Mwanamke: Dalili zitakazomfanya mpenzi mpya akuone wewe ni kinganganizi !
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Mtambuzi
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Aaaaah gfsonwin, mie sio mhafidhina bana, kama unatofautiana na mimi wewe weka point zako hapa, kamwe sichukizwi na mtu anayetofautiana na mimi, kwani humu tunajifunza wote....... Naomba sana usisite kutoa mtazamo wako bila kujali kama nitafurahi au sitafurahi,....
karibu dada ukumbi ni wako.
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gfsonwin
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kabla sijajaja na mashoka yangu hebu niambie hapa unaongelea wapenzi ambao ndo kwanza ni bf &gf ama ambao wapo kwenye uchumba ama ambao tayari wako ndoani?
gfsonwin
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aahaa! sasa kwanza kabisa sikubalian na wewe kwamba binti kapata rafiki halafu amng'ang'anize eti akamwambie mama yake ama akataka kujikomba kwa mama mkwe. nakukatalia kwasababu mahusiano mapya siku zote huwa tunayafanya siri zaid kukwepa wapaambe.
pia sidhan kama mwanmake atahamia kwa bf pasi bf kuridhia kwasababu anaouwezo wa kumkatalia.
pia sidhan kama mwanmake atahamia kwa bf pasi bf kuridhia kwasababu anaouwezo wa kumkatalia.
nipeukweli
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...sio wanawake wote wenye akili, wengine akishachek tu akaona "uko safi" especially financially, anahamia kwa kisingizio zha kuja kukusaidia domestic work, akupikiepikie, asafishe nyumba nini, atengeneze garden, kimbelembele kweli, ukiwa na gari ndio usiseme, atapenda umdrive kwenda chuo kwa mfano, wakati wewe bado hujafikia consensus na moyo wako kuwa umependa ama umetamani...hii wanawake wasio smart vya kutosha wanafanya saaaana...
ila wanawake nao hukerwa na mambo kama haya from wanaume wanaojaribu kuanzisha mahusiano nao;
mwanamke mwenye akili hapendi kutanguliziwa sana hela mno kama ndiyo kigezo cha kujenga mahusiano
mwanamke mwenye akili hapendi mwanaume ambaye mazungumzo yake yamejaa kujisifu tu na kujaribu kuonesha maisha yako yamejaa success tu wakati ulimwenguni hapa kila mtu shida anapata japo ni kwa zamu. ukipunguza kujifagilia halafu success zako zingine akaanza kuzidiscover moja baada ya nyingine kwa kadiri mnavyozoeana, atakuheshimu
mwanamke mwenye akili hapendi mwanaume ambaye anajaribu kukopi maisha ya mtu au watu flani. moja ya vitu ambavyo mwanamke anahitaji ni mwanaume smart upstairs, sasa kama kila wakati maisha yako yanategemea mawazo ya watu wengine tu huwezi kuwa na maamuzi ya kwako, daah mwanamke anapoteza matumaini na kukuona ni wa kiume tu
wanawake at the first encounters hawapendi kuulizwa kuhusu mipango yao ya baadae ya kimaisha. mkizoeana vizuri akakuamini atakuambia. sio unaonana naye mara ya kwanza kwanza unapiga "where do you see urself in like 3 or 4 yrs to come". si kwamba ladies hawana mipango, ila unamuuliza kwa ajili gani? je, unamuona kama amesinzia kimaisha? hata kama brother una nia safi tu, kwa mara ya kwanza ndivyo mdada atakavyohisi. Patience brother...first encounters are good to talk of career but not to dig so much into it. jitahidi kuwa na casual talks, vitu vya kuleta pumziko kwenye akili, entertaining stuff kama JF hivi...lol
patience brother... a wise lady will lose interest to a brother who shows interest in the lady's body during first encounters. jitahidi sana macho yako yaelekee machoni kwake instead of kifuani kwake (it's a turn off) (yaangalie akiwa hakuangalii labda...lol). however don't forget to tell her she's beautiful...nobody shuts doors to compliments but don't go further than that.
