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My thoughts, what are yours?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by The Finest, Aug 29, 2011.

  1. The Finest

    The Finest JF-Expert Member

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    In a successful marriage home is your favorite place to be. Not that "home" here is not the same thing as house', house is where you live; home is what you live in. A house is built by sand, cement and water while a home is built by Love, peace and joy. So, how do we go from having 'manages' to have 'marriages'? Its just not the capacity to get people to stay together that is the important thing, but also the capacity of get people to love being together. And so if we can build strong marriages, we will build strong families. It is sad some people tend to take their careers more seriously than their marriage, but the truth be told; there can hardly be any true career success if your marriage has failed. Marital changes have be know to ruin the best career opportunities

    I think that in the course of marriage, there is nothing that cannot change. But to bet that something will change may be asking for much. Always ask yourself , what if it doesn't change? If the situation remains the same, what are you going to do? People after marriage they usually say, 'He/She saw me the way I was and he/she married me that way, now he/she is demanding that I change'.

    This is the most critical time to stand in integrity and ask, 'Can I really live with this?'. Marriages do not fail because of the things you can live with, marriages fail because of the things you can't live with. Most times, people knew they couldn't live with certain things but they said maybe they could.
     
  2. Rose1980

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    asante
    ntajitaidi nitengeneze home nt haus....
     
  3. daughter

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    bado natafakari,
    tatizo kalugha
     
  4. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Katumia Kingredha chigumu mno hata mimi nimetoka holaaa!
     
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    daughter JF-Expert Member

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    ivi ni sahihi mtu a-sacrifice career for the sake of the marriage?
    mi nadhani bora u-sacrifice career for the sake of love
     
  6. The Boss

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    ngoja tukishafuturu tutarudi kusoma tena lol
     
  7. Mr Rocky

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    Ngoja nikaangalie kama naweza kuelewa kitu maana ametumia kiingletha kigumu
    Nitarudi
     
  8. Makindi N

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    Kiingereza alichotumia sio kigumu, binafsi ni more philosophical...... My point of view lkn...........
     
  9. Nyani Ngabu

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    Hmmm chigumu bana
     
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    oxford????lol
     
  11. Nyani Ngabu

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    More Cantab than Oxford.
     
  12. The Boss

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    oohhhooo na wewe unatuacha wenzio lol

    cantab?????cambridge???????
     
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    Babuyao JF-Expert Member

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    Uhusiano wowote na hasa ndoa inahitaji stamina ya moyo kwa wote wawili. Nje ya hapo goma ni zito!
     
  14. The Finest

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    NN brother acha kuingia mitini najua comment unazo banaa lol!!!
     
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    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    How about Oxbridge...
     
  16. The Finest

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    Nyie watu myie lol hebu wekeni michango yenu
     
  17. Nyani Ngabu

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    The Flyest, ukitaka watu wachangie vizuri usiandike kwa lugha ya Bi Mkubwa.
     
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    Mie nikisoma chizungu kichwa kinauma mno........
     
  19. Makindi N

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    Most marriages are not successful ones kwa sababu, wengi tunaingia kwenye ndoa bila kujiuliza kabla kwanini uoe/uolewe! Ni mkumbo, fashion, fulfilling dreams, kuonyesha kitaa (marafiki hususani wanawake - they value pete za ndoa kuliko NDOA yenyewe). Researches reveal that walio ktk ndoa ni viwembe kuliko wasio ktk ndoa...... Tht answers my qn kwamba wengi tunaingia ktk ndoa bila kujiuliza je nina sababu ya kuoa / kuolewa sasa hv, kwanini nimuoe / olewa huyu na si yule etc......
     
  20. The Boss

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    i know about oxbridge....

    i ask cantab.....lol
     
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