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Lawama nimpe Nani?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by MwanajamiiOne, Sep 30, 2011.

  1. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Wapendwa hamjambo?

    Ninaomba mnisaidie kufikiri maana sasa naiona dunia ya mapenzi kama uwanja wa fujo tu ambao natamani kama ningeweza kujiepusha nao niuepuke.

    Nimesoma na kusikia visa vingi sana vya mapenzi ila ambacho ninashindwa kukielewa lawama nimtupie nani ni hiki cha mtu na shemeji yake!! Yaani iwe
    1. mke kutembea na shemeji yake i.e. kaka/mdogo/binamu wa mume wake
    2. Mume kutembea na shemejiye i.e. dada/mdogo/binamu wa mkewe.

    (Nimewaexclude marafiki kwa kuwa nahisi wao hawaangukii kwenye huu mshangao wangu).

    Je kosa ni la nani kati ya hawa?
     
  2. BADILI TABIA

    BADILI TABIA JF-Expert Member

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    wanaojijua kuwa ni mtu na shemejie halafu wakafanya zinaa. Lawama i-juu yao.
     
  3. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Na adhabu gani unawapa Badili Tabia?
     
  4. Albedo

    Albedo JF-Expert Member

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    Lawama kwa wote na wanastahili kutengwa na Jamii
     
  5. Tulizo

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    MJ1 ..umemsahau mtu wa tatu. ambaye yupo kati yao..anaitwa Sheeeetani!

    Ukiwa rafiki na huyu jamaa anakubadili akili na kuwa punguani au **** hadi unaweza kutembea na mtoto wako au mama yako mzazi..
     
  6. Zanta

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    Shetani angekua anaongea wengi wangeumbuka..! watu wanamsingizia sana! kuhalalisha ubazazi wao!
     
  7. Zanta

    Zanta JF-Expert Member

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    kusema wote wanamakosa inategemea na situation yenyewe, maana kuna sometimes mtu unafanyiwa visa mpaka unashindwa kupata suluhu, maana kusema kwa shemeji yako inakua ngumu ukiogopa kuvunja ndoa ya kaka au dada yako. ndo maana sa ingine mtu unasema "kubali yaishe"
     
  8. Katavi

    Katavi Platinum Member

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    Wote ni wakulaumiwa, adhabu kama alivyosema mchangiaji mmoja hapo juu ni kuwatenga na jamii kama inawezekana.
     
  9. Zanta

    Zanta JF-Expert Member

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    Hata mahakamani kuna sheria ya "kuua bila kukusudia" kwa hiyo lazima tuangalie situation ilikuwaje mpaka ikapelekea hayo!
     
  10. Nyamayao

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    hapo labda iwe amebakwa otherwise wote wana makosa makubwa sana! alikutongoza ungeniambia/nijulisha...visa kama vipi hapo vya kufanya utembee na shem wako?...ukiona watu wana mahusiano kama haya ujue wameamua kufanya, hakuna cha shetani wala ibilisi...cjui kama ntaweza wasamehe wote wawili.
     
  11. Bishanga

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    MJ1 yote haya yanategemea na mazingira.Kuna couple moja naifahamu (tena ni wanene serikalini) mama aliolewa mimba ikawa haishiki,kupima akaambiwa hali si hali,all she did alikwenda kijijini akamleta mdogo wake wa kuzaliwa,tunavyoongea mme keshamzalisha watoto wawili na mahari ishatolewa.Mke mkubwa ana nyumba yake na mdogo ana nyumba yake.MJ1 hapa siongelei 1947 naongelea 2011.
     
  12. Zanta

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    Lakini ukumbuke kua kufanya mapenzi na mtoto chini ya miaka kumi nane ni kubaka hata kama walikubaliana si ndio?
     
  13. Nyamayao

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    hapa hatuongelei under age, 2fanye ni wa2 wazima na akili zao, amebakwa, na wa2 wazima nao c wanaweza kubakwa? hiyo ya kubakwa ntaielewa but sio wameshafanyaa weee nije nijue, hapo hakutakuwa na msamaha kwa wote wawili!...tabia mbaya sana sana hiyo!
     
  14. clet 8

    clet 8 JF-Expert Member

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    Ni ngumu kutoa hukumu moja kwa moja, ktk hili inategemea v2 vingi mfano mazingira na ukaribu kwa kuhusisha hiv vichahche ndo waweza kuhukumu
     
  15. Cantalisia

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    Wote ndio mashetani wenyewe adhabu yao kufungwa jiwe la kusagia shingon na kutupwa baharin, kama atakuwa amebakwa basi mbakaji adhabu yake ni kuchemshwa kwenye pipa la mafuta mpaka aishie huko.
     
  16. Nyamayao

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    haya nadhani yalikuwa makubaliano.....
     
  17. Bishanga

    Bishanga JF-Expert Member

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    pamoja na hayo unadhani ni makubaliano rahisi kuyafikia? kuna mfano mwingine hai ningekutolea lakini nahisi utanila nyama,ngoja nijinyamazie tu.
     
  18. Mzee

    Mzee JF-Expert Member

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    Zinaa ni uchafu haijalishi unazini na nani?
    Mwanandoa kuzini ni kosa haijalish kazini na nan?
    Wote wanamakosa!!
     
  19. MwanajamiiOne

    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Aksanteni nimewaelewa ni kweli hata mie ninavyoelewa ni kuwa wote wana makosa na hili ni fundisho kubwa nililolisoma hapa hapa JF. Zamani nilikuwa natupa lawama kwa wanawake. Kwa nini walikubali ilhali wanajua kuwa ni shemeji zao! sijui ndo nilikuwa najikubalisha kuwa victim is the one to be blamed kila siku?! Mwe aksanteni wana JF.

    Hapo kwenye adhabu hapo, kwa trend hii tuliyo nayo sijui tutawatenga wangapi? Au ndo tuamue wengi waangamie ili kusafisha jamii??!
     
  20. Bigirita

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    Makosa yatakuwa ya mwenza wa aliyemega au kumegwa.............kama humpi kitu ambayo akikaa ofisini anacheka mwenyewe unategemea nini???!!!
    haijalishi kala/kaliwa na nani..........issue inabaki pale pale.......kaliwa/kala!!
     
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