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Namchukia baba yangu!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by GAZETI, Oct 9, 2011.

  1. GAZETI

    GAZETI JF-Expert Member

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    Nilipomwambia nataka kuoa alinikataza akasema mpaka nijijenge kimaisha
    Kutokana na kuzidiwa na matamanio nilikuwa nalala kitandani na kuimage kuwa
    niko na mwanamke mpaka ninapee.... Huu ni mwaka wa kumi sasa, siku moja
    niliamua kwenda kwenye danguro ili kupunguza machungu kwa kufanya ya ukweli
    fedha nimelipa lakini nimeumbuka kwani mzee alishindwa kuamka kabisa kutoka
    mafichoni...................

    Sina furaha tena naogopa hata kuoa kwani sijui kama nitaweza ku... nahisi
    nitaumbuka.... nimezoea kukandamiza godoro... na kuji......
    Namchukia baba yangu natamani hata kumuua kwani kila nilipokuwa namueleza
    suala la kuoa alikuwa ananifokea sana na kuniambia nakimbilia maisha...... Nilikuwa
    naona aibu kutongoza mwanamke kwani mara nyingi nilikuwa nahudhuria kanisani
    hivyo nafsi ilikuwa inanisuta sana...........

    Ana miaka 32 anasimulia habari hizo ni ndefu nashindwa kuweka maelezo yake
    yote, kweli ana haki ya kumchukia baba yake kiasi hicho?
    Vipi utamshauri nini mwanao kama anataka kuoa na unaona wazi bado maisha yake
    hayajawa mazuri kiasi unachohitaji wewe kama mzazi?
     
  2. rosemarie

    rosemarie JF-Expert Member

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    sioni sababu ya kumchukia dingi yake hapo
    labda baba anajua sana mambo haya ya ndoa,alitaka mtoto wake asijepata matatizo manake ndoa za siku hizi bila hela umeliwa
     
  3. ndyoko

    ndyoko JF-Expert Member

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    Sasa kosa la dingi hapo liko wapi? Hilo ni tatizo la kula kulala ndiyo maana hata dingi mwenyewe hawezi kuamini kama mwanawe anaweza kukaa na mke. Miaka 32 bado anakaa kwa gingi kama sio uchuro ni kitu gani hicho? Mweeeh!
     
  4. Kitty Galore

    Kitty Galore JF-Expert Member

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    alikuwa hata mechi za mchangani hauzurii? hilo jamaa f a l a kweli, dingi ndo alikuwa anamshikia mashine yake?
     
  5. Bishanga

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    Kitty Kitty Kitty...........jamani.........
     
  6. Bishanga

    Bishanga JF-Expert Member

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    mwambie first and foremost ahame nyumbe akajitegemee hata kama ni kwa kuuza magazeti au karanga njiani,then ndo afikirie kuchukua mtoto wa watu akaishi naye.
     
  7. Mzee wa Rula

    Mzee wa Rula JF-Expert Member

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    Mimi naona huna haja ya kumchukia dingi kiasi hicho, huo ni muono wake juu ya wewe kuoa lakini na wewe inatakiwa usimame imara kutetea msimamo wako likiwemo suala la magonjwa. Very simple, mzee mimi nimeshakuwa mtu mzima nahitaji kuoa ili nianzishe familia yangu na kuanza kuihudumia kabla umri haujaenda sana. Pia lipo swala la magonjwa, kunizuia kuoa na wakati nimeshapevuka vya kutosha ni kuninyima haki yangu ya msingi na kuniweka katika risk ya kupata magonjwa likiwemo HIV kwani nitashindwa kujizuia! Kuhusu suala la mashine kushindwa kusimama hilo ni suala la kisaikolojia tu kwa kuwa umezoea nyento! Halafu usichukue malaya kwani inakuongezea possibility ya uume wako kutosimama kutokana na akili yako kuiona risk iliyopo mbele yake basi unakuta kitu kinanywea kama umetoka kuoga maji ya baridi!
     
