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Mke wangu ananifuatilia FB

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mwana Mpotevu, Sep 7, 2011.

  1. Mwana Mpotevu

    Mwana Mpotevu Platinum Member

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    Jamani waungwana naomba msaada wenu huyu mke wangu mie simuelewi kabisa.

    mwanzoni mwa mahusiano yetu alikuwa na tabia sana ya kuchunguza simu yangu na hakuwahi kugundua message yoyote mbaya ingawa hata msg isiyo ya kimapenzi ikiingia kwenye simu yangu so long as inatoka kwa mwanamke basi siku hiyo ni vurugu kupita kiasi akidai huyo mwanamke atakuwa bibi yangu ama mpenzi wangu tu. siku mie niliposhika simu yake siku moja, nikagundua msg nyingi za kimapenzi toka kwa wanaume wawili tofauti, anaomba radhi nikamsamehe.

    Baada ya muda alikuwa akinisumbua kwa kudai kuwa mimi nina uhusiano na wanawake chungu tele kuanzia wale ninaofanya nao kazi hadi mtaani. Baada ya kuchunguza nikagundua kumbe yeye ndio ana mahusiano ya kimapenzi na rafiki yangu. mini ni mvumilivu nilimsamehe ingawa ni baada ua kukana sana na mwisho wa siku akakubali. hayo yakaisha mwaka jana.

    Sasa hivi amekuja na mpya. Anasema kila mwanamke ambaye ni rafiki yangu facebook kwamba ni bibi yangu na anakomaa kwelikweli. mie nashindwa hata nimwambie nini ili aamini kuwa mawazo yake sio kweli maana kuna wasichana zaidi ya 1000 kwenye orodha ya marafiki zangu fb na wavulana kama 1000 wengine. kila comment yangu kwa mwanamke yoyote inakuwa ugomvi hauna mfano, kisa eti na comment kwa bibi yangu. kwakweli sina amani kabisa na hali hii inanikosesha raha.

    Naomba waungwana mnisaidie nifanye nini maana nahisi kama anaanza tena kuficha uovu wake kwa kunipakazia mie, nahisi tu hilo sijafanya uchunguzi tena.
     
  2. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Pole kaka...nahisi kama umeolea wenzio tu.
     
  3. Mwana Mpotevu

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    Asante NN lakini sijui kama unajua ndoa na maswahibu yake
     
  4. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Najua kuliko unavyodhani najua. Pole tena.
     
  5. Makindi N

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    Kuna wimbo uliimbwa unaitwa MUME *****......... Au ndo maana halisi ya mume/mke bora hupewa/hutoka kwa Bwana??????????????????? Huo sio uvumilivu....... sijui niseme nikubaliane na NN kwamba ni degree ya juu ya uolewajwi.... yaani umeolewa...........
     
  6. Victoire

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    Pole anayoyafanya anafikiri na ww wafanya.
     
  7. RedDevil

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    Sometimes kumbembeleza nako kunaleta shida. Jaribu kuweka msimamo wako, kama ataendelea mueleze wazi wazi bila kuuma uma maneno yale yanayokukera. Onyo: usimwambie siku akiwa amefura (hayuko kwenye mudi) haitakuwa rahisi kukuelewa.

    Na kama hawezi kukusikiliza, basi ujue anajamaa lingine linampa kiburi, ndo mapenzi ya siku hizi.
     
  8. Mwana Mpotevu

    Mwana Mpotevu Platinum Member

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    Asante and naomba ushauri wako what can I do?
     
  9. Mwana Mpotevu

    Mwana Mpotevu Platinum Member

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    Inawezekana kabisa. Now what can I do?
     
  10. IGWE

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    umeanza kushauri vizuri,...ila umekuja pinda kidogo uliposema eti asubiri mpaka akiwa kwenye mood fresh_oooooooooooh!...hapana,..jamaa kama ni kuumia kaumia na kujeruhiwa papo_mtu mpaka anakuja jua anamegewa halafu anasamehe,.....kama vip achape mwendo kivyake
     
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    haya mambo mengine ni kama story tu,...eti unahisi demu wako hajatulia halaf unazidi ku compromise,.......anyway wengine labda tumeathiliwa na malezi
     
  12. Mwana Mpotevu

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    Thanks RD kwa ushauri
     
  13. Mnene 1

    Mnene 1 Senior Member

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    Inaelekea huyo mkeo hajiamini hata kidogo...Hata kama ana wivu huo wake ni Babu kubwa.
    Kwa hiyo anataka uwe na marafiki wanaume tu?
    Mweleweshe tu, haina haja ya kumbembeleza, kama hataki kuelewa mwamie adhibitishe hayo mawazo/mamemo yake..

    Mkuki kwa nguruwe mtamu kwa binadamu mchungu sio ee...
     
  14. Nyani Ngabu

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    Achana na Facebook.

    Facebook imekuwa chanzo cha mitafaruku mingi sana kwenye mahusiano. Mimi kama mimi sipo huko Facebook. Nipo ila nipo ki JF zaidi. Natumia jina la Nyani Ngabu na hata hivyo sijaingia huko tokea sijui lini..hata sikumbuki.

    Watu huko huuza sura tu. Kila leo wanabandika mapicha yao halafu wanasubiri kumwagiwa misifa...ooh sijui you are beautiful...sijui I miss you...mara you look gorgeous...sasa kaka hebu fikiria kidogo. Yaani kama una mwenzako yuko huko halafu minjemba inamwagia misifa hivyo utapata amani kweli moyoni na akilini mwako? Vivyo hivyo kwako. Kama wachuchu wanakumwagia misifa kem kem mkeo au mpenzio unadhani atakuwa na amani kweli? Mimi sidhani hata kidogo.

    Uamuzi wa mwisho ni wako. Ukiamua kubaki..poa tu...ukiamua kuachana nayo...na yenyewe haina ubaya. Mwisho wa siku pima uone jambo lipi ni la muhimu zaidi na fanya uamuzi kulingana na majibu utakayopata.
     
  15. Mwana Mpotevu

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    IGWE jua kwamba huyu sio demu wangu, ni MKE wa ndoa na hapo ndipo nashindwa nifanye nini na kuamua kuwaomba ushauri
     
  16. Mwana Mpotevu

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    Walau sasa umekuja na ushauri. Nashukuru, nitapima NN
     
  17. Victoire

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    Na wewe huko FB unafanya nn.MIMI MME WANGU MPENZI hayupo FB yuko biz na drawings zake.Na ww funga hiyo FB mkeo apate amani
     
  18. IGWE

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    Ndio uache kuutesa moyo wako_mkeo wa ndoa kwa nn amegwe tena na rafiki yako,...anyway sijui imani yako-kama muislam mlime talka 3 na kama mkristo kama mm mshit kimya kimya
     
  19. Nyani Ngabu

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    Usiache kunijuza maendeleo
     
  20. Mwana Mpotevu

    Mwana Mpotevu Platinum Member

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    Mie Mlutheri, Mke mmoja maisha yote na hapo ndipo pananikosesha amani kila ninapofikiria kumuacha
     
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