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Maisha ya Ndoa ni Simba na Yanga?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Sumba-Wanga, Oct 5, 2011.

  1. Sumba-Wanga

    Sumba-Wanga JF-Expert Member

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    Jamani wana jamvi, hili linatusumbua sana. Utashangaa wakati wa uchumba na urafiki watu wanakuwa na mapenzi tele, wanakumbatiana na mengine mengi! wanapendana na kuambiana you mean the world to me!

    Shida inakuja baada ya kufunga ndoa! Wakiwa kwenye gari utajua tu ni mke na mume. Vile vicheko vya zamani vimekwisha, kukimbizana, kukumbatiana kwa mbinde? shida iko wapi? Utakuwa wanawake wengi kama sisi tunabaki kuangalia cinema za kina Ramsey wa Nigerai na Kanumba za Tanzania kukumbushia mapenzi! Tunakuwa tunajifariji na kuona ile ndio reality!

    Recent study in America imeonyesha kuwa couples wengi wenye maisha mazuri na kuelewana na wale WALIOFANIKIWA KUBAKI MARAFIKI BAADA YA NDOA ZAO. Wenghi wetu tuliweka urafiki kando, tukawa na maisha ya kupaniana, kukomoana, na wakati mwingine kila anachofanya mwenzako unaona ni kosa. Jiulize, jambo hilo hilo analofanya mwenzako kama ungelichukulia positive na kuongea naye kwa upole, wala msingekwanzana.

    wana JF, hasa wale ambao hawajaingia kwenye ndoa, jitahidini sana kubaki marafiki, mkivunja urafiki na mkawa MKE NA MUME, wait for countlessc sleepless nights!
     
  2. Felixonfellix

    Felixonfellix JF-Expert Member

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    Una hoja mkuu
     
  3. Shostito

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    Cha msingi mnapokuwa kwenye ndoa ni kila mmoja(mke na mume) a'stiki kwenye wajibu wake kama mwanandoa kwa mwenzi wake hapo mtaishi kwa furaha.
     
  4. Cantalisia

    Cantalisia JF-Expert Member

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    Jamani mie kila nikiingia humu nakutana na matatizo ya ndoa tena yanahuzunisha, wekeni basi na sred za mambo mazuri ya ndoa japo mtume moyo wale amabo hatujaolewa tuwe na hamu ya kuolewa,hizi nyingi zinakatisha tamaa jamani,kwan huwa kinatokea nn hasa mpaka ule upendo wa mwanzo unaisha?
     
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    slym Member

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    mimi nimesoma hii sredi kuna mtu alikuwa anataka nioa nikamwambia subiri kwanza! mnatutisha!!
     
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    feis buku JF-Expert Member

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    hizi jinsia za suruali zinamatatizo jamani!
     
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    Mamaa Kigogo Senior Member

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    yani sio wanamatatizo wana mijitatizo wanaitaji maombezi tena sana otherwise no solutions which will make them to change
     
  8. TUNTEMEKE

    TUNTEMEKE JF-Expert Member

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    tatizo watu hawapo real everybod is untrue mwisho wasiku watu wanapotoa makucha yao wanashindwana kujifek kwingi jmn
     
  9. Nzowa Godat

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    Jiulize kwa nini mfungisha ndoa/padre/n.k, anawaapisha kuwa wavumilivu? ana maana kuvumilia raha? NI SHIDA! walakini usiogope kuolewa, jitose tu.
     
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    punainen-red JF-Expert Member

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    fb unamaanisha jinsia gani hizo?? Maana wote ni wavaa suruali! Na mtoa mada hajaongelea jinsia, kaongelea wenye ndoa...
     
  11. Mr Rocky

    Mr Rocky JF-Expert Member

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    Jinsia za wavaa suruali a.k.a wanaume hatuna matatizo. matatizo yapo kwenu nyie tuu na mengine mnayaleta wenyewe wala sio ya kwetu
    Mbona sisi tuko poa sana
     
  12. bulldoza

    bulldoza Senior Member

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    Yeah mi nataka niseme na walio kwenye ndoa jaribuni sana kurudisha ule urafiki wa mwanzo ndani ya nyumba zenu bado ni rafiki huyo mwenzi wako...wanawake/wanaume msiwachukie wandani wenu wala msiwe na uchungu nao sameheaneni makosa yenu yote nyie wawili wala msikimbilie wachenga na makorokoro yote .....Nyumba yenu iwe nyumba ya sala.. ombeaneni bila kuchoka.....na mahitaji yenu yote yajulikane na baba yenu wa mbinguni...
     
  13. bulldoza

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    Nakukubali sana kaka Rocky,mkeo ni wachache waliobahatika ...ila nasikitika kuwa halijui hilo...
     
  14. bulldoza

    bulldoza Senior Member

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    Catalisia wale ambao wako nje ya ndoa shetani hana shida nao sababu anajua wale ni wake......Kazi /vita inaanza na baada tu ya kutoka kanisani mama....kama huna Mungu unaweza ujute...lakini ukimtanguliza yeye mambo yote simple tu ..na si kweli kama ndoa zote zina matatizo kivile basi tu wengine temper zinakuwa juu ndio anayaleta huku...DEVIL IS A LIER HE WANTS TO DESTROY THIS GENERATION ...Just this ...NDOA NI NJEMA ASIKWAMBIE MTU NA TENDO LILE LINANOGA NDANI YA NDOA
     
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    charndams JF-Expert Member

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    100%. Kuigaiga mpaka hata visivyo igika. wajisaili kwanza wajue wapi walipoipotezea ramani.
     
  16. bulldoza

    bulldoza Senior Member

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    so your back its gud to see your writing again
     
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    charndams JF-Expert Member

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    unapewa facts ili ukijitosa uwe tayari umejiwekea misingi ya kukabiliana nayo. lakini asikudanganye mtu, maisha ya ndoa matamu ajabu. kinachohitajika tu ni understanding coz watu wanapokuwa katika uchumba huwa wanaficha makucha. wakioana tu ndo utajua kweli urefu wa makucha ya mwenzio. utadiscover weakness nyingi sana kumhusu mwenza wako. itabidi uvumilie.
     
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    charndams JF-Expert Member

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    am back sir, once in a while i am hooked up tight. thanks
     
  19. bulldoza

    bulldoza Senior Member

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    i see ok then enjoy urself son
     
  20. ndyoko

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    Simkumbuki ni mdada gani alitoa hii kauli ntamkumbuka humu jamvini milele: 'Mwanamke hufikiria mwanaume atabadilika na mwanaume hufikiria kwamba mwanamke hatabadilika'. Kwangu hii kauli ina maana kubwa sana, hebua angalia na hii: "when a woman gets married she attains a Master whereas a Man losses his Bachelor". Teheheheheeeeee! Tatizo la wanawake mkishaolewa ndo mnaona basi ni wakati wenu sasa kumrekebisha mwanaume. Ziataanza kanuni na taratibu za ajabu ajabu hapo mpaka njemba unaanza kujuta why ulimuoa huyu demu.

    Ila wenye busara zao, akhaa, wanenda taratibu mpaka mwanaume unajishtukia.
     
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