a serious lady hatopenda majina ya "baby" "darling" "honey" "sweety" n.k kama hamjajenga mazoea ya kutosha. haya yakifanywa haraka atakuona ni kiplayboy tu, kisharobaro flani hivi. ataona una kimbelembele cha kutaka kumvuta kwa nguvu kihisia, utaonekana muongo anayetumia the oldest tricks in a book. mwanamke muoneshe kwanza upo nae kirafiki zaidi badala ya kimapenzi, then onesha kwamba unamjali, kama chemistry inakubali, utaona signs na muda muafaka wa kuingia kimalove zaidi.
mwanamke hapendi kufuatiliwa kulikozidi. kwa kawaida wanapenda uwaoneshe una wivu na hupendi ur woman awe wa huko na huko ila ikizidi, ni turn off.
brother kama unawasiliana na mwanamke unayejaribu kumfanya awe mpenzi wako, usiwe ndio kiiiiiiiila mara simu, asubuhi, mchana, jioni, kiiiiiila siku, utamboa na kumpa feeling huna kazi ya kufanya. wanawake wakiwa wanawasimulia wenzao alafu wakasema "my guy is usually busy" (sizungumzii ubize uliopitiliiiiiiza), trust me they say it with pride in them (hata wakinikatalia, ni fact!). coz wakisema hivyo kwa nje, kwa ndani wanasema "my guy has sth to do, he ain't a sit around freak" (hata kama hujaajiriwa, kama unajishughulisha na dira yako inaeleweka, a lady will lyk it)...the opposite of this is a total persona non grata to ladies
don't dare to always insist to a lady (mwenye akili zake lakini) to come to your place...haraka sana atahisi vinginevyo kama hajakuzoea vya kutosha, and she will lose comfort with u.
...kabla sijasahau, usafi wa mwili ni muhimu, tena sana tu...but dnt be a neat freak...acha habari za kujifanya una kinyaa mno, yaani unaona uchafu kidogo pahali (kama mmenda restaurant na kuna vumbi kidogo kwny viti labda) unaoverreact kupita maelezo...in most cases unampa mdada feeling ya kuona kwamba itakuwa ngumu sana kukumaintain na kwamba una a very complicated personality...
dah ni hayo machache from this head, I can stand corrected though...
ila wanawake nao hukerwa na mambo kama haya from wanaume wanaojaribu kuanzisha mahusiano nao;
mwanamke mwenye akili hapendi kutanguliziwa sana hela mno kama ndiyo kigezo cha kujenga mahusiano
mwanamke mwenye akili hapendi mwanaume ambaye mazungumzo yake yamejaa kujisifu tu na kujaribu kuonesha maisha yako yamejaa success tu wakati ulimwenguni hapa kila mtu shida anapata japo ni kwa zamu. ukipunguza kujifagilia halafu success zako zingine akaanza kuzidiscover moja baada ya nyingine kwa kadiri mnavyozoeana, atakuheshimu
mwanamke mwenye akili hapendi mwanaume ambaye anajaribu kukopi maisha ya mtu au watu flani. moja ya vitu ambavyo mwanamke anahitaji ni mwanaume smart upstairs, sasa kama kila wakati maisha yako yanategemea mawazo ya watu wengine tu huwezi kuwa na maamuzi ya kwako, daah mwanamke anapoteza matumaini na kukuona ni wa kiume tu
wanawake at the first encounters hawapendi kuulizwa kuhusu mipango yao ya baadae ya kimaisha. mkizoeana vizuri akakuamini atakuambia. sio unaonana naye mara ya kwanza kwanza unapiga "where do you see urself in like 3 or 4 yrs to come". si kwamba ladies hawana mipango, ila unamuuliza kwa ajili gani? je, unamuona kama amesinzia kimaisha? hata kama brother una nia safi tu, kwa mara ya kwanza ndivyo mdada atakavyohisi. Patience brother...first encounters are good to talk of career but not to dig so much into it. jitahidi kuwa na casual talks, vitu vya kuleta pumziko kwenye akili, entertaining stuff kama JF hivi...lol
patience brother... a wise lady will lose interest to a brother who shows interest in the lady's body during first encounters. jitahidi sana macho yako yaelekee machoni kwake instead of kifuani kwake (it's a turn off) (yaangalie akiwa hakuangalii labda...lol). however don't forget to tell her she's beautiful...nobody shuts doors to compliments but don't go further than that.
