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Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Nailyne, Sep 29, 2011.

  1. Nailyne

    Nailyne JF-Expert Member

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    Mke kapata safari nje ya nchi, (training) safari hiyo inahusisha kikundi cha watu sita kutoka Tanzania,(funded trip) siku moja akiwa nyumbani kwake na mumewe anapigiwa simu na mmoja wapo wa wale watu sita ambao anatarajia kusafiri nao kuwa safari imesogezwa siku 10 mbele.Mke anamtaarifu mumewe kuwa amepata simu kuwa safari imehairishwa, na anamtajia jina la huyo aliyepiga simu, mume akahamaki akadai huyo jamaa yeye anamjua vizuri sana ni muhuni sana, hakuishia hapo akaanza kumlaumu mkewe iweje amempa namba huyo mwanaume? na kwa nini huyo mwanaume anampigia simu mkewe?

    Mke akamjibu mumewe kuwa huyo mwanaume anatarajia kusafiri naye, na wamefahamiana kwa sababu ya hiyo safari na wamepeana namba ili wajulishane yanayojiri kipindi wanajiandaa na safari na hiyo simu amepigiwaa kumpa update ya safari, na akamuuliza mumewe je kwa kuwa huyo mwanamme amempigia simu mkewe basi hicho ni kigezo tosha kuwa ameshalala nae? mume akahamaki kwa nini amejibiwa hivyo,akaanza kumpiga mkewe kwa hasira, mkewe akafanikiwa kutoroka humo ndani na baadae akarudi. Bahati mbaya huyo mke alikuwa mjamzito, na matokeo yake mimba ikatoka usiku wa tukio hilo. Huyo mke alienda training yake na akarudi ila hajarudi kwa mumewe akarudi nyumbani kwao kwa wazazi wake,hamtaki tena mumewe, na anadai hiyo sio mara ya kwanza kupigwa.


    Binafsi najiuliza hivi mtu akioa basi anakuwa amepewa rungu la kumpiga mkewe? Ee Mungu ninusuru mja wako.
     
  2. OTIS

    OTIS JF-Expert Member

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    Hakuna mwanaume hapo,huyo ni wa kiume tu.
    Utampigaje mkeo kwa kujitungia mambo kama huko na tena mjamzito.
    Tena alitakiwa kwenda kumshtaki kabisa.
    OTIS.
     
  3. The Boss

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    insecurity bana....

    sasa hapo kama kulambwa si ndo kkesshalambwa kiulaini????/
     
  4. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    Hizi kesi za ndoa mwenzenu nachoka!
     
  5. TANMO

    TANMO JF-Expert Member

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    Huyo Jamaa inawezekana ana matatizo ya Kisaikolojia, badala ya kumlaumu tafuteni namna ya kumsaidia kuondokana na tatizo lake!
     
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    yanachosha haswa, ni zaidi ya tuzionavyo kwa nje...kabla hujatia mguu wako ndani ni lazima ufikiri mara sita sita!
     
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    Nailyne JF-Expert Member

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    hivi insecurity dawa yake nini?
     
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    Nailyne JF-Expert Member

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  9. The Boss

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    ndio hayo hayo ya kumuona mwanasaikolojia
     
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    hana matatizo yoyote. Mtu mwizi humuona mwenzie ni jambazi. Huyo mwanaume ni fuska ndo maana anafikiri na mkewe anafanya kama yeye.
     
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    Wanaume wengine bwana! baada yakutafuta njia yakumthibiti mkewe kwa penzi anamdhibiti kwa fimbo sasa awaachie wenzie wale kwa raha zao...
     
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    mwanaume ama mwanamke ambae hajiamini hafai kuwa partner wa mtu kabisaa! utamjua mtu ambae hajiamini kwa behaviour zake tu toka wakati mna-date. sie wanawake tuna tabia ya kujifariji kuwa 'jamaa ana obsessions kwa sababu bado hajanioa, ama mie ni mzuri sana' etc. tunasahau kuwa watu hawabadiliki unless they want to! tabia haina dawa, tena hapo ndo jamaa gauge ya kujiamini imeshashuka hadi 0, akirudi kwake ndo itakua kila kitu anahisi unafanya becoz of that incident. ila ya wanandoa mengi banaa,utashangaa siku unawaona wanapita wameshikana mikono,wanasaka mimba ingine!
     
  13. Nailyne

    Nailyne JF-Expert Member

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    duu kumbe mafuska ndivyo walivyo? ipo kazi
     
  14. Nailyne

    Nailyne JF-Expert Member

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    nikatika maswali niliyokuwa najiuliza sikupata majibu,ukimpiga ndio utafamya mkeo akupende zaidi? au ndio unaongeza tatizo lingine? kweli akili ni nywele
     
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    yawezekana kuna vitabia aliviona lakini hilo la kumpiga halikuwepo kabla ya ndoa, na hilo lakurudiana kwa kweli ntashangaa lakini as u said mambo ya wanandoa huwa hayatabiriki, ila kwa mtazamo wangu its likely jamaa akarudia tena kumpiga maana watu wenye hizi tabia mhhhh
     
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    mi naona lazima huyo mwanaume atakua anamfaham yule mpiga sim katika njia zisizo halali na akaona either jamaa atampenda mke wake (kwa maana ya kumpenda physicaly) au atamwambia mambo yao huko waliko kutana na uoga wa optiona na b (or even combo) akaamua aue hiyo safari.
    Mke asirudi kwa huyo mwanaume tena, anedelee na maisha yake. Mwambie abusive men wanamaneno matam sana yanaweza kumconvince ila asirudi kabisa!!!
     
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    nyumba kubwa JF-Expert Member

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    Nikisikia mwanaume anampiga mkewe nashindwa kabisa kuelewa. Unampiga ili iweje? Unamfundisha tabia wakati kesha komaa?

    Ila nikisoma hii thread kuna something wrong. Nani alikuwa ana fund hiyo safari? Kama ni foreign institution, naona kuna utata wa kumpa taharifa third part aje amwambie huyo dada kuwa safari imesogezwa. Je huyo jamaa alikuwa ni coordinator? Naona safari imekaa ki informal informal.

    Kingine huyo mdada alikuwa hajuhi tabia za mumewe. Ukijua mumeo ana mawivu ya kupitiliza inabidi uepuke kugawa namba za simu kwa kila mtu.
     
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    Kaaazi kweli kweli! wasameheane, mke arudi nyumbani.
     
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    Ave Ave Maria JF-Expert Member

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    Aisee! Hivi vipondo vimeshamiri sana kwakweli, kwa mtindo huu kuna haja ya kwenda jeshi kabisaa!
     
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    una akili mno wewe.....
    tumesahu hili.kidume kimpe mkeo taarifa kikiwa kama nani??//
     
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