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Men and sex

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Kiranja Mkuu, Jun 30, 2011.

  1. Kiranja Mkuu

    Kiranja Mkuu JF-Expert Member

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    Men are frustrated with women
    because they never want sex.
    Women are frustrated with men
    because they always want sex.
    Women blame men they don’t
    know how to love.
    Men blame women that they only
    talk about love but don’t want to
    make it.
    Whether you are a man or a
    woman, reading this article can
    change your life - finally, you will
    be able to get rid of your
    frustrations about the opposite
    gender.
    The reason humans want sex is
    due to the hormone
    testosterone, which is
    predominantly male hormone. A
    normal male’s body produces 20
    times more of this hormone than
    a female’s.
    In other words, a male feels the
    same way after one day without
    sex as a female after 20 days
    without sex. A male that has not
    had sex in 20 days feels the same
    way as a female after more than
    a year without sex.
    Knowing this simple difference,
    you can already understand the
    pain of the opposite gender. It’s
    NOT their fault: they are made
    this way! It’s in our genes! This is
    the reason why men are men
    and women are women.
    Men and women are DIFFERENT.
    Not better or worse, just
    different.
    A man can father a child every
    time he has sex, and a woman
    can only mother a child every
    two years or so. This means, a
    woman HAS TO be picky about
    who she allows to have sex with
    her.
    For generations women were
    paying too high a price for
    making a wrong choice. Women
    that have chosen men with bad
    genes had a weaker offspring
    and their children struggled to
    survive. Women that have chosen
    men with good genes had a
    stronger offspring and their
    children survived
    disproportionally. Those children
    were carrying their picky
    mother’s genes and this is why
    those female genes were passed
    to us.
    On the other hand, men never
    had adverse consequences of
    making a wrong choice. The
    more children they produced, the
    higher was their chance to pass
    their genes to future
    generations, as some of them
    would certainly survive. While
    men were determined to seek
    better genes too, they had to
    grab all chances to procreate
    coming their way to ensure their
    genes would be passed forward.
    The men that ONLY stuck with
    one woman (even a high quality
    woman) were losing genetically
    to the men that used all of their
    opportunities and had many
    more children that survived.
    Those children were carrying
    their father’s promiscuous genes,
    and this is why those male genes
    were passed to us.
    By Nature men are made to seek
    as much sex as they can get, so
    they can spread their seed wider.
    By Nature women are made to
    seek as many admirers as they
    can get, so they can make a
    better choice and get the best
    seed.
    Men seek quantity - women seek
    quality.
    This is why men seek sex and
    women seek love.
    Love is the proof that a woman
    needs to have some assurance
    that the man will stick around
    and help her with the upbringing
    of the offspring. For a woman,
    sex is the culmination of her
    emotional commitment to a man.
    For a man, sex is a physical act
    that eases the testosterone
    pressure he experiences
    constantly. Only after this tension
    has gone, can a man feel love
    towards a woman. This is why it
    often happens that men
    disappear after they got what
    they wanted: it wasn’t love; it
    was the testosterone pressure.
    Sex for men is the reality check of
    their passion.
    This is why having sex early in
    the relationship is hazardous for
    women: the man has not had the
    time to develop any romantic
    feelings for her. He needs time to
    develop those feelings, and the
    only way to do it is through
    keeping the sexual tension going
    for as long as practicable. Sex
    must be attainable, nearly
    possible - but not quite. When
    the sexual tension is at its peak,
    its release is mind-blowing - and
    once is never enough, which lays
    a proper foundation for a future
    relationship – and love.
    Men fall in love through sex;
    women fall in sex through love.
    All of this happens on the
    unconscious level - we do NOT
    realize what’s going on.
    But the reason why you are here
    today and alive is because each
    and every of your ancestors, men
    and women, acted true to their
    instincts and managed to attract
    at least one sexual partner and
    produce an offspring.
    So, there is no need to be bitter
    about men wanting sex and
    women wanting love. Those two
    are the necessary pieces of the
    puzzle called Survival Of The
    Species.
    And you’ll be better off
    understanding what the other
    gender is going through and
    giving them exactly what they
    want: a mind-blowing sex or
    exhilarating love.
    Go get ‘em! :)
     
  2. Sumba-Wanga

    Sumba-Wanga JF-Expert Member

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    Kiranja,

    Good materials... well written, educative.... but....... could not finish it with this mgao...
     
  3. T

    Tata JF-Expert Member

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    What about those married ladies who are loved of course, but still don't feel like doing sex regularly?
     
  4. Tausi Mzalendo

    Tausi Mzalendo JF-Expert Member

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    Read one more time ..... the testestorone factor

    "The reason humans want sex is
    due to the hormone
    testosterone, which is
    predominantly male hormone. A
    normal male's body produces 20
    times more of this hormone than
    a female's.
    In other words, a male feels the
    same way after one day without
    sex as a female after 20 days
    without sex. A male that has not
    had sex in 20 days feels the same
    way as a female after more than
    a year without sex."
     
  5. Bujibuji

    Bujibuji JF-Expert Member

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    mapenzi na ngono havina formula
     
  6. Sumba-Wanga

    Sumba-Wanga JF-Expert Member

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    Ila kuna wanawake wahanga sana!
     
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