a serious lady hatopenda majina ya "baby" "darling" "honey" "sweety" n.k kama hamjajenga mazoea ya kutosha. haya yakifanywa haraka atakuona ni kiplayboy tu, kisharobaro flani hivi. ataona una kimbelembele cha kutaka kumvuta kwa nguvu kihisia, utaonekana muongo anayetumia the oldest tricks in a book. mwanamke muoneshe kwanza upo nae kirafiki zaidi badala ya kimapenzi, then onesha kwamba unamjali, kama chemistry inakubali, utaona signs na muda muafaka wa kuingia kimalove zaidi.
mwanamke hapendi kufuatiliwa kulikozidi. kwa kawaida wanapenda uwaoneshe una wivu na hupendi ur woman awe wa huko na huko ila ikizidi, ni turn off.
brother kama unawasiliana na mwanamke unayejaribu kumfanya awe mpenzi wako, usiwe ndio kiiiiiiiila mara simu, asubuhi, mchana, jioni, kiiiiiila siku, utamboa na kumpa feeling huna kazi ya kufanya. wanawake wakiwa wanawasimulia wenzao alafu wakasema "my guy is usually busy" (sizungumzii ubize uliopitiliiiiiiza), trust me they say it with pride in them (hata wakinikatalia, ni fact!). coz wakisema hivyo kwa nje, kwa ndani wanasema "my guy has sth to do, he ain't a sit around freak" (hata kama hujaajiriwa, kama unajishughulisha na dira yako inaeleweka, a lady will lyk it)...the opposite of this is a total persona non grata to ladies
don't dare to always insist to a lady (mwenye akili zake lakini) to come to your place...haraka sana atahisi vinginevyo kama hajakuzoea vya kutosha, and she will lose comfort with u.
...kabla sijasahau, usafi wa mwili ni muhimu, tena sana tu...but dnt be a neat freak...acha habari za kujifanya una kinyaa mno, yaani unaona uchafu kidogo pahali (kama mmenda restaurant na kuna vumbi kidogo kwny viti labda) unaoverreact kupita maelezo...in most cases unampa mdada feeling ya kuona kwamba itakuwa ngumu sana kukumaintain na kwamba una a very complicated personality...
dah ni hayo machache from this head, I can stand corrected though...
Ritakahama
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wao nipeukweli kweli umeitendea haki id yako vyote ulivosema sina cha kuongeza i salute you
MwanajamiiOne
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Aksante Baba Mtambuzi. Uzi umenyooka baba. Ingawa nashindwa kuilink hiyo ya mwisho na ung'ang'anizi!! My bad huwa ninaichukulia kama ishara ya kutokukubali matokeo ndo maana kila saa wamzungumzia ex wako kumbe kuna element za king'ang'anizi??
Kaunga aksante kwa post yako hiyo ya mwanaume anayependa kutambulisha kwa wazee mapema,...........wa hivyo mie naogopa aisee. Napenda mtu anifahamu na kuridhika kabla hajenda nipeleka kwa wazazi wake.
Kaunga, yes it feels good kutambulishwa but honestly kama unaenda halafu unatambulishwa kama ........Huyu ni rafiki yangu tunasoma wote, tunafanya kazi pamoja (Ilhali weye ulitegemea intro ya chai ya maziwa!)
Kaunga aksante kwa post yako hiyo ya mwanaume anayependa kutambulisha kwa wazee mapema,...........wa hivyo mie naogopa aisee. Napenda mtu anifahamu na kuridhika kabla hajenda nipeleka kwa wazazi wake.
Kaunga, yes it feels good kutambulishwa but honestly kama unaenda halafu unatambulishwa kama ........Huyu ni rafiki yangu tunasoma wote, tunafanya kazi pamoja (Ilhali weye ulitegemea intro ya chai ya maziwa!)
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nipeukweli
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ha haa thanks mkuu jeneneke
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