jockey emmanuel
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- Mar 23, 2011
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Empathy,imagination,tact-all are ingredients of COURTESY which da dictionary defines it as 'gracious politeness...a considerate act or remark'.Ralph Emerson penetrated 2 da very heart of da word wen he wrote,"Love z da basis of courtesy"...ona marriage counsellor said dat a lack of courtesy on da part of HUZB OR WYF z da basic cauz of estrangements,quarrels n separation in married lyf.
a lack of courtesy also allows a coldnec 2 develop btn parents n their children,n cnc courtesy z born in da atmosphere of da home,children in a large measure reflect da atmosphere they grew up in as they relate 2 others thruout lyf...a leisurely,gracious n hap atmosphere will teach them more abt hw 2 liv than a dozen commands.s'tymz we get da curious idea dat we shuld b courteous 2 folks outsyd our family bt hme it daznt matter.one mom was shocked wen ha smol douta said,"mama,i wish u wuld b as nyc 2 us as u're 2 other ppo"...suddenly dic mom bcame aware dat she really treated ha family dfferent frm da way she treated ha frndz,n she vowed 2 change.
courtesy shuld b a rule in every home,it shuld b manifested thru kindnec even wen misteks are made..courtesy will soften n help 2 solve misunderstandings.It will guard da ton of voic,it will recognyz da worth of each family member..we ought 2b as courteous 2 da members of our immediate family as we wuld b 2 strangers...da majority of da world's harsh,insultng woeds are spoken 2 loved ones-wives,huzbs,children-who will 4gv even wen they're treated unkindly,giv a smyl instd of a snarl;appreciation instd of critcsm.
we dnt stamble in2 bng gentlemen n ladies,da home dat has no tym 4 courtesy will hav tym 4 rudenec,da home dat daznt tek tym 4 compliments will hav tym 4 complaints,da home dat has no tym 4 smylz will hav tym 4 frowns,n da home dat has no tym 4 cwt-luvng words will hav tym 4 harsh-critical words.we must choose 2b courteous n develop da dscipline of courtesy each day...Courtesy goz hand-in-hand with tolerance,n tolerance can b dscribed as 'da virtue of bng able 2 luk at da facts of lyf with one's heart instd of with one's eyes'...courtesy can help us 2 get more out of lyf,INVEST IN IT AND THE RETURNS WILL B SOUL-SATISFYING...TC A POWER 4 GUD DATC WITHIN DA REACH OF OL OF US!!!... BY MORRIS CHALFANT
a lack of courtesy also allows a coldnec 2 develop btn parents n their children,n cnc courtesy z born in da atmosphere of da home,children in a large measure reflect da atmosphere they grew up in as they relate 2 others thruout lyf...a leisurely,gracious n hap atmosphere will teach them more abt hw 2 liv than a dozen commands.s'tymz we get da curious idea dat we shuld b courteous 2 folks outsyd our family bt hme it daznt matter.one mom was shocked wen ha smol douta said,"mama,i wish u wuld b as nyc 2 us as u're 2 other ppo"...suddenly dic mom bcame aware dat she really treated ha family dfferent frm da way she treated ha frndz,n she vowed 2 change.
courtesy shuld b a rule in every home,it shuld b manifested thru kindnec even wen misteks are made..courtesy will soften n help 2 solve misunderstandings.It will guard da ton of voic,it will recognyz da worth of each family member..we ought 2b as courteous 2 da members of our immediate family as we wuld b 2 strangers...da majority of da world's harsh,insultng woeds are spoken 2 loved ones-wives,huzbs,children-who will 4gv even wen they're treated unkindly,giv a smyl instd of a snarl;appreciation instd of critcsm.
we dnt stamble in2 bng gentlemen n ladies,da home dat has no tym 4 courtesy will hav tym 4 rudenec,da home dat daznt tek tym 4 compliments will hav tym 4 complaints,da home dat has no tym 4 smylz will hav tym 4 frowns,n da home dat has no tym 4 cwt-luvng words will hav tym 4 harsh-critical words.we must choose 2b courteous n develop da dscipline of courtesy each day...Courtesy goz hand-in-hand with tolerance,n tolerance can b dscribed as 'da virtue of bng able 2 luk at da facts of lyf with one's heart instd of with one's eyes'...courtesy can help us 2 get more out of lyf,INVEST IN IT AND THE RETURNS WILL B SOUL-SATISFYING...TC A POWER 4 GUD DATC WITHIN DA REACH OF OL OF US!!!... BY MORRIS CHALFANT
