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Mama alinyanyaswa.

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Ziltan, Oct 7, 2011.

  1. Ziltan

    Ziltan JF-Expert Member

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    Habari wana jf,
    kwanza nna majonzi kwani yapata wiki tatu sasa tangu tumuage mama yetu mzazi,
    ila jambo linalonifanya niendelee kukosa furaha ni kwamba mama alinyanyaswa na shemeji (mke wa kaka tumbo moja) kwa kumtolea maneno makali na kwa kumnyima chakula kaka akiwa hayupo,
    ni hivi kaka na mkewe(shemeji yangu) wote ni waajiriwa serikalini ila wapo wilaya tofauti ndani ya mkoa mmoja, shemeji ndio anaishi walipojenga na ndipo mama alienda kukaa kwa ajili ya matibabu,
    kutokana na umbali kaka huwa anakaa kituoni kwake na kurudi nyumbani siku ya ijumaa jioni na kuondoka jumapili jioni hivyo wakati kaka hayupo, shemeji alimfanyia mama huo unyanyasaji,
    mchezo wake aliupanga hivi, akiwepo kaka ataonesha upendo wa hali ya juu kwa mama na hata watu wengine waliopo yaani siku hiyo yuko tayari hata kuwabeba mgongoni kuwapeleka popote, pia vyakula na vinywaji vitakavyo andaliwa hapo ntafikiri ni bethdei ya mtoto wa Mengi kwani kaka kabahatika kupata kazi na nafasi yenye pesa achilia mbali pesa ya mkewe,
    huyu shemeji tukipita pale kwake hutuoneshea upendo wa hali ya juu kwa kutuita majina kama vile sweethert,dear nk jambo ambalo ni changa la macho kwa vitendo anavyomfanyia mama.
    Jambo la kumuangalia mama hatukumuachia kaka peke yake
    sote tulishirikiana kwa pamoja kwani kila mmoja katika familia yetu ana ajira yake na hakuna anayemtegemea mwenzie,
    nilipogundua unyanyasaji huu nilipanga kumchukua mama ili niishi naye baada ya kuhitimu chuo kwan ndio nimehitimu mwezi wa saba shahada yangu
    ya kwanza na nilikuwa tayar ni mwajiriwa,
    ila wakati nahitimu mama alikuwa katika kipindi kigumu sana katika maisha yake cha kupambana na maradhi hadi yalipomchukua,
    nyumbani kwetu wote kila mmoja anajitegemea nyumbani kwake mikoa tofauti na hivyo mama alikosa kampani nyumbani na hivyo tulimshawishi sana kuwa anatutembelea na ndipo huu unyanyasaji ulimpata, ingawa aliishi pia kwa kaka zangu wengine hapakuwepo na tatizo lolote,
    huu unyanyasaji ninaouzungumzia ndugu zangu wanautambua isipokuwa kaka
    JAMBO nililoamua ni kwamba ntampigia shemeji simu kumtaka anipe majibu juu ya unyanyasaji alioufanya kwa mama,na kwa kuwa hakutaka mama ale wala kunywa chochote nyumbani kwake basi mimi ntachukua hiyo dhamana ya kutokula ,kutokunywa wala kulala nyumbani kwao,
    sababu pia ni kwamba mimi kama kijana wa mwisho ndio nilikuwa na jukumu la kukaa na mama lakini sikubahatika kufanya hivyo na matokeo yake ndio hayo mama akaishia kunyanyaswa,
     
  2. Laigwanan76

    Laigwanan76 JF-Expert Member

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    Poleni sana,hao ndio wake zetu mkuu,machoni kama watu mioyoni hawana utu........kuna viumbe wa ajabu sana duniani......mimi nina mke wa marehemu baba yangu mkubwa,baada ya huyu baba kufa,mkewe akasema kilichokuwa kiunganishi kimeondoka hivyo kila m2 aangalie mambo yake,na hayo maneno mlengwa ni mkwewe yaaani mama wa marehemu.....kaazi kweli kweli!........ucjali sana walimwemwengu wanasema malipo hapa hapa duniani kwani naye yatamfika siku yake ikifika,sawa bin sawia!

     
  3. MAMMAMIA

    MAMMAMIA JF-Expert Member

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    Kwanza pole sana Mkuu kwa kuondokewa na mama. Mungu amlaze pahali pema.
    Nahisi kama umechelewa kuchukua hatua wakati huu mama ameshaondoka. Ulipaswa kuliweka wazi hilo mapema kabla hajaaga dunia, na sio kwa shemeji yako bali kwa kaka yako kama una ubavu; vyenginevyo bora unyamaze. Kumweleza shemeji yako, anaweza kukugombanisha na kaka yako
     
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    BPM JF-Expert Member

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    pole sana mkuu kwa msiba mzito ulioupata wa kuondokewa na mzazi
     
  5. ENZO

    ENZO JF-Expert Member

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    Pole sana mkubwa ....... Huyo shemeji yako ni muuaji!!
     
