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Mambo ya Ndoa

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by komred, Nov 2, 2010.

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    komred Member

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    Swali langu, je kuna ubaya au uzuri kuwasiliana na Ex-boyfriend/Ex-girlfriend wako kwa nia njema wakati tayari ukiwa kwenye Ndoa?
    Toa Maoni yako
     
  2. Mu-sir

    Mu-sir JF-Expert Member

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    Hakuna urafiki na ex-yeyote baada ya kuachana it will lead you to remember and even act as partners.
     
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    kisoti Member

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    Vyote vipo, ubaya na uzuri depending on your perspective as well as motive behind your communication. In short there is no correct or wrong answer to your question.Thanks
     
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    Wakuchakachua JF-Expert Member

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    mmmmh ya nini kuwa na mawasiliano????? mimi siamin kabisa na sishauri kwa wanandoa kuwasiliana na ma x zao its non sense kwanza kama mlikuwa mnapendana kwa nin msiendeleeeee na mapenzi yenu, jihadharini yaweza leta shida kwenye ndoa zenu.....:nono:
     
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    Speaker JF-Expert Member

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    inategemea kwa nini mliachana,katika hali gani na kuwasiliana kwenu kutaleta nini baadae
     
  6. DaMie

    DaMie JF-Expert Member

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    Mawasiliano kwa nia njema sawa, vinginevyo mhhh
     
  7. Rose1980

    Rose1980 JF-Expert Member

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    mawasiliano ya nia njema?kwa kipimo kip?
    achen utan jaman
    km unataka past we nenda tu km upo na miimi kuwa na mimi
    mawasiliano juu ya nin?ungekufa suppose izo shda zake angemwambia nan?
    ur the only pbm solver to her/him bila wewe maisha hayaend kwake?
    hakuna lolote apo ....wakiwasiliana siku 1 mbili basi wanachekeana tu..jamaan wewe lakin....jaman wew yan nkikumbuka ...sjawai pata mwngne tena anaenifanyia km vile yan..ingawa umeolewa lakn aman na moyo wangu upo kwako .....bibie anajibu et eennh???..apo tena venue inatafutwa fasta wanaenda kuchanjana uko......ahhh mi stak
    km kuna ulichosahahu nenda mazima mpango wa kujifanya unapenda sana historia stak mie!!!!!!!!
     
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    MTWA JF-Expert Member

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    Hakuna biashara hiyo!!!!. ukimtaka achana na huyo umwendee tena, ya nini kurudia kunusa excreta yako. Inawezekana?!!!
     
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    Ahungu Member

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    Rafiki,
    Masuala ya Ndoa kwa wengi ni masuala ya imani - "faiith" . Ndoa ni kuvuka daraja na kulivunja. Hurudi nyuma! Sijui dini yako inasemaje. Rejea kwenye vitabu vya imani yako. Kama Muislamu tafadhali rejea Kuruani na Sunna tafadhali. Mambo yote yako wazi! Kwa Ex-boy au Girl friend - unataka nini tena?
    RA
     
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    Ahungu Member

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    Rafiki,
    Masuala ya Ndoa kwa wengi ni masuala ya imani - "faiith" . Ndoa ni kuvuka daraja na kulivunja. Hurudi nyuma! Sijui dini yako inasemaje. Rejea kwenye vitabu vya imani yako. Kama Muislamu tafadhali rejea Kuruani na Sunna tafadhali. Mambo yote yako wazi! Kwa Ex-boy au Girl friend - unataka nini tena?
    RA
     
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    Mama Big JF-Expert Member

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    Aaagh jamani wajua tena hatukuachana kwa ubaya na hata hivyo my ex- sio mbaya kwa kila kitu ni sababu tuu za kimiundombinu ndio zilipelekea tuachane mi sioni ubaya na hata akitaka nimpe vitu tena nampa kama ye ni mkali na ndie ananifikisha kwa nini tusiwasiliane..... na isitoshe true love never die
     
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    Ngo JF-Expert Member

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    Uliolewa kwa mtu unayempenda au uliolewa ili mradi uonekane na wewe umeolewa? Tatizo la watu lama nyie ndoa ni kama ushabiki, uliona shoga yako kaolewa na wewe unaona umri unaenda B/F wako hana mpango na wewe ndo ukakimbilia kwa huyo uliyenaye kwa sasa?

    Siamini kama kuna wanawake wa namna kama yako wameolewa na wanadiliki kusema maneno kama yako, kwa maelezo yako upo kimasilahi sana kwa huyo mwanaume aliyekuowa kuliko Upendo wa kweli. Unategemea Ukimwi utakuponya kwa tabia yako hiyo? Chunga Ndoa yako dada ya kale yamepita shika ulichonacho, Uliye naye ndo mumeo. Kama Ulikuwa unampenda huyo B/F wako basi mungeowana bila kujali matatizo yaliyojitokeza maaana matatizo ya miundombinu mlitakiwa muitatue wote wawili.

    Ama kweli Infidelity haiishi kwa baadhi ya watu. Hasa kama nyie na Ukimwi hautaisha maana watu bado mnaendekeza kula matapishi. Kama vile una matatizo katika ndoa yako vile au hujaolewa NINI?

    Pole sana na Mungu akuguse ubadili tabia na mtizamo wako katika maisha na hasa suala zima la mahusiano.
     
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    LD JF-Expert Member

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    Kweli Rose hata mimi nakuunga mkono 100%
     
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    Luveshi Senior Member

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    samahani lucy damas,
    hujasoma st. thereza of avila?
     
  15. Ulimate4

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    Ukishaoa au kuolewa, inakubidi usahau au kujiepusha na mawasiliano ex.bfrnd + ex.g.frnd ili kujua mustakbal mzima wa maisha yako ndoa ,na ni namna gani mnaweza kuudumisha,ili kuepukana vishawi vinavyoweza kuharibu ndoa yenu,kuwasilia watu wa aina hiyo ,sio salama kwa ndoa yako ata kama ni kwa uzuri,ni wakuepukwa.
     
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    Maria Roza JF-Expert Member

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    Kama unaipendana kuiheshimu ndoa yako ni tusi kubwa sn kuwasiliana na Ex:nono:
     
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