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Mhhhh! Bado tuna safari ndefu

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by BAK, Nov 28, 2011.

  1. BAK

    BAK JF-Expert Member

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    Wanawake wasema: Waume zetu wana haki ya kutupiga
    Imeandikwa na Grace Mkojera; Tarehe: 25th November 2011
    Habarileo

    ASILIMIA 47 ya wanawake wanakubali kwamba mume ana haki ya kumpiga mkewe pale mwanamke anapozembea kuangalia watoto.

    Aidha asilimia 29 wanakubali kwamba mume ana haki ya kumpiga mkewe iwapo atakataa kufanya tendo la ndoa na asilimia 20 watapigwa ikiwa wataunguza chakula.

    Taarifa hiyo imo katika hotuba ya Katibu Mkuu Wizara ya Maendeleo ya Jamii, Jinsia na Watoto kwa niaba ya Naibu Waziri wa wizara hiyo, Kijakazi Mtengwa aliyoitoa wakati wa uzinduzi wa kampeni ya siku 16 za kupinga ukatili wa kijinsia zilizofanyika ukumbi wa Don Bosco, Dar es Salaam jana.

    Mtengwa alisema takwimu hizo kutoka utafiti uliofanywa mwaka 2010 na Idara ya Takwimu kuhusu hadhi ya wanawake nchini ulibaini pia asilimia 46 ya wanawake wanaafikia kwamba mume ana haki ya kumpiga mkewe iwapo mke atajibishana naye, asilimia 43 ya wanawake wanaafiki mume ana haki ya kumpiga mkewe kwa sababu ya kuondoka bila kuaga.

    “Hizi ni fikra potofu kwa wanawake na wanaume na zinapaswa kupingwa kwa nguvu zote, Serikali kwa kushirikiana na wadau wake wa maendeleo inafanya jitihada mbalimbali katika kupambana na ukatili dhidi ya wanawake na watoto,” alisema.

    Alisema katika kupambana na tatizo la ukatili wa kijinsia zipo mbinu mbalimbali zinazoweza kutumiwa ili kusonga mbele katika kufikia malengo ikiwa ni pamoja na kutumia mbinu shirikishi jamii ili kuhakikisha kunakuwa na ushiriki wa makundi yote katika jamii, kwa kutumia mbinu hizi wananchi wataweza kubuni mikakati ya kijamii ambayo ndiyo italeta suluhisho la kudumu la tatizo hilo.

    Kwa upande wake Mwenyekiti wa Shirika la Wanawake katika sheria na Maendeleo Afrika (Wildaf), Naomi Kaihula alisema vitendo vya ukatili dhidi ya wanawake sio tu kwamba vinadhoofisha kiafya, bali pia vinaathiri uwezo wao wa kushiriki na kuchangia katika kuleta maendeleo kiuchumi ndani ya familia zao na nchi.

    Takwimu nyingine zinaonyesha kuwa makosa ya ubakaji yamekuwa yakiongezeka kutoka 3,721 mwaka 2002 na kufikia 8,878 mwaka 2007 wakati huo makosa ya ulawiti yaliongezeka kutoka 490 mwaka 2002 kufikia 567 mwaka 2007.

     
  2. Kaunga

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    Utafiti huo ungefanyika humu l mean JF nisingetegemea matokeo tofauti, it is so sad! Safari ni ndefu sana tu.
     
  3. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Nachelea kuamini hayo matokeo ya hizo tafiti lakini tena baada ya kuona mitazamo ya baadhi ya kina dada/wamama wa humu sishangai kabisa.

    It is frightening but then again to each his/her own. After-all, what do I know?
     
  4. Husninyo

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    Huo utafiti hao wanawake walikuwa wanahojiwa wakati wana usingz wa wamelewa. Mtu mzima na akili zako huwezi kukubali mangumi.
     
  5. Kaunga

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    Hussy, utakibali kuacha ndoa yako na watoto kisa mume kakutwanga ngumi kwa kosa ulilofanya? I tell u hata humu humu, baadhi yetu tunaamini, mwanamke akikosea; say kubambwa na SMS from a lover (si ndio kosa kubwa ktk relation) mume ana haki ya kumtwanga!

    Personaly siamini kama kuna kosa lolote ambalo adhabu yake ni kupigwa; kuachwa YES.
     
  6. Husninyo

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    aisee, labda inategemea na malezi. Kuna watu pamoja na kuwa watu wazima bado wanatandikwa na wazazi. Si ajabu hata wakiolewa wataona kupigwa ni jambo la kawaida. Pia mazingira wanayoishi. Wanaona mama zao wanapigwa, inajengeka akilini mwao mwanamke akikosea lazma apigwe.
    Binafsi baada ya kubalehe sijawahi kupigwa tena (ingawa nilikuwa nakosea mara moja moja). Kabla ya hapo sikumbuki kama nimekula vichapo, sijawahi kuona mama amepigwa wala kukaripiwa. Kwangu mimi kupigwa ni kosa kubwa na siwezi kulivumilia hata kidogo.
     
  7. Husninyo

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    @kaunga, kuna wadada wanaaccept vipigo kabla hata hawajaolewa. Ina maana wakiolewa kwao itakuwa ni jambo la kawaida. Mi mapenzi ya vipigo yatanishinda.
     
  8. Nyani Ngabu

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    Wanawake bana...wengine wanajidai hawakubali vipigo lakini infidelity wanaikubali (kwa kusamehe mara sabini)
     
  9. Kaizer

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    kha....hivi Hus, kumbe huwa unabalehe na tayari? mbona mjombako sijui?:photo::poa
     
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    hapo hakuna kipigo sasa....
     
  11. Nyani Ngabu

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    Kubalehe ndo kuvunja ungo?
     
  12. BADILI TABIA

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    wewewewewewewewewewe eti? wanaume wana haki ya kufanya nini? weeeee hawawezi kuwa serious!!!
     
  13. MwanajamiiOne

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    Unategemea nini iwapo wengi wetu hatuzijui hata haki zetu ndani ya ndoa? Utafiti huu ungeenda sambamba na kuangalia kama wanawake wanazielewa haki zao katika mahusiano kisha ndo wahojiwe kama ni sawa kupigwa na mume.
    Bado tunayo safari.
     
  14. Husninyo

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    aunt anajua.
     
  15. Husninyo

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    infi=vipigo?
     
  16. Mungi

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    Mwanamke akitaka kupigwa on her own accord lazima nitamtandika mpaka ataingia uvunguni mwa kitanda
     
  17. Masikini_Jeuri

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    Do so wanakubalia kwa hiyari ............kukung'utwa!
     
  18. Lizzy

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    Mada kama hii iliwahi kuletwa tena kwahiyo hata sishangai. . . plus niliwahi kuweka mada kuuliza nini kinaweza kumfanya mtu amuache mwenzi wake na kipigo hakikupewa priority.

    Mawazo ya "mume ndo mwenye haki" . . . "mume ananimiliki" na kuogopa kuacha/achika ndio vyanzo vya kuona wanastahili kipondo. Inasikitisha kweli.
     
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