  8. RasJah

    RasJah JF-Expert Member

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    Au dingi anamfanya chakula mtoto wa kiumebi
     
  9. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    khaaaa! Dah! Eeeh!
     
  10. M

    Magoo JF-Expert Member

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    32Yr uko kwa Baba?? huyu ana matatizo mengi ama hajishughulishi.... atafute mwananmke taratibu kitu kitazoea maadam mashine huwa inasimama asubuhi
     
  11. peri

    peri JF-Expert Member

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    Tatizo hajajipanga kuoa ila Wazazi wengi ndivyo walivyo. Wanawakatisha tamaa wanao kuoa hatakama wameshajipanga lakini wanaona kawaidi wanapofanya uzinifu.
    Asimchukie baba, afanye matibabu then ajitegemee na aoe bila kusubiri ruhusa ya baba. Mwanaume akishajipanga kuoa haombi ruhusa kwa baba bali anamuarifu tu.
     
  12. Vin Diesel

    Vin Diesel JF Gold Member

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    Hana akili huyo...ajilaumu kwa kuwa tegemezi mpaka ana miaka 32...angekuwa ana uwezo wala asingehitaji ruhusa ya mzee kuoa...ila mzee kagoma kwani anajua jukumu la kulea linaongezeka...
     
  13. AMINATA 9

    AMINATA 9 JF-Expert Member

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    no way loh! yani 32 bado kwa baba wafanya nn sasa jamani mwe!
     
  14. mikatabafeki

    mikatabafeki JF-Expert Member

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    mnh hata mechi za kisela tu za ujirani mwema jamani???
     
  15. Mcharuko

    Mcharuko Senior Member

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    Ujirani mwema ukipachika mimba unakataa mpaka tuende kwenye DNA ndo ujirani gani huo. Yaani ni MIKATABA FEKI tu iliyojaa kwenye huo unaoita ujirani mwema.
     
  16. Apollo

    Apollo JF-Expert Member

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    Aisee pole sana. Bora uwe kilema kuliko kushindwa kunanilii.
     
  17. Mwakalinga Y. R

    Mwakalinga Y. R Tanzanite Member

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    Wewe bwana unamatatizo binafsi achana na habari za kizushi za kumchukia baba yako
     
  18. Mcharuko

    Mcharuko Senior Member

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    Mi nafikiri tatizo ni wazee wa sasa, wazee wa zamani walikuwa na busara
    hawa wazee wa sasa hawana busara na akili zao kama kuku. Samahani
    kama nitakuwa nimewakosea heshima bt no way out wakati niko shule
    ya msingi nimewahi kutongozwa na wazee wengi tu ambao wengine ni
    wakubwa kuliko baba yangu mzazi. Nilipokuwa sekondari ndo kabisaaa!

    Wazee wa zamani wakiona umefikia ukubwa hata kwa kukutafutia mke
    watakutafutia, hii ilikuwa inawasaidia vijana wavivu kujituma kwani
    anajitambua kuwa yeye ni mtu mzima na ana majukumu nyumbani lakini
    hii mizee ya sasa kazi kuhonga na kuzuia watoto wao kuoa. Ajira zenyewe
    ngumu mi naona wakati ule mtoto anatafuta kazi basi nawe mtafutie kitulizo.....
    Mwanamke ni kitulizo tosha cha kupunguza misongo ya mawazo
     
  19. Vijisenti

    Vijisenti JF-Expert Member

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    Binti umenikuna sana mpaka nimekunika. Safari yangu itakuwa nzuri maana najiandaa
    niko safarini NITAKUPM Kuna kitu nataka kukuuliza nitakutumia namba ya simu naomba
    unibeep nitakupigia!
     
  20. M

    Mokoyo JF-Expert Member

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    huyo ambaye angemuoa, angetongozewa?
     
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