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    peri JF-Expert Member

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    Pole sana mkuu. Ndivyo wanadamu walivyo.
    Usiumie sana roho kwani malipo ni hapahap duniani.

    NOTE: Kwa watakao oa/kuolewa wawe makini kuchagua wenza kwani hili linatokan na kuwa na mwenza mbaya maishani.
     
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    shosti JF-Expert Member

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    mbona mmechelewa jamani,saa hizi mnatafutana ubaya tu
     
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    1menARMY Member

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    Pole sana mkuu,ilahamjamtendea haki kaka yenu,mwelezeni ajua mapungufu ya mkewe ili ajiandae kama mama kafanyiwa hivyo haitashindikana kwake pia
     
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    daughter JF-Expert Member

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    Pole kwa msiba
     
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    Natalie Senior Member

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    Pole sana Bro, dah, kuna binadamu wa ajabu sana Duniani, asipoomba msamaha, malipo ni hapahapa Duniani.
     
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    Mamaya JF-Expert Member

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    pole sana kaka,vumilia mkuu na yote mwachie mungu.malipo ni hapa hapa duniani.
     
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    The Boss JF-Expert Member

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    du haya mafindo findo yanaweza kuwasambaratisha aisee
     
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    Likwanda JF-Expert Member

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    Dah, Ubinadamu Kazi Sana, pole sana najua inakuuma sana ingawa yameshatokea. Yaani suala lakumpata mke mwema Mungu Atuongoze Sana.
     
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    Rutashubanyuma JF-Expert Member

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    Tukumbuke ya kuwa..............................."The righteous perish and no one takes it to heart. The merciful are being taken away and no one considers that the righteous are being taken away from evil." Isaiah 57:1
     
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    shalis JF-Expert Member

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    kwanza pole kwa msiba mzito uliokupata...
    pili taarifa za kuwa mama yako alipatwa na maswahibu hayo ndio maana alifariki ni nani aliyekueleza
    na kama ni yeye kwann hukuchukua hatua mapema mpaka ameshafariki ,
    kama si yeye huyo aliyekueleza kwann asubiri mpaka mama afariki ndo aseme kama kweli ni mkweli kwako?
    ANGALIZO:Mama ameshafariki ndugu mliobaki ni ww na kak na wengine acheni ya mama maisha yaanze upya
    huku mkishirikiana kwa upendo huku mkijenga familia bora zaidi kwani ufa unaotaka kuujenga hapo unaweza sababisha hata vizazi vyenu kutengana trust me na hiyo ni picha mbaya sna...Nawasilishwa
     
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    TUNTEMEKE JF-Expert Member

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    pole kwa msiba mkuu. ubinadamu kazi watu wengine wanataka choyo na roho mbaya ziwatawale lkn wengine wanjitahidi kucontrol hiyo hali
     
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    Zedikaya Senior Member

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    SHALIS hujaelewe hiyo mada rudia kuisoma,
    hajasema kuwa unyanyasaji ndio ulikuwa chanzo cha huyo mamaao kuaga dunia,
    ila alifanyiwa,
    pia ninavyoamini huyo mnyanyasaji anapaswa kujibu,
    na ni sahihi kufatilia jambo kama hilo,
    pia mtoa mada anadai baada ya kuona tatizo alipanga kumchukua mamaake kama suluhisho salama la tatizo na sio kumwambia kakaake agombane na mkewe ndo mamayao aishipo kwa amani?
     
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    Gm32 Member

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    shalis JF-Expert Member

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    Zedika ok, upo sawa mno
    je akishafuatilia na mnyanyasaji akijibu mashtaka ..whats next either kakataa au kakubali
    naona kama vile ana deal ana vitu vilivyo kwisha muda na atakacho kifanya ni kuongeza ufa na si kuuziba
    awe makini sana jinsi ya ku handle hii ishu unless awa na ushahidi tosha kuwa hata kama hakufa kwa ajili hiyo alinyanyaswa ...mmh mim kwa binafsi siwezi ku deal na hiyo ishu i will leave it na nifnaye mambo yangu mengine ...stop
     
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    MADAM T JF-Expert Member

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    Naomba nikupe pole kwa msiba, lakini mpaka sasa hivi sijakuelewa kama ulikuwa unajua mama ananyanyaswa kwanini ulikuwa humuambiii kakayako? Huoni kama na wewe umeshiriki katika kumnyanyasa mama yako? Naomba majibu tafadhali...maana malalamiko unayoyatoa hapa ni too late ingeleta maana sana kama umngemuambia kaka yako mapema.....
     
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