Rutashubanyuma
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- Sep 24, 2010
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kwa kifupi kuchunguliwa simu ya mumewe kamwe haitamzuia kufaya mapenzi nje ya ndoa..............................Huyu mwanadada anatuthibitishia hilo.......................
I'll never check my husband's phone
Im getting married tomorrow. And even though Im tying the knot at the end of The Non-Chinese Year Of The Love Rat, I hereby make a solemn pledge.
I will NEVER check my husbands phone.
Because if theres one thing Ive learnt in 2010, its that theres no point. Theres absolutely nothing I can do to stop him having an affair.
It doesnt matter if youre one of the most beautiful, desirable women in the country (see Cheryl and Abbey).
It makes no difference if you devote your life to your husband and family (see Toni, Elin and Mrs Jason Manford) or always have your own thing going on (see Eva Longoria and Coleen).
It doesnt matter if youve been together for many, many years (see Ronan and Yvonne) or just a few (see Sandra Bullock and that idiot).
Apparently if hes going to do it, hes going to do it and nothing you do or dont do will make any difference.
So why drive myself mental, misinterpreting every message in his inbox especially when theres no way of asking for an explanation without the shame of admitting what youve done?
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A friend of mine once had to confess shed been snooping in her blokes phone, because she was so worried by a text from someone saved only as T saying 8pm, hot stuff.
Turned out it was his mate, Tom, reminding him to bring his specially imported extra spicy chilli sauce to their pizza and PlayStation night. I rest my case.
Both my intended and anyone who has ever read a word Ive written about celebrity cheaters knows my policy on infidelity.
Zero tolerance. One strike and youre out the door for ever.
Hes well aware of the consequence and apart from that, theres nothing I can do.
So Im going to hope for the best, and never even peek at his phone.
Plus, obviously, I wouldnt be marrying him if I didnt feel I could trust him.
Mind you, thats probably exactly what Mark Owens wife thought too
Im getting married tomorrow. And even though Im tying the knot at the end of The Non-Chinese Year Of The Love Rat, I hereby make a solemn pledge.
I will NEVER check my husbands phone.
Because if theres one thing Ive learnt in 2010, its that theres no point. Theres absolutely nothing I can do to stop him having an affair.
It doesnt matter if youre one of the most beautiful, desirable women in the country (see Cheryl and Abbey).
It makes no difference if you devote your life to your husband and family (see Toni, Elin and Mrs Jason Manford) or always have your own thing going on (see Eva Longoria and Coleen).
It doesnt matter if youve been together for many, many years (see Ronan and Yvonne) or just a few (see Sandra Bullock and that idiot).
Apparently if hes going to do it, hes going to do it and nothing you do or dont do will make any difference.
So why drive myself mental, misinterpreting every message in his inbox especially when theres no way of asking for an explanation without the shame of admitting what youve done?
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A friend of mine once had to confess shed been snooping in her blokes phone, because she was so worried by a text from someone saved only as T saying 8pm, hot stuff.
Turned out it was his mate, Tom, reminding him to bring his specially imported extra spicy chilli sauce to their pizza and PlayStation night. I rest my case.
Both my intended and anyone who has ever read a word Ive written about celebrity cheaters knows my policy on infidelity.
Zero tolerance. One strike and youre out the door for ever.
Hes well aware of the consequence and apart from that, theres nothing I can do.
So Im going to hope for the best, and never even peek at his phone.
Plus, obviously, I wouldnt be marrying him if I didnt feel I could trust him.
Mind you, thats probably exactly what Mark Owens wife thought too
