyn binamu yako hujapenda alichofanya, halafu mpotezee kimtindo
     
  7. BlackBerry

    BlackBerry JF-Expert Member

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    Du pole sana rafiki yangu, mie nachokushauri mwambie tu kwamba unajua kwamba anamtaka GF wako, then baada ya hapo we mchangamkie kama kawaida, ila mwambie iwe mwanzo na mwisho kuwasiliana nae,kwa upande wa msichana hadi kuchukua clip du hapo alienda mbali, mie ningekuwa huyo msichana ningemchana huyo jamaa na kumwambia akirudia tena nakwambia asingeendelea kumtongoza, pole sana yamalize kiutu uzima
     
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    uporoto01 JF-Expert Member

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    Namsikitikia Manyanza mpaka huyo binti anamaliza chuo anaweza kupata ugonjwa wa moyo,vitu vingine amalize mwenyewe bana-huo muda wa kurekodi mpaka maongezi duh!
     
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    G_crisis JF-Expert Member

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    Hatua namba mbili ndio ya ukweli zaidi
     
  10. rosemarie

    rosemarie JF-Expert Member

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    mkuu kwa jinsi navyokuona kwenye avatar najua wewe ni mature"kama hiyo avata ni wewe"
    mambo ya relationship na wanawake kwa ujumla jifunze sana kupotezea la sivyo utakonda mkuu!!
     
  11. OTIS

    OTIS JF-Expert Member

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    Taratibu mkuu usije ua mende kwa nyundo.
    Mwambie gf wako amwambie jamaa kuwa tayari ameshamsemea kwako kwa usumbufu anaomletea.
    Na wewe usimfuate jamaa baada ya hapo hadi pale ukiona amezidi.
     
  12. Manyanza

    Manyanza JF-Expert Member

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    nimekusoma Lizzy, halafu huyu cousin yangu ana mtoto na lakini tabia zake ni mbovu tu. Naendelea kupata maoni ya wadau
     
  13. Manyanza

    Manyanza JF-Expert Member

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    its me kwenye avatar mkuu, siumii na chochote mkuu lakini kumbuka huyu jamaa ni binamu yangu damu na kumnyamazia tu haifai ndio maana nipo hapa kupata maoni nini cha kufanya.
     
  14. SaraM

    SaraM Senior Member

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    Kwa kweli msichana mwenzetu hapo amechemsha, hatusemeagi huwa tuna deal nao na kuwaonyesha misimamo kwa kuwatolea macho, sio kuwa entertain kuwaongelesha weeee ili waongee zaidi na tuwarekodi, hapana. nakushauri hata usimuulize ndugu yako ili mradi ushajua
     
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    Heheheee ajifunze kukabiliana na Mitongozo sio??, kuna Matongozo mengine Makubwa yanaweza kumshinda umri.
     
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    Peter lilayon Member

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    Mwanamke asikugombanishe na ndugu rafiki mwambie Gf wako ampotezee, na wewe mpoteze. Huyo gf 2 mwanangu?. unawewaza kugombana na ndugu kisa mwanamke akaja akakutenda huku umegombana na ndugu ukakosa pa kukimbilia. Mwambie huyo demu ndo amuambie c wewe we mwanaume bwana acha usamba
     
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    Gaga JF-Expert Member

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    Manyanza mdogo wangu,nakushauri mwache tu, haifai kugombana na ndugu yako kwa swala kama hilo, haya mambo yapo ila shukuru msichana amekuwa na msimamo, ila kukwambia ndio kachemsha nahisi, sidhani kama ni jambo la busara kugombanisha ndugu,kwani msichana kasisitiza umwambie?
     
  18. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    hakuna kinachoshindikana chini ya jua.
     
  19. nyumba kubwa

    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Ndugu ni ndugu huwezi gombana nae. Lakini kumbuka kuwa hata mwanamke ukishamuoa anakuwa na thamani kama ndugu au zaidi ya ndugu.

    Ushauri wangu ni kuwa wala usimface huyo ndugu yako ila cha msingi kuwa nae makini saaana. Nasema hivyo kwa kuwa huyu mdada amemtolea nje na yawezekana mdada asiwe girlfriend wako wa mwisho; ila kukupa taharifa imekusaidia kujua what your cousin is capable of. Kuna ma player wana ethics na wanajua limits. Kuna wasio na limits. Jamaa atakuwa na katabia ka kuwinda wasichana wa wenzie ndio hao wanaozaa na wake za ndugu zao.

    Keep a big distance from your so called cousin other wise akikwaa maugonjwa yake mnaondoka familia nzima. Who knows kama atakuwa anatolewa nje na wasichana wako wote? Who knows kama hajawahi kukumegea wasichana wako walopita??? Shukuru kwa taharifa kwani imekupa tahadhari no matter whether alichofanya mdada ni right au ange keep it as secret. Kwangu mimi si kila kitu ni worth to be called siri. Ikifichuka usingeamini kuwa alimtolea nje jamaa.
     
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    Ave Ave Maria JF-Expert Member

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    We mchane live ajue kabisa kuwa madudu yake anayoyafanya sio issue na umeshayagundua. We mpaka gf wako kakwambia ujue yamemshinda!
     
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